What should I do if my child is unwilling to communicate?In homeschooling, we often encounter a common problem - children are unwilling to communicate. Faced with such a situation, parents often feel helpless and confused.
So, what if the child is unwilling to communicate?How to solve this problem?This article will share some practical family education methods from the following aspects.
1. Understand your child's psychological needs
First of all, we need to understand the psychological needs of children. Every child has their own personality traits and stages of development, and their needs will be different. Some children may be reluctant to communicate for fear of being criticized, while others may choose to remain silent because they feel that their parents do not understand them. Therefore, parents should learn to empathize and understand their children's thoughts and feelings from their perspective.
Many parents have a tense relationship with their children, and in the long run, it is very detrimental to the development and long-term development of children's character
Purely by yelling at the child or strict discipline, it is basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted, I came here like this, until a few months ago, I studied in Gaotu Meimei family for a period of time, and I learned too much with Teacher Song Li, we first learned from Teacher Song Li's adolescent class,At first, it was because after the junior high school, the child's grades were originally in the middle of the stream, but after junior high school, new courses such as geography and biology were added, and the child worked hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very backward, and even he was rotten and did not study!
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Asking for help from the teacher, the teacher let the science guide, recommended Mr. Song Li's class, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, the child also realized the value of learning, caught up, and the atmosphere at home was good, so it is worth learning.
2. Create a good family atmosphere
A harmonious family atmosphere is essential for a child's development. Parents should try to avoid arguing in front of their children and give them a safe and warm environment to grow up. At the same time, parents should pay more attention to their children's life and learning, care about their joys and sorrows, and let their children feel the warmth of the family.
3. Respect children's independence
As children grow, they gradually begin to develop their own sense of independence. Parents should respect their children's independence and give them enough freedom. When children encounter problems, parents can give appropriate advice, but do not interfere too much, so that children can learn to think independently and solve problems.
4. Cultivate children's communication skills
Communication skills are the foundation of interpersonal communication, and parents should cultivate their children's communication skills from an early age. By participating in parent-child activities and organizing family gatherings, children can have more opportunities to communicate with others. In addition, parents can also develop their children's expression and listening skills through reading, storytelling, etc.
5. Lead by example and set an example
Parents are their children's first teachers, and children learn and imitate from their parents' words and deeds. Therefore, parents should lead by example and set a good example of communication. In daily life, parents should pay attention to their words and behaviors, communicate with their children on an equal and respectful basis, and let their children feel the joy of communication.
6. Seek professional help
If the child is reluctant to communicate for a long time, parents can seek the help of a professional psychologist. Psychologists can help parents understand their children's psychological conditions, provide effective communication methods and skills, and help parents and children establish a good communication relationship.
What should I do if my child is unwilling to communicate?Children's reluctance to communicate is a problem that needs parents' attention and resolution. Parents should learn to empathize and understand their children's psychological needsCreate a good family atmosphere and respect the independence of children;Develop your child's communication skills and set an example by exampleSeek professional help when necessary. I believe that through these methods, parents will be able to solve the problem of their children's reluctance to communicate and establish a good communication relationship with their children.