It is the child's nature to ask questions, and it is also his exploration of the world.
Many times, children will ask some fantastical questions, and as parents, sometimes they can't really answer them.
Some parents may even feel that the questions asked by their children are nonsensical and unrealistic, they will be impatient, and they will even suppress their children from asking such strange questions.
Have you ever thought that one of your casual actions could have blocked him from discovering new worlds, destroying his thinking power and curiosity?
If you don't know how to answer your child's questions, I think this Larousse Children's Psychology Encyclopedia can help you solve this problem.
It can be a good reference for parents, and it can also help children overcome themselves and improve their personality.
Each question in the book is equipped with corresponding color scene illustrations, which can be well substituted into the scene and improve children's interest in reading.
The 60 major life problems in this book that help children grow up are the real questions from children that French psychologist Karine Simone encounters in her work, which involves life, family, love, friendship, death, school, family, social interaction, fear, faith, and so on.
For example, many children will encounter:
1. Why does my mother prefer my little sister?
This problem is most common for families with two or more children, and if it is not properly dealt with in a timely manner, the weak mind of an older brother or sister is extremely vulnerable.
The author's approach is to encourage the child to talk about his feelings, explain to him that this is a normal emotion – jealousy, and affirm that the parents' love for him or her is the same as for his sister, but that the younger sister is still young and needs more time to be cared for.
2. Why do mom and dad separate?
In this day and age, parental divorce is a very common thing, how to minimize the harm to children?
The author's approach is to first tell the child that mom and dad have to be separated for various reasons. Then tell him that it is not TA's fault that his parents are separated, it is a story between **, and that his parents' love for him is unconditional, even if they are separated, they will still continue to love him.
Let the child understand that the fault is not with him, and that the love he has remains the same.
3. Why can't boys shed tears?
For boys, the most common sentence that parents say is: boys should look like boys, cry and cry like anything, don't be weak like girls, cry at every turn.
The author thinks that this statement is a kind of obsession with old ideas. Let children understand that shedding tears is part of human emotion, and that boys also have the right to cry, and there will be no lack of manliness.
If your child often asks why, you may wish to take him to read this book to help him grow up healthily.