Before Qian Xuefang married her husband Li Dexin, she carefully inquired about the situation in Li Dexin's family.
Li Dexin's family background is average, his parents are alive, and he has a younger sister.
Many people feel that the relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law is particularly difficult to handle, but Qian Xuefang doesn't think so.
She thinks it's a good thing that her husband can have a younger sister.
Qian Xuefang thinks so, if you have a younger sister, you don't need to divide the family property, if you have a younger brother, you not only have to buy a house, buy a car, marry a daughter-in-law, but also divide the family property.
Later, Qian Xuefang and Li Dexin got married, and at this time Qian Xuefang's sister-in-law was still in high school, and every time she went to her mother-in-law's house, Qian Xuefang always brought a lot of snacks.
During the New Year's holidays, I will buy new clothes for my sister-in-law, so my sister-in-law treats this sister-in-law very well, every time Qian Xuefang goes to her mother-in-law's house, the sister-in-law will hold Qian Xuefang's arm affectionately, like a sister.
Later, the sister-in-law went to college, and Qian Xuefang's mother-in-law only gave her 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses.
For a college student, he can only take care of food and drink, and he can't do anything else.
After Qian Xuefang learned about this, she discussed with Li Dexin whether to give her sister-in-law some living expenses every month.
Ah Xin, I think we should give my sister some more money every month, the 1,000 yuan a month given by our mother is not enough to spend, you think about the average 30 yuan a day, which is enough to eat", Qian Xuefang said.
Now that she's in college, it's time to start dressing up, and a thousand yuan is definitely not enough, and you have to have some socializing, which is even more insufficient," Li Dexin said.
Then you say how much money is appropriate, not too much and not too little, if you give too much, she will definitely develop the Xi of being big-handed, if you give too little, it will not be of any use, then it is better not to give it", Qian Xuefang said.
How about giving her 500 a month", Li Dexin asked.
I think it's okay," Qian Xuefang said.
Since then, Li Dexin has paid his sister 500 yuan a month for living expenses.
However, only Qian Xuefang and Li Dexin knew about this matter, and Qian Xuefang's mother-in-law didn't know about it at all.
Later, Qian Xuefang's mother-in-law added 500 yuan to her daughter's living expenses every month, and Qian Xuefang discussed with Li Dexin, or she would not give her sister-in-law money in the future.
But Li Dexin said that girls need to be rich, and besides, five hundred a month is not much.
Three years later, Qian Xuefang's sister-in-law graduated and also joined the work.
However, after work, the sister-in-law often asked Qian Xuefang's husband for money, which made Qian Xuefang very depressed.
Our sister now has the ability to work, you can't always give her money, we also have our own life, more than one or two thousand per month, less than seven or eight hundred, in the long run, it is indeed a huge amount of money, you have to let her develop good consumption Xi, sooner or later she will get married, you can't give her money for a lifetime", Qian Xuefang said.
But this is my own sister, she is in trouble, if I don't help, then what is the point of my brother," Li Dexin said.
Qian Xuefang saw that Li Dexin couldn't be persuaded anymore, and thought that the money would not fall into the hands of outsiders, and Qian Xuefang's heart was also relieved.
In the second year after her sister-in-law got married, a major event happened in Qian Xuefang's family.
Li Dexin became seriously ill and was not only hospitalized, but also needed a large amount of surgery fees.
Qian Xuefang sold everything that her family could sell, and in the end there was still a gap of 200,000 yuan before she could undergo surgery.
During this period, the sister-in-law came to visit the hospital once, just briefly asked about the situation, and then left.
This made Qian Xuefang feel very uncomfortable, she felt that this sister-in-law was really in vain.
She suddenly felt that her husband was really ridiculous, if she didn't give her sister-in-law money from the beginning, but saved all the money, it is estimated that it would not be so difficult now.
Three days later, the sister-in-law came to the hospital again, this time she didn't even enter the ward, but called Qian Xuefang to the corridor.
The sister-in-law gave Qian Xuefang a bank card and told her the password.
Qian Xuefang held this bank card, with mixed feelings in her heart, and she didn't know what to say.
Sister-in-law, there are 300,000 yuan in it, and my husband and I originally planned to buy a house, but I think it is important to treat me for a cure, you take it first, and then tell me if it is not enough", the sister-in-law said.
Sister, how can I ask you for so much money," Qian Xuefang said.
Oh, sister-in-law, don't shirk it, you and my brother love me so much, and now that your family is in trouble, I should do my part", the sister-in-law said.
Okay, I'll take this money, but I don't need that much, it's still 200,000 yuan, and I'll give you as much as I have left," Qian Xuefang said.
Sister-in-law, you don't have to give it to me, after my brother has surgery, there must be a place to spend money in the back, how can you do it without money", the sister-in-law said.
Qian Xuefang took the bank card, and her heart was sour.
Although this card is very light, the weight in her heart is as heavy as Mount Tai, and she is overwhelmed.
Qian Xuefang has always been suspicious, she feels that her husband should not endlessly help her sister-in-law, because this will bring losses to her family.
Even when her sister-in-law came to visit her two days ago, Qian Xuefang felt that her sister-in-law had no heart or lungs.
Because she saw that the sister-in-law's mood was very stable, she just asked about the general situation and left.
In fact, her beloved brother was lying in a hospital bed, and how could she be in the mood to say anything more?
Until this time, Qian Xuefang found that the relationship between their brother and sister was much deeper than she imagined, and the sister-in-law was not indifferent, but had been looking for ways to help her brother.
She can use all the money from her family to buy a house for her brother's treatment, which is enough to see that she is definitely a loving and righteous person.
With the help of her sister-in-law, Qian Xuefang's husband quickly underwent surgery and recovered better.
After experiencing this incident, Qian Xuefang felt that it was a great blessing to have such a sister-in-law.