Adolescents must be accompanied by a parent.
The first step in rejecting the "people-pleasing personality": be brave and express yourself.
The second step in rejecting the "people-pleasing personality" is to stick to yourself.
At work, we are often asked difficult questions, and sometimes we are met with people who are deliberately making things difficult. These people's intentions are to make us people-pleasers, which is not what we want to do. But what should we do at this point? Next, let's teach you how to refuse to please the personality!
1. Be assertive.
When faced with issues that overwhelm you, you need to be clear about your attitude and position. Of course, before answering the question, you should think carefully and think clearly before expressing your opinion. In addition, you must learn to express your opinions tactfully, so as to avoid offending others directly.
2. Refuse to compromise.
If you feel that the other person's request is unreasonable or unfair, then be brave enough to refuse to compromise. Don't be afraid to offend others, and don't be afraid to lose your job opportunity. You must know that only by sticking to your own principles and bottom line can you win the respect and trust of others.
3. Active communication.
If you feel that something is wrong with your relationship with your colleagues, then you need to communicate actively. Don't be afraid of being criticized or blamed by others, and don't just swallow your anger. Only through positive communication can we solve problems and avoid being taken advantage of and hurt by others.
In short, refusing to please requires us to be assertive, self-relevant, and communicative. Only in this way can you get more opportunities and respect in the workplace, and make your career better.
The above is how to refuse to be a "people-pleaser", I hope it will help everyone. I hope that everyone can bravely express their thoughts and opinions in the workplace, adhere to their own principles and bottom line, and become a confident and responsible person!