Parents carry their children's schoolbags all the way to the school gate, immediately enter the door, and hand them to the children to carry to school. When school is over, as soon as the child leaves the school, the parents immediately take the schoolbag and carry it on their backs. That's what most parents do. But is this really good?
On the first day of school, the child has to carry the school bag by himself. The first day of school is the first time a child steps into the school gate as a student, and it is a very big life node. From this day on, the child has a new identity, the student. The figurative symbol of this new identity is actually a school bag.
Letting children carry their own school bags is a very small thing, but it can be transformed into a very intuitive and perceptible means to strengthen the child's role identification with the new identity of the student. It will help children to accept various requirements that are different from their previous lives in the subsequent school and Xi life, and it will be easier for them to adapt psychologically. And when we let the children carry their own school bags, we are actually telling the children. Xi is your own business. You need to be responsible for yourself, you don't come to school for your parents, you need to take the initiative to arrange the Xi, then others are here to help you.
This boundary needs to be drawn on the first day of school and must be maintained. This change in mindset is not only to strengthen children, but also to strengthen us parents. Parents should also understand that you are the helper and guide of your child's learning Xi, but you must not substitute for your child's growth. Love can be expressed in many ways. It is not something that can only be expressed by carrying a schoolbag for a child. In fact, the process of education itself is the exploration and growth of parents and children together. So the school-going child has to carry his own schoolbag.
Finally, it should be noted that most children may still be carried by their parents. So at this time, you must explain to your child that you should carry your own schoolbag, not because your parents don't love you so much, or because you don't have the strength of other parents. It's because you have the ability to be as strong as your parents, and you can take on more responsibilities independently.