Before you know it, there is less than a month left before the end of this semester, and the bell for the final exam preparation has already ringed. However, every "final season" is also a child's "problem season", and various problems emerge one after another. So in today's article, let's talk about it together, a month before the final examWhat should parents do and what should they do?In order to help children defeat problems together and draw a perfect end to this semester.
About Grades:A good family makes a child get good grades
I remember a teacher said:"The main factor influencing a child's achievement is not the school, but the family. ”His name is Wang Jinzhan, and he once sent 37 students in his class to Tsinghua University and Peking University, and his daughter was also admitted to Peking University with excellent grades. He believes that if there is a problem in family education, children will have a hard time at school, and even become "problem children" in school. Parents usually ignore it, and they get angry when they do not take the exam, why should their children study well?And the end of the semester is approaching, it is normal for children's grades to fluctuate, as parents, in the face of children's grades, we must learn to control emotions and learn to help children solve problems, rather than standing on the side of the problem to deal with children. In daily life, we should pay more attention to children's grades and let children correctly recognize their ability level, so that they can better formulate a revision plan and strive to surpass their previous level in the exam. 
Then there is our mentality towards results. It is often said that mindset is everything, and for children, mindset determines their test scores. Someone has calculated that a child goes through at least 100 exams from elementary school to high school, and at least 90 out of 100 children are afraid of exams. The final exam is approaching, but a considerable number of children have regressed significantly: they can't understand in class, they can't do homework, they can't dictate and write, and they ...... to hand in blank papersMost of them are influenced by mentality. Parents' attitudes towards their children's studies and grades also determine their children's attitudes towards studies and grades. As the old saying goes, "On the children's report card, there are also the parents' grades." ”In the process of educating children, parents must have a correct mentality, do not praise high scores, do not have good low scores, treat their children's grades with a normal heart, and stand shoulder to shoulder with their children at all times. About self-discipline:Self-disciplined children must be the biggest winners
I believe parents must have heard such a sentence:
To become a top student, it is enough to give him a long vacation;Ruining a child, just let him indulge in a long vacation. We can't expect children to be born conscious, because self-discipline is not natural, it can only be cultivated. Parents blame their children for being unconscious and undisciplined, and in the final analysis, they are making excuses for their own powerlessness.
As a parent, if you put down your phone and turn off the TV, your child won't be addicted to the phone and TV all the time;When you pick up a book and read patiently, your child will be able to engage in learning with peace of mind. To cultivate a self-disciplined child, it is not enough to just talk about the big truth, but also to take the lead in setting an example for the child. Whether it is a parent or a child, self-discipline must start from self-improvement, otherwise it will be fake hard work. 
I remember a parent interviewed before who said:My child is working hard to read the writing questions every day, why can't his grades go up?That's when I ask them a question: Is your child really working hard?Have you really paid attention?In fact, we also came from that stage, learning is not terrible, the most terrible thing is that children pretend to learn. There is a word called "false diligence".
It means that children are very busy every day, but they don't know what they are busy with, just like some children are not good at managing time, when others review a chapter, he can only understand one concept, and when others do a set of test papers, he can only complete the basic questions. That's why we say that what really determines a child's performance is not IQ, not effort, but time management. Some children unconsciously "become lazy and stupid". If you don't like to use your brain to think, you are not good at reflection, you don't summarize learning methods, and you can only get 60 points if you pay 100 points. "Fake diligence" not only shows that hard work is important, but also shows how hard work is more important!Children can't "fake effort", parents can't "fake care", find the right way, "teaching" and "education" will be effective. About Entertainment:Playing on your phone is the fastest way to ruin your grades
Playing with mobile phones is becoming more and more the fastest way to ruin your child's grades.
Children who are addicted to mobile phones, after class, after school, keep their two eyes on the screen. When it's time to go to class, there's no way to get into the learning state at all, and sometimes they play secretly just during class. Children who are addicted to mobile phones have a hard time focusing on their studies, are too lazy to think, and can't get good grades. Some studies have found that there are far fewer students in key classes who have mobile phones than students in regular classesThere are far fewer top students who use mobile phones than ordinary students. This shows that the impact of mobile phones on children is still very large, and the most important thing we parents need to do is to help children do a good job of balance and time management from the perspective of mobile phones, children and learning, so that the double-edged sword of mobile phones can be used as much as possible without self-harm. 
A mobile phone, not only entertainment, but also will destroy the child's self-discipline and concentration, delay the child's learning and progress, no wonder some people say that if you want to destroy the child, give him a mobile phone is enough.
For example, the boy Shan Xiaolong scored 676 points in the college entrance examination and was admitted to Tsinghua University, and he never used a mobile phone when he was studying, and so far he only has a button mobile phone with a broken screen;
In order to concentrate on accompanying his daughter and not affecting his daughter's studies, Wu Yishu's father turned off his mobile phone every day after work.
On the issue of mobile phones, parents must be ruthless and not let a little entertainment delay their children's future. About Review:Revision should also be "taught according to aptitude".
If learning is compared to the process of holding water, then children who have not laid a good foundation are like wooden barrels with holes, which are filled with water while leaking, checking and filling in the gaps, so that they can continuously absorb knowledge.
If you don't fill the holes in time, don't check and fill the gaps, and don't have the results of hard work, no matter how much you invest, it's equivalent to waste. Different children should have different revision plans and different revision methods. Eugenics: check and fill in the gaps. Focusing on maintaining advantages, we will continue to strengthen the dominant subjects, further improve the weak subjects, and strive for balanced improvement. Middle school students: go all out to overcome weak subjects. Keeping up with the teacher's revision progress and making every effort to improve the weak areas is the key to improving your grades. Latecomers: Consolidate basic knowledge. Based on the textbook, lay a solid foundation, establish self-confidence, strive for the basic questions without losing points, and improve the questions to get more points. 
At this time, some parents may say, then why is my child obviously very smart, but his grades just can't go up?In fact, everyone must understand that the method must be more important than the effort, and if you want your child to get a high score, it is particularly important to cultivate good habits. No matter what subject it is, learn to listen carefully in class, take notes, and learn from the past after class, such a child will not have bad grades. Write at the end:
Some parents feel that the final exams are coming up soon, and they should let their children take the time to revise.
It can be said that every second counts, and I also read at night.
We can all understand this kind of thinking as parents, but doing so often makes children physically and mentally exhausted, confused thinking, causing a vicious circle, and learning efficiency is not high.
In fact, it is necessary to loosen the child appropriately.
For example, take your child out for a walk, let your child do sports, let your child listen....
As the saying goes: "The way of civil and martial arts, one piece and one relaxation." ”
Rest when you need to rest, play when you should play, and don't fight fatigue.
The purpose of one relaxation is to ensure a high learning efficiency and to achieve results from efficiency.
Parents should let their children "despise the enemy strategically and value the enemy tactically."