1.Don't be too sensible, don't always reflect on yourself, and don't always think about other people's feelings. Don't take others too seriously, and don't be too cultured. If you are too cultured and always swallow your anger, others will feel that they can trample on you at will. If you are too sensible, others will take it for granted, after all, you are a good person. But being a good person doesn't mean being selfless, and it doesn't mean eating shit.
Those who speak impulsively, are lazy, behave out of line, often fight and do things if they don't accept them are often more likely to gain the respect of others. And those who speak well and are reasonable often do not get the respect they deserve.
2.Consciously control your expression and don't show happiness, anger, or sadness on your face. In particular, it is necessary to avoid frequent laughter, especially the kind of groveling laughter, which makes people want to step on it when they see it. Not laughing can solve almost 50% of the problem of weakness.
3.Don't expose your insecurities to outsiders, such as speaking quietly, repeating sentences, and changing positions frequently when standing or seating. Stiff body movements, stiff expressions, and erratic eyes can all reveal your nervousness and lack of confidence.
From now on, you should: speak at a smooth pace, with a loud voice, in one goWalk with your head up, your chest up, and your eyes ahead;Find the most comfortable position when seated and hold it until you want to change it. You have to do this often and practice a lot until they become a habit for you.
4.It is necessary to clearly set its own bottom line and principles, and resolutely defend them with actions. For those who borrow money and do not pay it back, they will all be blocked;For people who are bursting with negative energy, stay away;For those who dare to bully you, they will all be brought down.
5.Dare to pause, no matter how urgent things are, pause for three seconds before replying. For example, when someone makes a request or question, if you dare to pause, your response will give people the feeling of careful consideration. Don't talk about low-energy words like maybe, probably, and maybe, and I can say that I think about it when something happens.
6.The brutal truth is this: in interpersonal interactions, almost no one likes a cowardly person. If you are nervous, timid, humble, and flattering, you will suffer the deepest malice in the world. Only a tough attitude and tough strength can keep you out of harm's way.