Introduction. In the past, in the countryside, I listened to the chatter of the old people in the village, and I heard such a saying:
"People over fifty-nine, five places walk around".
I probably forgot the meaning, all in all, it is a relatively vulgar and easy-to-understand saying, now that I am old, I understand that every step of life must be taken very carefully, think twice before acting, but also have a deep understanding.
When people are old, it is better to go to some places less, it does make sense, I based on some of my own life experience, as well as some ancient teachings of my ancestors.
I have summarized the following 5 points for your reference, hoping to bring some help to everyone's life.
"People over fifty-nine, five places around" Go to these 5 places less, you can avoid getting into trouble!
01. Don't go to the house of relatives who "love to compare" as a guest.
Those who have lived in the countryside know that many relatives like to compare and contrast with each other.
Whose child was admitted to a prestigious university, whose son made a lot of money doing business outside, these are all things that everyone will compare with each other.
If you have nothing to do after retirement, go back to your hometown in the countryside, and try not to go to the homes of some relatives who "love to compare".
If you go, he will definitely ask you how much your monthly pension is, how your children are developing, and compare everything with you, so as to satisfy their sense of superiority and vanity.
02. If you don't go to a single woman's house to drink tea and be a guest, you must know how to avoid suspicion.
After retirement, I usually don't have much to do, and I may go to the neighbor's house to drink tea and chat.
However, as a married man, try not to go to a single woman's house for tea as a guest, and know how to avoid suspicion.
Even if you are just ordinary friends, if you come and go too often, there may be some people who will make irresponsible remarks behind your back, adding fuel to your reputation.
Therefore, be yourself, be upright, not afraid of shadows, and try to have as little interaction as possible with single ladiesDon't go out to eat alone, don't go to the other person's house as a guest, refuse decisively, don't see the other party being too hospitable, and agree.
03. Don't go to the home of "relatives who look down on you" as guests.
The basis of interpersonal interaction is mutual respect and equality.
If in life, you feel that some relatives show behavior that looks down on you, then it is not that the other party has low emotional intelligence, but that he looks down on you from the bottom of his heart.
For such relatives, don't contact them, there is no need to deliberately maintain a family relationship with each other.
If he looks down on you, or even humiliates you to your face, says something sarcastic about you, and then you go to hot face and cold ass, it is really unnecessary.
After the age of 59, our energy is very limited, so it is wisest not to waste on these meaningless entanglements and to get rid of them in time.
04. Retired, go to the original unit less.
After the age of 59, we are also retired. When you retire, you can live your life and stay as little as possible.
My unit is only 5 minutes away from my home, and since I retired, I have never been there, and my former colleagues invited me to have tea, but I also declined them one by one, and I resolutely did not participate in the workplace.
Now that you have said goodbye to the workplace, don't go to your original unit again.
Former colleagues chatted and occasionally came out for tea, but resolutely did not discuss people and things at work.
05. Avoid going to noisy entertainment venues and keep your money bag!
After retirement, you must choose a healthy lifestyle and avoid going to noisy entertainment venues, such as chess and card rooms, mahjong halls, foot bath shops, and karaoke rooms.
These entertainment venues, noisy and smoky, are not suitable for us elderly, and the consumption is high, a lot of **, a little careless, the money bags are emptied!
After retirement, try to develop some healthy hobbies.
I have nothing to do at home, planting flowers and writing calligraphy.
Or play chess with friends, drink tea and chat about old times, and occasionally drink a little wine, but not too much.
When you have free time to travel with your family, a simple life is the real happiness.
end