Aunt Li has taken on a very important role, which is to take care of her grandson. In order to allow her son and daughter-in-law to work with peace of mind, Aunt Li is busy taking care of her all day longBabyoflifeand living. She started her busy day at 5:30 a.m. and put itBabyI took it to my daughter-in-law to breastfeed, and I took it again at nightBabySleep together to ensure that your daughter-in-law can have a good resting environment. During the day, she is busy shopping for groceries, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of themBabyPlay. In this case, Aunt Li has almost no time of her own, busy from morning to night, in order to create a comfortable one for the whole familylifeenvironment, she disregards personal exhaustion and trouble.
Aunt Li is taking care of herBabyAt the same time, he also has to endure the harsh pickiness of his daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is often picky about her food tastes, and she is always looking for faults and troubles. This made Aunt Li feel unrelieved and felt that her efforts were not fully appreciated and respected. She understands that she has given too much, but the other party has always looked at it with a harsh eye. This kind of treatment made Aunt Li feel cold, and she didn't understand why her efforts were not recognized and understood.
After this timelife, Aunt Li deeply realized the importance of keeping a certain distance from her children. She thinks, thoughAffectionis important, but if two generations are long-termlifetogether, often produce different ideas andlifeXi conflicts, which lead to contradictions. She believes that as an old man, she should have her own independencelifeand space, you should not pour all your energy into your children. Instead, children should be made aware of the importance of the elderly and given them the necessary support and respect.
Aunt Li also realized the importance of the elderly paying their due conditions. Although the elderly love their children, it is not advisable to give them unconditionally. For example, throwing yourself on your child for a long time, even sacrificing your time and money. This kind of dedication does not allow the children to truly understand the importance and difficulty of the elderly, but will develop a white-eyed wolf in the hearts of the children. Therefore, the elderly should have their ownlifeand space, which should be paid conditionally, so that children can understand the importance of the elderly and give the necessary respect to the elderly.
Many people yearn for freedom, believing that freedom is a state of unfettered and unrestrained. However, in this story, we see the other side behind freedom. Aunt Li, as a free person, could have lived her own life after retirementlife, but chose to resolutely carry oneFamilyof the burden. herslifeTightly bound by children and grandchildren, not leaving an inch. Although she also wanted some time for herself, she still did it without hesitationFamilyThe happiness is paid. This makes people ponder whether freedom is a kind of freedom or an endFamilySelfless dedication to others
Through this story, we can't help but think about itFamilyWhat does it mean for everyone?For young people,FamilyIt is a warm harbor, and it is the love and care from the bottom of my heart for them. And for the elderly,FamilyIt is a place of reassurance and reliance, and it is their old agelifeof the destination. However,FamilyIt is also a network that needs to be maintained and operated. Both sides need to understand each other, respect each other, and work forFamilymembers work together. It is only through sincere affection and mutual support that a harmonious and happy one can be establishedFamily
In this story, we see the power of mutual aid. During her daughter-in-law's maternity leave, Aunt Li resolutely chose to stay at home to take care of her grandson, sharing a lot of pressure for her son and daughter-in-law. Although she suffered a lot of troubles in the process of taking care of her grandson, she still stuck to her responsibilities forFamilyGave everything. This is reminiscent of the saying, mutual aid and love areFamilyThe cornerstone. Only by helping and supporting each other can we make itFamilyMore content and happiness. Mutual aid is not just rightFamilyThe care and care of members is a kind of sincerity and dedication to others. InFamilyEveryone has their own roles and responsibilities, and only by helping and supporting each other can we create a harmonious and happy togetherFamily