It has been said: don't waste precious time chasing horses, when you plant a grassland, there will be horses for you to choose from.
I want to say to girls, I like someone, if you come to me in a relationship, you can get the appreciation of the other party, and when you come together, you are worth being happy and continue to invest;
But the scene is that the falling flowers are ruthless, and if you like someone, you don't have to be in a hurry to please.
The generation of love depends on the attraction of two people to each other, if you blindly lower your posture to please the other half, not only can you not have the ideal love, but also may have the opposite effect, pushing the other party farther and farther away.
If you want a man to take the initiative to give in love, it's not that she can't, and a woman must do at least these two things:
As the saying goes, it's not scary for a person to be ugly, it's scary because they think they're ugly, so they're willing to fall and think they don't deserve a good life.
It doesn't matter if a woman doesn't look good, but if it's because she doesn't look good, she naturally dresses sloppily, regardless of her appearance, she is irresponsible to herself.
The good face is decided by the parents themselves, but the subsequent dress is decided by themselves.
Men don't necessarily like a woman's pretty face, but a decent image will become the main factor affecting a woman's impression in men's minds.
The girlfriend went on a blind date with an indifferent attitude, wearing casual clothes, without makeup, and appeared in front of the boy, but I didn't expect the boy to be the type he liked, and the girlfriend was annoyed and regretted not dressing up her image to meet.
After the girlfriend took the initiative to contact the boy, the boy's reaction was very flat, and after the temptation with the middleman, the girlfriend knew that the reason why the boy couldn't feel it was because he felt that there was no taste.
thinks that the boy is preconceived and denies himself from the image, and the girlfriend is angry and regretful, while accusing the boy of not paying too much attention to appearance, and regretting that he should not pay too much attention to appearance.
Being good-looking is really useful and is a plus, maybe a man will not marry a good-looking woman, but a good-looking woman will always be favored by a man.
Good love not only needs to come together with each other, pay together, feel the need to love and be loved, but also need to be equal to each other, and under the premise of common emotional goals, there must also be common life goals.
Men, like women, don't need to have too strong careers, don't need to make much money, and although these are bonuses that can be the same as men, a partner is a partner in married life, and being too independent and powerful can make a man lose his presence in a relationship.
is like Tang Jing in "The First Half of My Life", although she is a warrior brought out by He Han, she is getting stronger and stronger, and she doesn't need He Han at all;In contrast, Luo Zijun needs He Han's help everywhere to get through the trough of his life.
A woman who can conquer a man's desire and presence is more likely to arouse a man's love. However, there must also be a reasonable limit to the dependence on men, otherwise, a woman who has lost the spirit of independent pursuit, puts all her attention on men, and puts love first will also not get good gains.
Luo Zijun, who is Luo Zijun, is always paranoid when he is with his ex-husband Chen Junsheng, relying on each other for everything, lacking spiritual independence, although his ex-husband has children, he still does not cherish them.
Until the dramatic change after the divorce, she became a full-time mother who relied on others and became a professional with independent spiritual pursuits, but she was favored by her ex-husband.
Men not only need the warmth of life, but also the fullness of the spiritual world, and a woman with the spirit of independent pursuit, exuding personal charm, will attract men, let the other party's heart admire, and thus produce love.
Love doesn't happen for no reason, and if you're not the other person's favorite partner, it's impossible to pursue your beloved, no matter how hard you try.
Instead of spending time on others doing useless work, it is better to enrich yourself, spend your good time on yourself, do what you love to do, and increase your own growth experience.
It is said that if you bloom, butterflies will come.
When you break through your comfort zone and become better and better, you will find that all your thoughts will not just stay at the level of love and love, the spiritual world will get bigger and bigger because of the constant pursuit, and naturally, life will get better and better.
A woman who has a wonderful life has no shortage of excellent suitors around her, and when your life experience reaches a certain height, the requirements for your partner may become completely different.