"Dad, I'm cold, you hug me!This is a scene of a four-year-old boy wearing only shorts who is shivering in the snow and ice at minus 13 degrees Celsius to his father. However, the father ignored his son's plea and instead urged him to run, saying, "It's not cold when you run!."”
11 years ago, this ** went viral on the Internet, a 4-year-old boy was asked by his father to run outside wearing only one ** in the weather of minus 13 degrees. Now, 11 years later, this boy has gone through an extraordinary road of growth.
One day in 2008, a ** spread quickly on the Internet. A skinny boy wears only a yellow strip and shiveres in the cold winter wind. He ran back and forth, crying and shouting "Daddy". The middle-aged man standing on the side was expressionless, just kept asking the boy to keep running.
This ** immediately caused an uproar on the Internet. Most people said that it was all due to the abuse and improper care of his son by his father, He Liesheng. "A 4-year-old child only wears a ** running in the weather of minus 13 degrees, and this father doesn't take the child's health too seriously!That's what a lot of comments say. There are also doubts that He Liesheng's behavior will cause great physical and mental harm to a child.
However, the truth of the matter is often not as simple as we think. After 11 years of filming, we revisit the incident, maybe the father is not so "hateful", and the boy has also experienced a different 11 years. This father actually has his own unspeakable secrets, and behind his strict requirements for the boy is his helplessness to save the child.
This skinny boy's name is He Yide, and his father He Liesheng can be said to be meticulous in his training. In fact, since He Yide was born, He Liesheng has arranged various high-intensity physical training for him.
He Yide is the miraculous child that He Liesheng and his wife will have when they are in their 40s. His wife was born prematurely due to complications when she was pregnant, and He Yide was only more than 3 pounds when she was born. This made He Liesheng very worried, and the doctor even clearly told He Liesheng that He Yide had a high probability of becoming a child with cerebral palsy and might not be able to live independently for life.
Thinking that his only child may be sick for life and lose his ability to take care of himself, He Liesheng is extremely self-blaming and distressed. As a father, he was so reluctant and helpless. He was determined to let He Yide grow up to be a healthy child, and he must not let fate ** his own flesh and blood.
So, at the doctor's suggestion, he formulated a "devil training plan" for He Yide, who was still in the incubator. The plan is pervasive and nuanced, and it makes people shudder. It covers massages, swimming, mountain climbing, and more, and requires six-month-old Ho Yide to undergo up to eight hours of training every day, and adoptive parents require strict testing of results every two months.
He Yide, who could not yet walk, struggled to learn to swim under the guidance of his father, insisting on one hour a day, regardless of any weather conditions. At first, he cried heartbreakingly, his small body fluttering in the water, but his father stood aside expressionlessly, with mixed feelings in his heart.
When he was 2 years old, when other children were still learning to walk, he had been taken by He Liesheng to climb the mountain for exercise. Whenever he was tired, he could only rest by himself for a while, and his father would never hold him, because he knew that it was for his son's health in the future.
The cry and pain of his son were undoubtedly torture for He Liesheng. But for the sake of the healthy growth of the child in the future, he always admonished himself to be hard-hearted. He knew very well that all that he had done, no matter how cruel it was, was for He Yide's good.
Under He Liesheng's strict requirements and careful care, He Yide's physical condition has been increasing day by day, not only has he not become a child with cerebral palsy, but has made outstanding achievements and is difficult to find a prodigy.
At the age of 5, he flew over the Beijing Wildlife Park, becoming the youngest pilot in the world, and proving that his learning ability and motor coordination skills are not inferior to any ordinary child. He Liesheng watched his son fly at the airport, and his heart was extremely excited and proud. This is the result of his tireless efforts over the years.
At the age of 7, He Yide became the majority shareholder of a company, holding 40% of the shares. When an ordinary child was still learning to write and recognize, He Yide already had a place in the business field. This is due to his father's strict intellectual development and business training since he was a child.
At the age of 8, He Yide passed the exam with extraordinary intelligence and officially entered Nanjing University to study. The classmates around him are much older than him, but this can't stump He Yide, who has received hard training since childhood. Later, at the age of 12, he successfully graduated from university and received his undergraduate diploma, becoming the youngest university graduate.
Today, He Yide is 15 years old. The University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom recently sent him an invitation to enter the postdoctoral program, hoping that this little prodigy can go to further study. Watching his son achieve extraordinary things step by step, He Liesheng's heart was undoubtedly excited and proud. In his own way, he raised a fragile premature baby into a talent in his own right.
Every parent is crazy about wanting their children to become Jackie Chan, and He Liesheng is no exception. We see his harsh approach to education, and some people say it's abuse. Indeed, by ordinary standards, He Liesheng's approach is somewhat extreme and cruel.
However, from He Liesheng's standpoint, as a father, his only flesh and blood is at risk of becoming a lifelong disability, how can he be calm?That's why he will find ways to save the child, no matter how cruel the method is. As parents, they will love their flesh and blood desperately.
The results also proved that under He Liesheng's careful care and strict cultivation, He Yide grew into a prodigy, and he was physically and mentally healthy. So is He Liesheng's original intention really completely wrong?His approach cannot be fully recognized, but it is also difficult to be completely denied.
There is no standard answer to the right education, and every parent is choosing the way to do it according to their own understanding. What we don't know is the story behind a family. As outsiders, are we really qualified to highvoltage judge a father's choice?At least judging from He Yide's brilliant achievements, this father's decision is not entirely unreasonable.
We must not judge parents who are strict with their children. Because how can we fully understand the situation of each family?All we can do is wish every child a healthy and happy growth.