My wife Xiaomei and I have been married for 7 years, and our lives are uneventful, with work, eating, and sleeping repetitively every day. I work as a programmer in a foreign company, and I have a lot of work pressure, often working overtime until late, and Xiaomei is already asleep when I come home. Xiaomei works as a designer in a clothing company, and often socializes late. There are fewer and fewer words between us, and the relationship is not as sweet as it was when we first got married.
Xiaomei has a male girlfriend named Xiao Li, who is her old classmate in college, and the two have a very good relationship. I've always had a lot of complaints about this "male girlfriend", and I think that a married woman is too close to other men. But Xiaomei said that they were just ordinary friends, so I didn't want to be careful.
Xiao Li is like my brother, you think too much!”
I didn't think about anything, I just thought that your relationship was too good and it would be misunderstood. ”
You're just too sweet!Xiao Li and I have known each other since college, and now we work in the same city, so it's normal to come out and get together occasionally. ”
Does he have a girlfriend then?Why do you eat more often?”
He just broke up and is sad, aren't I comforting him?You should also be considerate of your friends. ”
Every time Xiaomei would refute me on this topic, and then we would have a big fight. Later, I didn't bother to pay attention to it, and let Xiaomei and Xiaoli meet often. I'm too busy to care about that anyway.
Until one night, I came home from overtime and found that Xiaomei was not at home. I called her **, she said that she was at Xiao Li's house, Xiao Li had just broken up with his girlfriend, and she was in a bad mood, and she was giving him spiritual counseling.
What do you mean when you're not at home at night and run to a man's house?"I'm angry.
I said it all, Xiao Li just broke up and was in a bad mood, I just came over to chat, you think too much!Xiaomei also raised her voice.
Can't you chat during the day?When I go to a single man's house at night, why don't you make me think about it too much?”
He's going to work during the day!It's normal to talk at night, don't be unreasonable!”
vexatious?You ran to your boyfriend's house and said I was unreasonable?I was even more furious, "You give me to go home immediately, or we will divorce!."”
Xiaomei cried and said, "Aren't I caring about my friends?".Why are you so unreasonable?”
We really didn't do anything!I just chatted with him and listened to what he was thinking. Xiaomei was still crying, and her voice was very aggrieved.
I don't care what you do or not, your behavior itself is unacceptable to me. If you don't come back, we'll get a divorce!"I hung up heavily.
After that, Xiaomei went home crying and kept apologizing to me, but I was already disheartened with this marriage. A married woman running to a man's house in the middle of the night is beyond my bottom line. I am determined to divorce Xiaomei.
Xiaomei saw that I was resolute and knew that I was not joking, so she immediately knelt at my feet and begged me: "Husband, I really know my mistake, give me a chance, I promise you that I will never see Xiao Li again in the future, let's not divorce, okay?"”
Get up, my decision has been decided, we have to get a divorce. This is also a lesson for you, don't be ambiguous with men anymore. I said coldly.
Husband, please think about it again, we have been married for 7 years, can you bear it like this?Xiaomei hugged my thigh and cried.
I gave you a chance, but you didn't cherish it. The foundation of our relationship has been ruined by you, and I can't continue any more. I shook off Xiaomei and turned to leave.
Immediately after that, I went to the lawyer to draft the divorce agreement. Xiaomei knows that the general trend has gone, and she can only accept this reality. She burst into tears all day and talked to me about living expenses, housing and other issues after the divorce. I handled these matters indifferently and was ready for divorce.
Seeing that I was resolute, Xiaomei could only accept the reality and began to pack her luggage and prepare to leave.
I will remember every bit of these years. Goodbye, husband. Xiaomei said to me with red eyes.
Well, we used to love each other too. It's just that time has passed, and the relationship has finally changed. That's life. I said lightly.
Husband, I really know it's wrong. I will never contact Xiao Li again in this life, please give me a chance to start over!Xiaomei pleaded again.
Xiaomei nodded helplessly, wiped away her tears and left. We really don't have anything, it's all innocuous jokes. You don't want to divorce Xiaomei because of this!Xiao Li said anxiously.
I don't care if you do anything or not, the point is that what Xiaomei has done has exceeded my bottom line. So be it,. I responded coldly. , I beg you, give it to Xiaomei!You have both been married for so many years, there will definitely be ups and downs in the relationship, and you have to learn to be tolerant. Xiao Li began to persuade me.
Needless to say, my decision will not change. The three of us don't contact each other anymore. "I stood up and prepared to leave.
Seeing that Xiao Li couldn't persuade me, he became emotional and said that he wanted to do something with me. I looked at him coldly and asked him to let the horse come. The two scuffled together in front of the company.
You unreasonable fellow, I'm going to wake you up!Xiao Li grabbed me by the collar and shouted.
Come on, my decision won't change anyway. I replied coldly.
Just as we were scuffling together, Xiao Li suddenly stumbled and fell to the ground clutching his chest. I saw that his face was pale and his lips were purple, so I quickly called a colleague to take him to the hospital.
In the hospital, the doctor diagnosed Xiao Li as having a heart attack. It turned out that he had a heart problem and had been ** before, but this time the argument was too excited, which caused his condition to worsen. Only then did I know that the reason why Xiaomei often visited him was because he was not in good health and needed to be taken care of.
Only then did I suddenly realize that I had completely misunderstood Xiaomei before. Maybe she went to Xiao Li's house at night out of a friend's concern for the patient. I think about how much she has taken care of me over the years and feel that I have gone too far.
Xiao Li, I'm sorry, I misunderstood you. You can rest assured first**, I will talk to Xiaomei well. I'm embarrassed to say.
I nodded, determined to save Mei. I apologized to her: "Xiaomei, I'm sorry, I blamed you." Can we meet and have a good talk?”
Xiaomei choked up and said, "Husband, I knew you would understand." Of course, we have to talk about it and start over. ”
hung up**, I couldn't help but blame myself, why was I so impulsive, and I almost divorced Xiaomei. I decided to reflect on my jealousy and be more tolerant and understanding of Mei in the future.
As soon as we met, I hugged Xiaomei tightly and kept saying "I'm sorry" in her ear.
Xiaomei also hugged me, with tears in her eyes: "Husband, I knew you would understand me." ”
It's me who is wrong, and I shouldn't doubt your relationship with Xiao Li. You're just ordinary friends, and I'm thinking too much. I said reproachfully.
I understand your feelings, and if I were you, I would probably think too much. But believe me, Xiao Li is just a brother in my heart. Xiaomei said softly.
Well, I see. It's okay if you go to visit Xiao Li in the future, I won't misunderstand again. He was not in good health and needed to be taken care of. I nodded.
Xiaomei smiled with relief: "Great, husband, you finally understand." Some friends are like family, and we should understand and trust each other. ”
Yes, I will try to overcome my jealousy and become a better husband in the future. I shook Xiaomei's hand and said.
I will also pay attention to the balance and not let you misunderstand. Xiaomei said softly.
We stared into each other's eyes as we did when we first fell in love. This turmoil has deepened our relationship, and it turns out that mutual understanding is so important.