InRural, especially in ancient times, male and female roles in the family andSocialplays a different role and status. This is also reflected in:RuralIn the old saying, "Men are talented, and women are widowed".
In ancient times, men were regarded as the first members of the family, and they undertook the mission of family continuation and reproduction. Therefore, the birth of a boy is seen as a lucky event. And in the "male accounted for thirty-eight yes."XiucaiIn this sentence, Sanba refers to the three numbers of the 8th, 18th and 28th of each month of the lunar calendar.
According to the ancient people's superstitious concept of the birth date, if a boy is born on these three dates, he will be considered to have a better future and development. It is believed that boys born in these days will become accomplished people in the future, who will not only be able to hold **, but also lead a rich life. This idea was deeply rooted in ancient cultures and became a kind of faith.
Relative to boys, girls had a place in ancient timesRuralMedium is relatively low. In the sentence "women must be widowed", Sanba refers to the 8th, 18th and 28th of each month of the lunar calendar. Ancient people believed that if a girl was born on these days, she would be doomed to a bad fate, bringing misfortune to the family.
Due to the influence of feudal superstition, this kind of female fatalism makes girls born in these days often not receive the love and attention of their families. Whether as a child or as an adult, they will lead unhappy lives. RuralPeople are even worried about marrying a girl born in these days, and as a result, men also shy away from marrying such a woman on blind dates.
However, with the changing times andSocialhas made more in-depth reflections on this superstitious concept. ModernSocialHaving been freed from the shackles of this feudal superstition, it is believed that a person's destiny is the result of their own efforts and will not be bound by the eight characters of birth.
RuralThe old saying that "men account for 38 is talented, and women account for 38 must be widowed" is ancientRuralThe embodiment of people's superstitious notion of having a boy or a girl. This notion is partly a reflection of the timeSocialDiffering views on the identity and destiny of men and women.
However, withSocialWith the progress of the people and the change of people's ideological concepts, this superstitious concept has been gradually diluted. TodaySocialPeople pay more attention to personal ability and hard work, and no longer pin their fate on traditional concepts.
Everyone has their own responsibilities and talents in this world, and both men and women, as long as they put in the effort, they can pursue and achieve their dreams. In modern timesSocialA person's destiny should not be defined only by their birthdate, but by their diligence, wisdom and hard work.
Therefore, regardless of the birth date, we should believe in our own abilities, work hard for our dreams, and not let any superstitious ideas bind our hearts. Only through our own efforts can we realize our own value and live a happy life.