When we have gone through the wind and rain of half a life and come to the late autumn of life, the wisdom words of our ancestors whispered in our ears: "People go around fifty-nine, and they walk around the four places." Although this sentence is simple, it contains a profound philosophy of life. So, what exactly do these "four places" refer to?And why should we avoid them?
First of all, we need to avoid places that are prone to losing money. After retirement, our financial situation gradually becomes fragile and every penny becomes precious. Those entertainment venues such as chess and card rooms, bars, nightclubs, etc., although they are full of power, are often also money traps. In addition, some seemingly health lectures may actually be selling expensive health supplements. Therefore, we must learn to manage our finances prudently, protect our hard-earned money, and make our lives more relaxed and dignified in our later years.
Second, we want to minimize our exposure to negative emotions. After retirement, we have more free time and are more susceptible to the influence of those around us. If the people around us are always complaining and negative, then our mood will also become heavy. Therefore, we must learn to choose to associate with those who are optimistic and positive, and share the beauty and joy of life together. Only in this way can we maintain a pure, sunny heart and enjoy the beauty of life in our old age.
In addition, we should pay special attention to safety when we are away from home. While walking, traveling, and other activities can help us relax and unwind, we should also avoid going to unfamiliar and remote places. Life is impermanent, and safety always comes first. Therefore, we must always be vigilant and choose safe places and routes to provide a safe environment for ourselves and our families.
Finally, we need to abide by the morality of marriage and keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex. Family is the cornerstone of our lives and cannot be easily destroyed at any time. After retirement, we may encounter new opportunities for relationships, but we must be soberly aware of our responsibilities and the importance of our family. When you are different, you must always stick to the bottom line and respect each other's family and marital relationships. Only in this way can we maintain the harmony and stability of the family and create a happy and happy life for ourselves and our families.
In short, the saying "people over fifty-nine, walking around the four places" is the precious wisdom left to us by our ancestors. It admonishes us to manage our finances prudently, stay away from negative emotions, stay safe and uphold family morals in our old age. Only by following these principles can we live a life of peace of mind, happiness, and dignity in our old age. Let's remember the wisdom of this sentence together and create a better future for ourselves and our families!