Wen Xiaobiscuit part works because of the number of words,It will be divided into 2-3 articles.,As long as it's finished.,Read it with confidence.12 years ago,My grandson and grandson were admitted to college at the same time.。
The grandson went to a 211 college, and although the grandson was not so good, he was also admitted to a bachelor's school.
So I wrapped a red envelope of 6,000 yuan for both of them, and my wife told me privately that this was unreasonable, and I should give more to my grandson.
I laughed at him for being outdated.
Now that I see the attitude of my two children, I understand my wife's intentions back then!
My name is U Thant and I am 80 years old.
Last month, my son and daughter gave me a luxurious 80th birthday.
I had 8 tables at the hotel, and many friends and relatives came to congratulate me, and I felt happier than ever.
However, looking at such a lively scene, I can't help but feel a little regretful, because my wife was affected by the epidemic last year, which caused an underlying disease, and left me first.
Thinking of this, I was a little emotional, covered my face and cried.
Seeing this, my son and daughter and their whole family came up to comfort me.
After calming down my emotions and looking at my grandson and grandson who are now married and have started a business, I feel quite comforted in my heart.
That day, my grandson Xiaoice and my grandson Xiaoxing also gave me a big red envelope, both of which were 10,000 yuan in cash.
However, my granddaughter-in-law gave me an extra gold bracelet, but my granddaughter-in-law didn't say anything, and I immediately felt the difference.
It also reminds me of what my wife once said to me: "Grandchildren and grandchildren are always different!".”
My wife and I are from the same rural area, and I can be regarded as childhood sweethearts, who are 2 years older than me.
Since we officially got married, we have gone through 55 years of ups and downs hand in hand and gave birth to a boy and a girl.
Over the years, except for the occasional bickering, we have never quarreled once with a red face, and in the eyes of others, we can be regarded as a model couple.
I remember that at the end of the 70s, the village committee also issued us the "Five Good Family" sign several times, and every time it was hung on the door, my wife always looked proud.
Although we have been farming in the countryside for most of our lives, and the economy is not rich, we still give enough love to our two children.
At that time, people were generally patriarchal, and my wife and I were very open-minded, not only did we have sons and daughters, but we also let them graduate from high school.
In the early 90s, my daughter got married, and we gave enough dowry, and my wife gave me a 21-inch Hitachi brand color TV, which could be called a rich marriage at that time.
After our children got married, we moved to the town and built a small two-story western-style house.
Because we were still young at that time, we often helped them with the children.
Grandson Xiaoice and grandson Xiaoxing were born in the same year, and when they were children, they spent every winter and summer vacation with me.
My wife and I took one with each other and played with them every day, sometimes taking them to fish in the fish pond, and sometimes taking them back to the village to grow vegetables and feed the chickens.
The two little ones had a lot of fun, and the wife often said:
It's so good that kids in the city don't know what the countryside looks like, let alone experience the fun of doing farm work by themselves. ”
In fact, when he was young, Xiaoice was more naughty, and every day he either asked his wife to take him to climb trees and pick fruits, or he was noisy to go to the river to catch fish.
My wife has been injured several times in order to accompany him, but every time she still says happily
My grandson is just like me, haha. ”
In contrast, his grandson Xiaoxing is much more well-behaved, although he is also playful, but every day he will always consciously spend part of his time doing his homework, and he will take the initiative to ask us if he encounters problems.
However, my wife and I are not highly educated, and we can still cope with the problems in elementary school, and after junior high school, we can only ask the college students in the neighborhood to help answer the problems for him.
However, talent may still play a role in reading.
It may also be that Xiaoice has played relatively much since he was a child, so his brain is more flexible, especially after high school, he is relatively easy to learn, and his grades have been very stable.
According to my son, after Xiaoice entered high school, there was no tutoring except for English.
And my daughter said that after Xiaoxing went to high school, he tutored everything except politics.
But no matter what, the results of Xiaoice and Xiaoxing's college entrance examination are gratifying.
Xiaoice was admitted to a 211 key university with a score of 603, while Xiaoxing was also admitted to a college with a score of 553.
I remember that after Xiaoice and Xiaoxing both received the admission letters, my wife and I were also happy to call ** for them to come to the county.
We invited some relatives and neighbors to set up two tables in our compound to celebrate.
Sister-in-law Wu, this is to hold a banquet for her grandson and grandson!”
Congratulations, both children are so promising, you can enjoy happiness in the future. ”
Listening to the compliments of the neighbors, my wife and I were also smiling.
The big cow on the other side is a chef, and I heard that it was a school banquet for the children, and he came to help for free.
My wife and I went to the seafood market a day early to book lobster and sea fish, and ordered a few local chickens from relatives in my hometown, which is bound to make this feast rich enough.
When everything was ready, we waited at home for our son and daughter's family to come back.
At this time, the wife asked: "Dandan, have you prepared red envelopes for Xiaoice and Xiaoxing?"”
I was stunned for a moment, and then immediately patted my head anxiously: "Oops, I forgot about it when I was busy." ”
With that, I found my bank card and hurriedly got on my electric car and ran to the nearest ATM.
There is a custom in our hometown, in addition to weddings and funerals, if the child is admitted to university, it is also a matter of glorious lintel, and red envelopes must be given.
Especially now that my grandson and grandson are so competitive, I have to wrap a bigger red envelope.
When I got home, I handed over the cash to my wife and asked him to take two red envelopes.
My wife nodded the money in my hand and asked with some confusion: "You took 10,000 2, how are you going to give it?"”
I was also a little confused, and said directly: "Of course 6000 for one person, aren't you too much?"”
The wife frowned: "This money is enough, but this is unreasonable, you should give Xiaoice a little more, after all, he is a grandson." ”
Hearing this, I burst out laughing
What age are you, you old man still treats you differently?I haven't seen you favor your son before, isn't it a bowl of water to our daughter?”
That's different!The sons and daughters are our own children, but the grandchildren and grandchildren have two different families and have different surnames. ”
Looking at my wife's slightly serious face, I was also a little unhappy, and at this time I was still talking about these things.
In addition, I already heard the greeting outside, and my son and daughter's family had already arrived, so I directly grabbed the red envelope impatiently and packed it myself:
Don't mess around. ”
My wife looked at me with a sad face, but she didn't say anything.
At the banquet, everyone was very happy, and the neighbors praised the two children without hesitation.
Da Niu even exaggeratedly said: "I used to say that Xiaoice is a smart child, but now he has really become a champion, come to uncle to honor you." ”
What a champion, big cow, you drank too much, Xiaoice just went to a good university, by the way, and Xiaoxing, he also went to a university. ”
Seeing that everyone was interested, I also made an exception and drank two taels of liquor.
Although everyone took turns toasting, it could be seen that the villagers preferred Xiaoice.
In fact, it is not entirely because Xiaoice was admitted to 211 University, but because after high school, only Xiaoice came back to live every summer, and Xiaoxing returned to his grandmother's house.
After high school, Xiaoice is no longer the playful child.
He often comes back to help me cook with my wife, chat with us, and sometimes go to the neighborhood to tutor the children for free, so the neighbors will be more impressed with him.
After I was full of wine and food, I took out two red envelopes and handed them to Xiaoice and Xiaoxing:
Come, this is grandma and grandma, reward you, and wish you all the best in your studies in the future!”
At first, the two of them were embarrassed to accept it, but under the persuasion of my wife and me, in the end they reluctantly accepted it.
Then we talked for a while, and they packed up and prepared to go back to the city.
When parting, I saw my wife secretly pulling Xiaoice aside, I don't know what to say, as if I had given something back.
After they were all gone, I touched my wife:
Old man, what did you just say with Xiaoice?Why did you give something back?”
My wife smiled awkwardly: "It's nothing, you gave red envelopes, and I always have to mean it." ”
I glanced at my wife and didn't say anything.
However, it wasn't until many years later that I learned from Xiaoice that his wife gave him a 1,000 yuan red envelope:
Grandpa said that you gave me extra money, and grandpa also said that because you wanted to be fair on the surface, you privately told him to give me an extra 1000, and said don't tell Xiaoxing. ”
After learning about this, I asked my wife angrily.
I think I don't have a trace of partiality towards my two children, and the palms and backs of my hands are full of meat, and now my wife is doing this, isn't it embarrassing for me?
However, my wife always persuaded bitterly: "Look at all these years, is it only Xiaoice who came back to visit us?"”
But that doesn't mean anything!Maybe Xiaoxing is busy. ”
The wife shook her head and sighed and said, "Dandan, you will understand one day." ”
Although I don't approve of my wife in my heart, I have to say that the two children have really different attitudes towards us since they went to college.
Even after work, Xiaoice still keeps calling me a ** a week, comes to see me once a month, and carefully selects a lot of gifts every time she comes.
Grandma, this is a waist massage, didn't you often shout backache before, try this with this. ”
Grandpa, this is a health wine, which is good for the body, but don't be greedy. ”
In addition, I remember that Xiaoice just worked for two years and took our second elder to travel all over the country.
I went to Mohe to see the aurora again, and I went to Hainan to dive, especially my wife, I was very happy, and I talked to me every day
Do you guess Xiaoice will take us there next year?”
On the other hand, Xiaoxing, after going to college, basically didn't come at any other time except for our birthday and Spring Festival, and didn't even play a **.
I also used to think that Xiaoxing was busy, and his personality was relatively introverted, but in fact, it was not.
My wife once saw from her daughter's circle of friends that Xiaoxing took his parents and grandparents to climb the Great Wall and go shopping in Hong Kong, and his life was also colorful.
Of course, these are only one aspect, the most important thing is that my wife passed away last year, and the performance of the two children is completely different.
Xiaoice bought a ticket from other places for the first time and rushed back, lying in front of his wife's ice coffin and crying for a day and a night, all relatives were moved:
Lao Zhang didn't hurt this grandson in vain. ”
And Xiaoxing didn't come back unhurriedly until the day of the cremation of his wife's body, and after coming back, not only did he not help anything, but he kept playing ** on the side.
Although it is said that it is inconvenient to travel during the epidemic, his attitude and almost no trace of sadness, in retrospect, is indeed too far from Xiaoice.
Looking at the heavy gold bracelet that my daughter-in-law gave me extra at the birthday banquet, I naturally understood in my heart that this was all Xiaoice's meaning.
The reason why his red envelope is the same as Xiaoxing's must be the same as his wife's practice back then.
In front of relatives, I must have a bowl of water, but in private, Xiaoice did not hesitate to care for me, because the **** of the gold bracelet has far exceeded the 10,000 yuan red envelope!
So at that moment, I really understood my wife's intentions back then.
There is indeed a difference between grandchildren and grandchildren.
It's not that people's hearts are different, it's just that they each belong to the status of heirs of different families, so they will naturally be partial.
But for us as elders, as long as they are healthy and happy, what else is too serious?
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