Xingwei is 33 years old, she is going to remarry, the child's grandparents are very happy, and the child will marry with her, for a 5-year-old child, it may be a little uncomfortable, but as long as the mother is there, it will be home anywhere.
After she washed her son and daughter, she took them to sleep, after the child was born, she has been taking it, maybe when she is in the belly, the child feels that life has changed, after giving birth to her is particularly sticky, although she is 5 years old, she must still sleep with her, otherwise she will not be able to sleep well all night.
And for her, it is also because of the company of her children that she can get through those desperate nights.
She also lay down and was going to sleep, and An's message came, saying: Weiwei, are you asleep, I think that in another month, we will be able to get married, and I can't sleep with excitement.
Xingwei looked at the phone and smiled, and said: Haha, Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin just fell asleep, I plan to sleep too, you also go to bed early, otherwise you will not be energetic at work tomorrow.
An: Well, I know, I'll pick you up after work tomorrow, and we'll go to the new house to have a look, especially Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin's rooms, I don't know if they like it or not.
She hesitated for a moment and said: "An, I should have told you that Xiao Ye and Xiao Ji have always slept with me, and they are still not Xi to not being without me, I am afraid that they will not adapt."
Anwei: Weiwei, don't worry, if the children are really uncomfortable, I will sleep with them at that time, in my heart, as long as you care, I care.
Xingwei was very moved, her eyes couldn't help but get wet, and said: Anwei, why are you so good to me? In the eyes of many people, I have been married and have 2 children, and you are only 32 years old, and your family has money, you can really find a better partner.
An: Weiwei, how can you explain the emotional matter, let alone so much reason to talk about, and in my eyes, you are the best girl.
She smiled and said: Don't listen to you, go to sleep quickly, Xiao Ye and Xiao Xi and I will wait for you to get off work tomorrow.
Putting down the phone, she sat on the edge of the bed alone, looking at the lights outside, it seemed that there were stories behind every window, some people were sad, some were happy, some were crying, and some were laughing.
Thinking of the past 5 years, she has sat in this position countless times, silently in a daze.
is about to get married, Xingwei actually has no bottom in his heart, with a pair of children, and another man to reform a family, as well as his parents and relatives, is these complicated relationships really possible?
She wanted to escape a little, but thinking about the man who was younger than her, serious about herself, and that kind of pure emotion, she wanted to give it a try, maybe love was beautiful at first, and what was not beautiful was time, under its tempering, a lot of beauty was unrecognizable, and what was maintained must be more brilliant.
It's been a long time since I've been drinking, so I think the last time was when I was in college. She got up and quietly went out to get back a bottle of red wine, a very literary glass.
Xingwei poured the wine and drank it slowly, the red wine that had not yet woken up had a very unique sour and astringent taste, very similar to the mood of crying or not crying, maybe this is the reason why women love to drink red wine.
The night was full, there were 2 children in the room snoring slightly, she drank wine, and remembered the events of the past few years.
I studied design at Smicro University. After graduating, she entered a studio, her family conditions are quite good, her parents are people who came out in the 90s, and she and her younger brother grew up in the village when they were young.
Mom and Dad are very tricky, pulling a few people to do house decoration, at the beginning is to do some leftovers contracted by others, and then slowly get acquainted with it, and they are really good at craftsmanship, and soon developed.
Xingwei thinks that they have caught up with the good times, the whole country is developing rapidly, everyone knows that they must keep up with the pace of the times, dare to work hard, and their luck will not be too bad.
When Xingwei was in junior high school, she was taken to Shanghai by her parents, which was the atmosphere of prosperity and metropolis that she never dared to imagine.
At first, she and her brother were trembling at school, and they didn't understand words, and they didn't have a familiar face, which made them feel like beggars who had broken into the banquet.
The child's receptivity is very strong, and she and her brother adapt quickly.
Although her parents' decoration company is small, her father has a vision, and before the house price soared, they bought a house with all the money they had worked hard for many years, no more, no less, there are 3 sets, and her father is most proud of the wise decision of the year.
Those three suites have become the best investment, and the money earned in the future is invested in the company, slowly forming a virtuous circle, so Xingwei is a person with a house, which makes her more confident many times.
After graduating, Xingwei entered his own company and engaged in decoration design, his father was very pleased, after all, he had his own people, and many times he worked well and communicated well, and he tried his best, after all, it was good to earn more points and consume less points.
Her own 3 houses were very early on for her father to give her and her younger brother a set, after the house was rented, the rent was also kept by herself, but the tuition of the school unit and the usual shopping were all out of her own pocket.
Xingwei sometimes thinks about it, but she can't figure out whether her father's decision is good, anyway, his brother is very picky, if his mother doesn't buy him clothes, as long as the clothes are not small, he insists on wearing them all the time, obviously he has money in his hands, but he is reluctant to spend it.
But she is very happy about the atmosphere of the family, no matter how big things are, Dad is happy, even if sometimes Mom is so anxious to jump feet, Dad will say: What are you afraid of, the sky can't fall, and even if it collapses, there is a big man on top of it, you are a little old man of less than 160, what kind of feet.
Mom was so angry that she couldn't speak, but Mom also calmed down, and every time it was like this, she and her brother were not afraid, but thought it was funny.
The days passed like this, and the architecture that my younger brother studied went abroad for further study after graduation, and the boy who was very picky back then also learned to take responsibility.
Later, when Xingwei was 26 years old, she met her husband, his name is Ling Chong, he is a pilot in the army, their family conditions are very good, his father is an officer, his mother runs a company, and he is the only child in the family.
The encounter between her and Ling Chong may be more likely to be destined by God, but it was also an accident, a wrong message, and a deep fate was achieved.
Xingwei thought, if she hadn't added the wrong WeChat that day, would her life be different?
However, there is never an ifs in life, and she is still grateful to God that she can meet him in this life.
She and Ling Chong have been in love for more than a year, basically online, at most, **, but it did not prevent them from entering marriage.
When she was 27 years old, they got married, Ling Chong was 30 years old, the two families were very happy, and the parents-in-law did not dislike their family's origin.
After less than 2 months of marriage, Ling Chong returned to the army, she was alone in their marriage room, the house was very large, and her mother prepared nearly 180 square meters, which was very powerful in Shanghai.
During that time, they were like ordinary lovers, holding hands and shopping at night, drinking milk tea, and watching movies, which was the happiness she felt life had never had.
After Ling Chong left, her mother-in-law often came to see her and chatted with her, her father-in-law had not retired yet, and her mother-in-law also lived alone, and her mother-in-law told her that being a military wife was like this, so few people could stand this loneliness.
Xingwei thinks it's okay, as long as he doesn't have a task at night, they will ** and talk about the current situation.
In the blink of an eye, Ling Chong has been in the army for more than 1 month, and Xingwei feels that he is not in the right body and feels a lot fatter.
When my mother-in-law came, she said, "Mom, do you think I'm fat, why do I feel that I have meat on my stomach?"
The mother-in-law glanced at it, and suddenly said: Weiwei, have you come to your period recently, you can't be pregnant.
Xingwei was also taken aback and said: Mom, my period has been abnormal, I have taken a lot of Chinese medicine to recuperate, but it doesn't work, and finally the doctor said that the body is healthy, don't worry about it, so I haven't cared about it.
She thought for a moment and said, "But, Mom, I don't think it's been a long time."
The mother-in-law was overjoyed and said: You, you are probably pregnant, and I will take you to the military hospital tomorrow for a check-up.
Xingwei was expectant and nervous, and he didn't fall asleep at all that night.
The next day, her mother-in-law came to pick her up early in the morning, and she had already asked for leave.
Life is really wonderful, after the examination, she is really pregnant, and she is still twins, judging by the size, it should be more than 2 months.
Xingwei felt so novel, when she didn't know it, she already had 2 babies in her belly, and her mother-in-law was very happy.
The mother-in-law insisted on living with her and taking care of her, although she ran a company, but the specific work was handed over to others, and she grasped the overall situation.
The mother-in-law said that the management was introduced by her father-in-law, and it turned out that she was a soldier, and she was very reliable, so she didn't have to worry too much about it at all.
In this way, Xingwei and her mother-in-law lived together, her mother-in-law sent her to work in the morning and picked her up in the evening, and her father and mother did not let her go to the construction site, that is, she was responsible for issuing drawings, verifying on the spot and letting others go, and then ** communication, she became a key protection object.
As long as he has time, Xingwei and his mother-in-law will be with Ling Chong**, when he knew that he would be the father of two children, he jumped up excitedly on the spot and broke the mobile phone directly.
Taking advantage of a training opportunity, Ling Chong went home, touching her belly every day, talking to the baby in her belly, regardless of whether she could hear it or not.
It's a pity that he stayed at home for less than 2 weeks, and went back in a hurry, he said apologetically: Weiwei, when the child is about to be born, I will try to come back to accompany you.
The twins are really growing very fast, less than 6 months old, her belly is already very big, and people with smaller bellies are about to give birth.
* At that time, Ling Chong had to chat with the children every day, and she thought that he must be a good father in the future.
He went on another mission, and said that after coming back this time, he should be able to rest for a while, and he saved the leave until when she gave birth.
However, no one expected that something would happen suddenly, Ling Chong had an accident, and no one found him.
When she and her mother-in-law rushed to the army, she was completely thoughtless, and she was completely stunned.
She didn't feel the pain, she didn't know how to eat or drink, her mother-in-law cried and persuaded her, but she closed herself up, she didn't want to believe that Ling Chong was really gone.
Later, because of her emotions, it affected the child in the womb.
At the hospital, doctors told her that if she still couldn't get out, she might lose the two children in her womb.
The father-in-law also came, and the mother-in-law cried and begged her, saying: Weiwei, your father and I beg you, Ling Chong is no more, you just look at the point, leave the two children well, and it should be his continuation in this world.
My father-in-law has been strong all his life, but I can't help crying at this time, and my mother-in-law's hair is gray, and I can't open my crying eyes.
Xingwei looked at her father-in-law and mother-in-law, and finally cried out loud, and everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
In the company of her mother-in-law and mother, her belly grew bigger day by day, and whenever she was particularly painful, the two children moved very hard.
In fact, it was the strength of the two children that allowed the three of them to survive.
When she was about to give birth, her mother-in-law said: Weiwei, we all know that Ling Chong loves you the most, although he is gone, your father and I are still there, the children are still there, and you will be our daughter in the future.
Her mother-in-law accompanied her to the military hospital for more than 8 months, and the doctor insisted on the situation on time every day, asking her mother-in-law to accompany her to exercise more and eat less and eat more.
She persevered for almost 9 months, and gave birth to Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin by accident, at that moment she felt that she had to live a good life, Ling Chong must have been by their side, surrounding them, and protecting them.
During the confinement, her mother-in-law and mother took care of her, and there were 2 children, except for breastfeeding, the two mothers did not let her do anything, so that she could recuperate.
After the confinement, Xingwei decided to go to work, but the two mothers did not agree, and they did not allow her to work until the child was 8 months old.
Mom said: Weiwei, you are young now and can be willful, but many diseases will be difficult to treat in the future, and the child is too young to be without you, which is even worse.
After Ling Wei went to work, her mother also went home, and her mother-in-law invited another aunt to help take care of the children.
She never had to worry about the family's expenses, and she even built an account for each of the three of them, and deposited 20,000 per person every month.
Mother-in-law said: Weiwei, I have set up an account for you, Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin, and I will deposit 20,000 per month in the future, so ah, don't think about earning money to raise children, there is me and your father.
Weiwei, your father said that you go through the formalities for this house, and it will be yours in the future, Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin We are already looking at it, and if there is a suitable one, we will buy them a house.
I heard your dad say that the house price has been low recently, and he will give two children a set for each person, so you can also tell your family to see if you need to buy a house then.
Xingwei is very grateful to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, she also treats them as her parents, she thinks that no matter when, she will not ignore them.
Xingwei set up a design studio, had the connections of his father and mother-in-law, and quickly became famous.
And the two children are becoming more and more clingy, and the mother-in-law takes them directly every day and goes to work with her, they are upstairs in her studio, and she goes to see them when she has time.
And at night, the two children didn't follow anyone, and they had to sleep with her, and the mother-in-law said: Weiwei, it must have been that time, you were so sad, they all felt a crisis in their stomachs, so they had to be by your side.
My father-in-law came back when he had time and took two children with his mother-in-law, and his mother-in-law had mobilized him to retire quickly, otherwise the children would ignore him when they were older.
The child grows up very quickly, after the 2nd birthday, one day, the mother-in-law said: Weiwei, you are still young, if there is a suitable one, find another one, after all, a lifetime is so long, we don't know how many years we can accompany you, there is a cold and hot one, we can rest assured.
Xing smiled and said, "Mom, I know, I will consider it if there is a suitable one."
The younger brother also got married, and lived with his parents after marriage, and it turned out that his girlfriend had no parents, so he wanted to live with the old man in the family.
Xingwei thinks that people are strange, and they are all looking for things that they don't have.
For Xingwei, Ling Chong is the thorn in her heart, which has always existed there, whether she wants to or not.
In her current life, the most important thing is two children, and then the father and mother of the two families.
My father-in-law is also retired, and he has a small villa, and the leaders living in that community are all of the same level, and there are guards standing guard at the entrance of the community.
The mother-in-law discussed with her, and the mother-in-law said: Weiwei, don't look at your father is very serious, but he also likes the two children very much, you see, if we don't move back to live, you should pity the poor old man, okay?
Xiao Xin pouted and shouted: Grandpa, grandpa, gun.
Xiao Ye turned around looking for grandpa, and muttered: Grandpa, no.
Xingwei and her mother-in-law both laughed when they looked at it.
Xiao Ye and Xiao Xin are still young, and they can't walk, but they may have their father's genes, and they especially like guns.
In the end, Xingwei moved back with the children, not to mention how happy the father-in-law was, he took the two children every day to show off to his old buddies, when the two children first went, they brought back a lot of gifts every day, many of which were worth a lot of money, and her mother-in-law told her not to worry, she and her father-in-law returned the gift.
When the child 3 was three and a half years old, his father-in-law also took his two children to the army, and lived there for almost two months.
As long as the two of them live alone, they will definitely have nightmares at night and wake up crying from time to time, Xingwei has no choice but to sleep with them all the time.
And when the child was almost 4 years old, she met An Li, who was introduced by her father-in-law, the son of his comrade-in-arms, who was also in the army, but because of an injury, he injured his leg, although there is no problem in ordinary life, but it is no longer suitable to stay in the army, he can only be professional, and now he is working in **, and he is still a small leader.
After An Wei left, his father-in-law said: Weiwei, your mother and I are now your daughters, and you are both 32 years old, and you don't worry about your own problems.
I watched this child grow up, I think as long as you like it, he will definitely be good to you, and he used to be a soldier, he won't be incomprehensible to your marriage, to tell you the truth, this kind of thing has never been less in the army.
Mother-in-law: Weiwei, this is what I mean with your father, you should think about it, if it's okay, just take a look, in case it's really suitable, it's a pity to miss it.
In this way, Xingwei and An Wei chatted slowly.
An Wei is also very busy, but as long as she is free, she comes to the house, takes the two children to play, makes toys for them, makes cakes and biscuits for them, and her cooking skills are better than her, and the two children like him very much.
One day, he suddenly said to her: Weiwei, let's get married, I promise that I will be loyal to you for the rest of my life, good to you, good to the children, we will miss Brother Ling together, and take care of his parents together.
Xingwei was suddenly moved, a man may be good to a married woman, but it is impossible to be good to her children and in-laws, because in essence, people are selfish.
Seeing that An Wei was so serious, Xingwei also decided to try with him, and in the process of contact, the relationship between the two became better and better, and finally met their parents and planned to get married.
The father-in-law originally wanted them to take the children, but Xingwei felt that the children needed their mothers more, Xingwei said: Dad, Mom, don't worry, I will bring the children over on weekends in the future, they are already in kindergarten, and during the holidays, Dad, you take them to the army to exercise again.
My father-in-law nodded and said, "Weiwei, come and sit, your mother and I have something for you."
The mother-in-law came over with a box, which was antique and particularly charming.
After the mother-in-law opened it, she took out 3 house books and said: Weiwei, this is the house book of 3 houses, one is Xiao Ye's, one is Xiao Xin's, and one is yours. In the future, you can keep it for yourself.
Then the mother-in-law said: Weiwei, there are some jewelry in this box, which is also for you.
Weiwei, you will be our daughter in the future, this is your mother's home, no matter what happens, you have to tell your parents.
That day, Xingwei hugged her mother-in-law and cried for a long time, and she believed that Ling Chong would not blame her, because he wanted her to be happier than anyone else.
Thinking of this, Xingwei drank another glass of wine and cried, on this night, she hoped to think about her past and start a new life in the future.
She took out the box given by her mother-in-law again, and after opening it, she opened one by one, and there was a pair of jade violet tables with particularly good water, a pair of ancient gold bracelets, and others, there were really a lot, she thought, each of them was the heart and love of her father-in-law and mother-in-law.
They were so good to her, so selfless, and the house they gave her was worth at least 40 million, and she was a little scared.
But the mother-in-law said at the time: Weiwei, we have your daughter now, and 2 grandchildren, everything we have in the future will be you and the child, this house is your dowry, pursue your own life, your parents have been waiting for you here.
The new house that Ann bought is not very far from here, and she will definitely bring her children often in the future.
The next day, they looked at the house and ordered a dress, including two children.
An Yan smiled and said: Weiwei, it's so cute to wait for the two children to wear gifts and be flower girls.
Xingwei thought about the happiness of that day and laughed with the children, maybe this is the best life she wants.
And she just needs to wait for that day to come, with the wishes of two pairs of parents, to start a new journey in life.
Written at the end: the author is humble and welcome to discuss.
Maybe life is not as good as we think, but at every moment, we must remember that the days are not the past, but the future, and all the difficult moments will eventually become buried memories in the heart.
The years are quiet, listen carefully to the inner voice, smooth out the wrinkles left by the years, and sort out the lost past in life and the time of attachment one by one, so that the soul is quiet and the mood is calm.
As Nietzsche once said, "Be bold in our approach to life, because we will lose it." ”