Recently, a heart-wrenching news came to his face, a male high school student in a key middle school in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, jumped into the river and committed suicide, and his life was forever fixed at the age of 18.
This boy's name is Xiaowei, from the ** point of view, very clean and handsome, and his academic performance is also very good, this year is already a senior in high school, originally stayed up for another half a year, is a college student.
Why did Xiaowei give up his life so resolutely on the eve of the college entrance examination, regardless of his parents' years of nurturing grace?
Judging from the suicide note circulated on the Internet, the reason why Xiaowei jumped into the river was that he was played with by a girl, and he was abused and slandered after breaking up. The girl's reputation is not good, and she has been in 8 relationships before Xiaowei. At first, the girl took the initiative to confess, and the simple Xiaowei couldn't resist the enthusiasm of the "love veteran" and stayed with her. During the time the two were together, in order to please the girl, Xiaowei bought her various gifts, but in exchange for the girl's repeated deception and betrayal, and the girl also maintained an ambiguous relationship with other people. After the breakup, Xiaowei felt that his efforts were not worth it, so he asked the girl to get back the Polaroid he bought for her with his frugality, but he was insulted by the girl for being a dead licking dog, a man with a lower head and other ugly words. And the girl also made up rumors that she was a victim, Xiaowei collapsed in the overwhelming rumors and abuse, and finally wrote a suicide note, and resolutely threw himself into the river in the early hours of the morning.
A fresh life, because of a puppy love, will wither forever.
Why is life so fragile?The biggest tragedy in life is that a white-haired person sends a black-haired person.
In the suicide note of **, Xiaowei said: I am an idiot, and I am most sorry for my dear parents, sisters, grandparents, and those who have feelings for me. Mom and Dad have been working very hard, but your son can't achieve great things after all, and he hasn't ushered in his own spring and Jingming.
The sentence "I'm stupid" is self-denial and self-deprecation, but it also tells a lot of unwillingness and powerlessness.
But that shouldn't be a reason for you to give up your life, kid!
Sincerely, but what does it matter?Because,No life is perfectWe accept the strong and admirable parts of ourselves, but we can also accept the fragile and fallible parts of ourselves. Only in this way will we be able to get through the darkest moments of our lives.
The value of life depends not on what we do or on the people we meet, but on who we are, who we are – and at all times, never forget that.
Life not only belongs to ourselves, our life condenses the care of family and society, and places the expectations of family and society, so each of us must cherish ourselves, accept ourselves, and treat ourselves well. From oneself to others, we should cherish others, accept others, treat others with kindness to others and all living beings in the world.
Take care of your life every day!Cherishing life is an attitude towards life, because only by having life can we feel the beauty and happiness of life. Cherishing life is also a kind of responsibility, which is a manifestation of being responsible for oneself and others. Only in life can we contribute to others and society, and only then can we reflect the value of our own life.
To cherish your life is to do it
Don't joke with your own life.
When encountering trouble, communicate with parents and teachers in a timely manner, and do not have the idea of suicide.
Establish a sense of cherishing life and know that life is only once.
Zhuangzi said: "Life in the world is like a white horse passing through a gap, and it is all of a sudden." ”
That's why we take life seriously.
Learning to accept imperfections is a must in life.