Bridesmaids: An indispensable role at weddings.
At weddings, in addition to the high-profile couples, there is another important role that cannot be ignored, and that is the bridesmaids. In China, there are many aspects to choosing a bridesmaid, not only to be close to the bride, but also to consider whether it is suitable for the occasion and atmosphere of the wedding.
First, the choice of bridesmaids.
In China, bridesmaid selection usually takes into account the bride's circle of relatives and friends, looking for female friends or relatives who are close to the bride.
These women are usually young and unmarried in order to show vitality and vigor.
As to whether a married person can be a bridesmaid, Xi varies from place to place. Some people believe that married women cannot be bridesmaids because in traditional Chinese culture, married women cannot convey the happiness and joy of newlyweds.
But there are also some local Xi customs that do not taboo married women as bridesmaids, as long as both parties do not mind, and the old people of the new family have no opinions, then married women can also be bridesmaids.
Most of the time, married women cannot be bridesmaids, because in China, many people think that married women already have their own families and responsibilities, and they are no longer suitable for the role of conveying the happiness and joy of newlyweds.
Second, the role of bridesmaids.
Bridesmaids play an important role in weddings. They are not only the bride's personal assistants, but also convey the bride's happiness and joy during the ceremony.
During the preparation of the wedding, the bridesmaids need to assist the bride with various chores, including the selection of wedding dresses, the decoration of the wedding scene, etc. On the wedding day, bridesmaids need to be by the bride's side to help her deal with various unexpected situations, such as keeping rings and arranging the wedding dress for the bride.
3. Etiquette requirements for bridesmaids.
As a bridesmaid, there are some etiquette requirements to follow at a wedding.
First of all, respect the wishes and decisions of the bride. Communicate with the bride before the wedding to understand her needs and expectations and do your best to accommodate them.
On the day of the wedding, arrive early to help the bride with some chores.
During the ceremony, be quiet and dignified and don't steal the limelight from the bride. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to the bride's needs and emotional changes at any time, and give timely care and support.
Fourth, the bridesmaids' outfits.
The bridesmaids' outfits are also a highlight of the wedding. As a general rule, bridesmaids' outfits should be plain and avoid being too fancy or eye-catching.
At the same time, consider matching with the bride's wedding dress and don't make yourself an alternative to the wedding. When choosing shoes, also be careful not to exceed the height of the bride to show respect and humility for the bride.
Fifth, the psychological quality of the bridesmaids.
As a bridesmaid, you need to have enough psychological qualities to cope with various situations at the wedding.
First of all, be good at dealing with unexpected situations. At weddings, it is common to encounter some unexpected situations such as sudden rain, loss of rings, etc. At this time, the bridesmaids need to respond in time to help the bride solve the problem.
Second, we must have the courage to accept criticism and accusations. At the wedding, the bride may have some opinions or suggestions about the bridesmaids' work. At this time, bridesmaids need to accept criticism with an open mind and correct their deficiencies in time.
Finally, have patience and a careful work attitude. At the wedding, the bridesmaids need to be patient with all kinds of trivial matters and not be sloppy and careless. At the same time, it is necessary to pay careful attention to the needs and emotional changes of the bride, and give timely care and support.
Whether the bridesmaids are unmarried or married, they are an important role in the wedding. Their dedication and efforts make the bride feel happier and more at ease, and also make the wedding more complete and smooth.