Which way are your children going?
Even though I don't have a child yet, I have no experience raising and educating children.
However, I also came all the way from a child, and I grew up to the present, and I didn't grow up when the monkey jumped out of the stone.
Even Sun Monkey has to learn art, he also needs to be guided by others, and he has to be beaten by others, and he has been pressed in Wuzhi Mountain for five hundred years before he suddenly woke up.
We are only a few decades, can it be that we can borrow from the sky for another 500 years, and also go to the west to learn scriptures and seek positive results?
Therefore, as parents, in order to let your children take fewer detours and reach the goal, you still have to spend more effort and think about how to go this way.
What is the way of the child?
I'm not much of a successful person right now, I can even say I'm a loser.
But it doesn't affect me to discuss how children move.
The pits I have stepped on, the traps I have stepped on, the detours I have taken, and the lessons I have learned can also serve as a wake-up call to the world.
I've talked about these things before, so I'll talk about them briefly today.
Let's start with my own journey.
I am a farmer's child, my parents have never studied, I have been doing farm work in the countryside all my life, I have never seen the world, I am very honest, I don't make much money, and I have no savings after working hard all my life.
Such a family is considered to be destitute, without any accumulation, no resources, no background and no connections.
Born in such a family, what path can such a child take?
I was admitted to university from a rural herding cow.
Now he lives and works in a small city.
I went down this path to study, go to college, and get a job in the city after graduation.
After all, from the countryside to the city, although the salary is not high, I can finally gain a foothold in the city and have a shelter from the wind and rain.
This is already a leap forward.
Many of my classmates, like me, are also rural babies, and they have also been admitted to universities and found good jobs.
They go further and better.
Many of them are the backbone of the unit and hold important positions.
Many of them are paid well.
They have their own house in the city.
This is actually the path that I and my classmates from the same background have walked.
The path of the children of the poor.
Anyway, the starting point is already very low, there is no mine at home, your parents can't help you, you can only rely on yourself.
You can only try your best to get into a good university and a good major, which major is popular and easy to make money, you will study whichever major.
Even if you can only go to a very average university or a very general major due to some reasons, such as insufficient scores, you can also learn survival skills in the workplace through later study, and that is the same.
There are also people whose parents may be middle class, not poor, and have accumulation.
The best way out for a child from such a family is to follow the path of his parents.
After all, their parents have been in their line for many years, and they have technology, connections, resources, and channels.
Parents can give their children professional career guidance, and if they take fewer detours, the starting point will be very high.
For example, my parents work in state-owned enterprises, what State Grid, what tobacco, these are very popular units.
For example, his parents are programmers in large factories and have an annual salary of hundreds of thousands or millions.
If their children are not geniuses, they are probably ordinary people, and the best way out is to enter the unit or industry where their parents stayed.
Parents are in such a unit, they know the situation inside, how to deal with it, how to get along with the leader, how to get promoted and raised, and so on.
These paths are clear and the parents have walked.
If you have to go to other industries and other units, you have to start all over again, wasting the starting line your parents created for you.
As for wealthy families, that's not something I can imagine.
Could it be like Wang Sicong who inherited his father's business and gave him a few small goals to play?
I'm in the middle class right now.
I have experienced the path that the children of the poor have traveled, so I know very well.
I haven't entered the middle class yet, but it's not out of reach, and many of my classmates are already in the middle class, so I can still think about it if I have contact.
The children of the poor are just going to break in, try and make mistakes everywhere, and have nothing anyway, and if they do, there may be hope and become the middle class.
At most, you're still poor!
It's not the same when you go to break in.
Of course, it is not only the road of studying, studying in college, and studying well, but this path is indeed the most effective.
Middle-class children, unless they are geniuses, it is better to follow the path of their parents, someone to guide them, and there are fewer detours, and the probability of success is greater.