I found that many boys have this kind of confusion, that is, in the process of dating girls, they find that girls always say "don't, don't", so do they want it or not?This article will take you to analyze it well.
Let's be clear, when a girl says "don't", it doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't really want to. Sometimes girls say "don't", it's just a reserved performance!
They actually want it, but they're just embarrassed to say it directly. At this time, if you really don't give it to them, they may think that you are not considerate enough and do not love them enough!
We need to learn to judge the true intentions of girls from their expressions and tones. Generally speaking, if a girl says "no" with a relaxed expression and a softer tone, it may be that she really doesn't.
However, if the girl's expression is more nervous and her tone is more resolute when she says "don't", it may be a fake don't.
Let's take a look at one such story:
There is a couple, Xiao Ming and Xiao Ya decided to go to a newly opened restaurant to try it. The restaurant's quirky name, "Don't, Don't," piqued their curiosity.
They entered the restaurant and found that the restaurant was beautifully decorated, with various artworks hanging on the walls, which made people feel comfortable. They found a place by the window and sat down, and ordered a **.
While waiting for the food to be served, Xiao Ming and Xiao Ya started chatting. Xiao Ming asked Xiao Ya: "Do you like this restaurant?"Xiaoya smiled and said, "I like this restaurant very much, especially its name." ”
Xiao Ming asked curiously, "Why do you like the name of this restaurant?"Xiaoya smiled and said, "Because it reminds me of an interesting question." ”
Xiao Ming asked curiously, "What's the problem?"Xiaoya smiled and said: "Girls always say don't want to, is it really not?"When Xiao Ming heard this, he laughed out loud and said, "This is a very interesting question. I think women say don't don't, sometimes it's true, sometimes it's fake. ”
Xiaoya listened, nodded, and said, "I agree!."Girls sometimes say don't want to, in order to be reserved, to test the sincerity of men, and to increase interest. ”
When Xiao Ming heard this, his heart moved, and he said, "Can I ask you a question?"Xiaoya smiled and said, "You ask." Xiao Ming said seriously: "You said don't want to, do you really don't want it?"”
When Xiaoya heard this, she was stunned for a moment and blushed. Xiao Ming was overjoyed when he saw Xiao Ya's reaction, knowing that he had guessed correctly.
At this moment, the waiter brought their **. Xiao Ming and Xiao Ya stopped chatting and began to eat. When they were eating, Xiao Ming tentatively served Xiao Ya with food, and Xiao Ya kept saying, "Thank you." Xiao Ming looked at Xiao Ya's face, and his heart was full of happiness. He feels that he is the luckiest person in the world to be with Xiaoya.
After eating, Xiao Ming and Xiao Ya walked out of the restaurant. Xiao Ming took Xiao Ya's hand and said, "What do you think of the dishes in this restaurant?"Xiaoya smiled and said, "I think it's delicious." Xiao Ming smiled and said, "Then let's come to this restaurant again in the future." Xiaoya smiled and said, "Okay." ”
At this moment, Xiao Ming suddenly stopped and hugged Xiao Ya. Xiaoya asked in surprise, "What are you doing?"Xiao Ming said affectionately: "I want to surprise you." Xiaoya asked curiously, "What surprise?"”
Xiao Ming took out a small box from his pocket and handed it to Xiao Ya. Xiaoya took the box and opened it to see that it was a beautiful diamond ring. Xiao Ming knelt down on one knee and said, "Xiaoya, I love you."
Will you marry me?Xiaoya was moved to tears and said, "Can I do without it?"Xiao Ming was frightened and said, "Is the diamond ring too small, or not good-looking?"It is possible to change ......”
Seeing Xiao Ming's nervous appearance, Xiao Ya suddenly said with a tearful smile: "Fool, wait for you for so long before you propose to me!."I don't need a diamond ring, but I need you to give me a lifetime of hugs and care, can you do it?”
Yes", Xiao Ming happily hugged Xiao Ya tightly after speaking, and Xiao Ming finally understood that Xiao Ya's mouth did not want to, in fact, it was just to be!So they held a simple marriage proposal ceremony at the door of the restaurant, put on diamond rings for each other, and vowed to love each other forever.
Their stories teach us that love requires courage and determination. Sometimes, girls say don't want to test the sincerity of boys and increase their interest. If boys can read girls' minds and bravely pursue their love, they may be able to reap a happy ending.
In summary, when girls say "don't", it doesn't necessarily mean that they really don't, we must learn to observe words and colors, start from the perspective of girls, understand their needs and feelings, in order to get along with them better.