life, eachFamilyAll have their own problems and challenges. Even under the blessings of happiness, everyone will experience some moments that make them confused and painful. FamilyAffectionentanglements, intergenerational contradictions, and economicStress, all of which make up this true and moving story. Let's walk into this real world together and feel that every family has a difficult experience.
The mother-in-law's birthday is approaching, and in order to avoid the peak period of visiting relatives, the family decided to visit relatives a day earlier. Early in the morning, my wife and daughter and I left on time, and the car was filled with our carefully selected gifts. My wife's house is 100 kilometers away from our house, and every time I go to visit relatives, I have to get up early in the morning. On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, there were a lot of relatives on the road, the vehicles were frequent, and my daughter was motion sick, and she always felt very uncomfortable on the road and vomited many times. I proposed to change to a more comfortable car, but my wife disagreed and insisted on the old car.
We suffered from motion sickness in the car and finally took two and a half hours to reach my wife's house. After getting out of the car, the daughter quickly forgot about the motion sickness experience she had just experienced and played with her uncle's children. We got all the gifts out of the car and walked into the house, where my mother-in-law was cooking, and the table was full of food. Dad and mother-in-law chatted with the father-in-law, handed each other cigarettes, greeted each other warmly, and when everyone arrived, they began to enjoy dinner.
The father-in-law has three brothers, he is the second, the eldest has a son, and the third has two sons. In order to reduce the number of times relatives move, every year on Chinese New Year's Eve, the five brothers are invited to dinner, drink and chat. However, this year's situation is a little different. Some time has passed, and the eldest and the eldest son have not yet appeared. The dick kept urging them, but they didn't respond. Finally, when everyone was stunned, the eldest and his sister-in-law walked over, and we greeted them at the door. After a while, the eldest told everyone that they were leaving, it turned out to be because of their sonJin Mingcontradictions.
Confusingly, the second child suddenly shouted, "Let's go!."If you want to break off the relationship, I will also break the relationship. "I feel very confused, after all, the eldest and the second are brothersJin MingIt's their cousins, how could it beJin MingAnd what about the contradiction?This meal was heartyChinese New Year's Eve dinnerIt seems like it's about to become unspeakable. The eldest brother and sister-in-law's family left in a hurryJin Mingalso followed, and the scene was embarrassing for a while. The two sons of the third child hurriedly chased after him, but to no avail. Obviously, the issues between them are very complicated. I didn't dare to say much, and my daughter-in-law was confused, so we could only listen to their conversation from the sidelines.
After listening to it for a while, I seem to understand a little. It turned out that when I was in the second year of junior high school,Jin Mingorganized a few brothers to drink, and invited the eldest brother to participate many times, but the eldest brother never came. Because the two had a quarrel before,Jin MingAfter drinking, he sent a text message saying that he wanted to break off the relationship, which led to today's scene. The second brother could only chase the two in vain, and when he came back, he said that he didn't have to worry about them anymore, and we continued to eat. Finally, everyone started the meal, and me, my father-in-law, my second brother and my two sons sat down at a table to enjoy the food.
Since I didn't drink while driving, and they drank two bottles of liquor, we were soon finished eating. The second brother and his two brothers were already drunk, and their voices became much louder. They began to discussJin MingAnd the big brother thing. The eldest brother is almost forty years old, and he has not made much money in recent years, and he is still burdened with a lot of debts. Jin Minglooked down on him a little, and the second brother then interjected and saidJin MingIn fact, there is no money, his car has a down payment of 100,000 yuan, and he has to repay more than 3,000 yuan in installments every month, which he drawsChinese cigarettesIt's just to put on a façade, in fact, he owes hundreds of thousands of yuan in debt, and he doesn't have a penny.
The second sister-in-law was deceived by telecom fraud of nearly 200,000 yuan this year, and she lost nearly 200,000 yuan in business last year, so she borrowed money from me some time ago. Hearing this, I hurriedly said that it was okay, we don't need money. Then, they began to talk about the situation of other relatives and friends in the village, and said that in fact, each oneFamilyIt's pretty much the same, even if you drive a good car and smoke a good cigarette, your pocket is actually empty. They mentioned that the neighbor's son was in his thirties and had not yet married, and the interlocutor asked for a bride price of 350,000 yuan, which made the old couple feel very troubled.
Every one in the countrysideFamilyAll have their own problems and challenges. The old man was already aware of the conflicts between the brothers, but perhaps because the children had grown up, he could not influence their decisions. They solve it themselvesFamilyDisputes over issues. Brothers are united, strength can conquer all, and I hope that next year when they go to relatives again, they will be able to sit together and share good food and wine.
eachFamilyIt's all thereAffectionThe continuation of the dilemma and the struggle. This story shows oneFamilyAffectionEntanglements and family conflicts. It is real, and people can feel the truth and moving of life from the story. We should cherish itFamilyNo matter what kind of difficulties you face, you must work hard to solve problems and maintain the unity and balance of the familySpend time togetherdifficulties, share happiness and joy.