When two people no longer love each other and no longer stay together, the heart-wrenching feeling is indescribable. However, sometimes letting go is the only option, because only the desperation of the other party makes it impossible for us to hold on any longer. In this article, I will share my thoughts and insights on letting go from a personal perspective on the reasons why you let go of someone you love.
Once, I did everything I could to love someone, and for her, I selflessly gave for her. But I don't ask her to give me the same feedback, I just hope that she will care about me a little bit and care more about me. However, in that part of the hot and coldLoveI never felt safe. She couldn't meet this small need. I had meekly tolerated her shortcomings, but they were not cherished by her. When a person is hurt deep enough, no matter how much love is, he will choose to let go and leave.
In addition to loving her, I am also a kind, sincere person. I am Xi to being kind, friendly and willing to give to others. In order to love her, I even changed my appearance, and when I told her that I liked things, I would pretend to like her. I silently endured being wronged, and forced a smile in order to cater to her. However, these sacrifices did not bring her to me in vain. She just turned a blind eye to my kindness and didn't care about my efforts. I live hypocritically and depressed for her because I love her too much.
I am convinced that of all people, I am the only one who has a soft spot for her. Her appearance and abilities are average, and she also has many shortcomings. Therefore, I believe it is difficult for anyone else to appreciate her except me. I'm for herLove, told her again and again,LoveIt's not my own effort, but it needs to be maintained and cherished by both parties. However, she always turned a deaf ear to my words, making me feel aggrieved and unvalued.
ForLoveAnd cherish her, I tolerate and compromise again and again. I have given a lot and endured many grievances for her. Such a pairLoveI humbly endured, gived, and even lost myself. However, all these efforts have been exchanged for her indifference and neglect of me. She doesn't cherish what I have done for her, she doesn't feel sorry for me, she doesn't care about me. I felt aggrieved and heartbroken, but she didn't know it because she never really loved me as much as I did.
I endured it to the limit and could no longer control my emotions. In order to pursue my own happiness, I resolutely told her that I no longer love her, that I need warmth and cherishment, that I don't want to continue to compromise, and that I don't want to be centered on her anymore. It doesn't mean I haven't cherished it, but I know it's the best option. Let go of her, not because I am ruthless, but because her ruthlessness makes me have to let go.
If you fall in love with someone who is indifferent to you, you should understand,LoveNot to please but to cherish. LoveBoth parties need to give and sustain each other. If you can be indifferent to me, then I can also banish you from my world and stop focusing on you. It doesn't mean that I haven't cherished it, it's just that I've been hurt enough to see the future and hope. Letting go is for my own fulfillment and for you.
Letting go of someone you love dearly is a tough thing, but sometimes it's the only option we have. LoveIt requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both parties, rather than the efforts of one person. When we give all our and cherish hopes, but we don't get a response and cherishment from the other party, we also need to think about our own happiness and decide to let go. This does not mean that we are ruthless, but that the other party's indifference and desperation make us have to let go.
After letting go, we need to learn to face life again and find our own happiness again. Letting go of someone we love doesn't mean we don't love them anymore, but we get itLoveof respect and equality. We have to believe that there is always someone who can appreciate and cherish us waiting for us somewhere. Letting go is not a failure, but the first step towards a better future.
So, no matter how much pain and pain we go through, we must learn to face it bravely and believe in our choices. Letting go of a loved one is not that we are ruthless, but that the other party is ruthless, so that we have to let go. Let us regain our courage and hope and continue to pursue our own happiness.