In this world, the most difficult thing to control is probably love, some people's love has always been a sweet period, while some people have no love, and even ended up parting ways.
But I have always believed that people who can manage love can keep the relationship fresh, and people who can't manage feelings often turn into bitterness before they taste the sweetness.
In a relationship, if you want a man to cherish you, you must not do the following three things, come and learn!
One, don't overdo it for him to save money.
When it comes to men's wallets, people often say: "When a man is rich, he will become bad, either gambling or prostitution".
For a man with a stable income and a salary that is not low, a woman must not save him money excessively, once a woman saves him money, not only will he not be grateful, but he will also spend the money that should be spent on other women.
A friend said, "When I feel insecure, I try to spend my partner's money because if I don't spend it, it's cheaper for other women."
It's true, even if you don't spend his money, you must let him save it for you, otherwise it will be cheaper for others.
A man with a stable income, he actually doesn't look down on people who save too much money, because he thinks that he is still young and can still make money, so there is no need to save, and if a woman saves him too much, it will attract his disgust.
Second, dress yourself well.
For women, the best investment is to invest in themselves, no matter what time it is, women must dress themselves well.
Once you don't dress yourself well and dress sloppily, your partner can tolerate it at first, and over time, walking on the street, you will find that your partner's eyes fall on others, and you standing next to him seem to be air.
Women must not believe the saying: "If he really likes you, as long as you stop there and don't have to do anything, he will be satisfied".
Once a woman does not dress herself well, she is giving her partner the opportunity to steal outside.
Only when a woman invests in herself well and makes a man have a sense of crisis will he cherish you well.
Third, you must have your own social circle.
I think the best state of life is probably that no matter what age you are, you must have your own social circle, have three or five good friends to play with, talk to each other when you are in a bad mood, and go out to play in your spare time.
But I found that many people, after getting married from each other and having a family, gradually, no longer contact, women eventually returned to the family, and in their daily lives, in addition to their husbands, they were children.
Sometimes, relying too much on one person can also turn that person off.
When a woman's life is full of daily trivialities of the family, the man will find the woman boring, and he has to talk to him about a little thing that is as big as a sesame seed, so that he feels very annoying, and she can't digest it by herself
So even if a woman has a family, don't lose her friends, she must have her own social circle, women's minds are more delicate, and men don't understand at all, women's daily complaints come from **, he will only feel that women are dying.