The creation of monetization is shallow in the world, and the dye is also shallow;The history is deep, and so is the machinery. Therefore, the gentleman and his practice are not as good as Pulu;Rather than being cautious, it is better to be mad. - Caigen Tan
Although a person who has just stepped into society has a short experience, he is less affected by the negative influence of society;Although a person who has experienced an accident has a lot of experience, his bad Xi such as intrigue and intrigue also increases. Therefore, a righteous gentleman, rather than being sleek and sophisticated, should be honest and simple;Instead of being cautious, it is better to be open-minded.
Life is a big stage, and everyone is the protagonist on this stage. On this stage, we are both students and teachers. Society, this invisible university, educates each and every one of us in its own unique way. In this big classroom, we learn Xi, grow, fail, succeed, and continue to accumulate valuable experience.
For people who have just stepped into society, it is like a blank sheet of paper, which has not yet been contaminated by all kinds of bad Xi. Their eyes still retain that simplicity and innocence, and their words and deeds are full of sincerity and enthusiasm. With the increase of social experience, some people began to be gradually dyed by this big dye vat. The more experience they accumulate, the deeper the city becomes.
However, having a city is not all negative;Sometimes it's also a sign of maturity. And people should be diligent in self-improvement and improve their character, it is to learn to summarize, absorb, refine, and extract from everything they have experienced - how to deal with complex interpersonal relationships;How to solve tricky problems;How to manage your emotions;How to plan our own life and so on, we need to think.
In this process, we should face up to all the turns and ups and downs, rise and fall, and then turn the negative impact into a stepping stone to growth. And, always thank those who have given us help and supportThanks to those who create difficulties and challenges for us, because they make us stronger and more mature, steady and calm. And this is the only way to go in life.
It is said that society is a big stage of life. On this stage, we should show ourselves to the fullest, continue to learn and Xi and grow. We should learn from each experience and continue to enrich our life experience. Only in this way can we better show ourselves on the stage of life and win wide praise from others.
People who have experienced all kinds of turbulent waves in the world and experienced all the hardships and dangers in the world will of course accumulate more experience, and correspondingly, the city government will be deeper. Therefore, no matter whether the social experience is shallow or the social experience is deep, people should learn positive lessons from successes and failures to achieve success in life and career, instead of learning negative lessons, pursuing sophistication, stealing tricks, and finally being smart and being mistaken by cleverness. From this point of view, it is commendable to be more upright, more sincere, more simple, and more free and easy.
Caigen Tan is a life philosophy book about self-cultivation and living in the world. The essence of his thoughts can be summed up by "indifferent and clear-minded, outstanding".