In our lives, we meet many people who play an important role in our growth and development. However, we are not always able to accurately judge whether these people are good or bad for us. And there is a small story in "Zengguang Xianwen", which well explains the truth of how to distinguish good karma.
The story takes place on a cold winter day, with a fire piling upWoodsemits a faint glow. This fire was lit by a group of passers-by as they passed by, but the fire was about to be extinguished due to the lack of fuel. The fire thought desperately, "If this continues, I'll be gone." So the fire tried to impress it in any wayWoods, hopefully able fromWoodsThere is the fuel you need to survive.
Pair of firesWoodsHe said, "You look so bitter, you don't have a single leaf on your body, aren't you cold?"God is really not fair to you!”WoodsTrembling in the cold wind, he replied: "Alas, I have no way to sprout and bloom, and I am really helpless in such cold weather." "For me, it's just a trifle," said the fire. I can bring warmth and light to people, and I will definitely bring warmth to you as well. "As long as you are willing to be friends with me, I promise to bring you a warmth that winter does not have."
I'm the fireThe sunof my brother, although I didn'tThe sunThat's great, but I'm more than enough to deal with a small area of winter. ”WoodsThey listened with relish and wanted to be helped by the fire, so they came to a consensus and the fire blended inWoods, ignited the branches, but soon the fire got out of control and burned the wholeWoods。This story tells us that fire and trees should never be friends, they are mutually exclusive.
In real life, there are also repulsive interpersonal relationships. Not everyone can be our karma. Therefore, in the process of dating, we should use our feelings to feel whether the other person will nourish us, rather than consume our energy. A person who consumes us will burn each other like fire and a tree, and eventually cause both sides to suffer. And a person who nourishes us will have a positive impact on us and make us stronger. Therefore, we need to learn to recognize these good karma that are hidden around us.
In our daily interactions, we can observe whether a person comes to consume our energy. If a person only comes over when we are in trouble and ignores it at other times, then it is likely that he is just coming to drain our energy and resources. And someone who nourishes us will care for us at all times, give us help and support. They will lend a helping hand when we are in trouble, but they will also celebrate together when we are successful. They are true friends and willing to grow with us.
In addition to observing a person's behavior, we can also judge the impact they have on us by spending time with them. If, in our dealings with this person, we feel more and more tired and stressed, then it is likely that he is draining our abilities and energy. And if in the process of intercourse, we feel more and more fulfilled and positive, then he is nourishing us. The people who nourish us bring us positive energy and make us feel happy and fulfilled.
In short, by observing a person's behavior and spending time with them, we can discern who our good karma is. The people who nourish us bring us positive influences and make us grow into better people. And the people who consume us will have a negative impact on us and hinder our growth.
Therefore, we must learn to choose and maintain a relationship with good karma and stay away from the influence of bad karma. Only in this way will we be able to move in the desired direction and achieve our goals and dreams. Let us keep in mind that "the person who nourishes you is your good karma", and firmly choose to accompany the good karma to grow and progress together.