The grandson follows the mother's surname, the 47-year-old mother-in-law fights for the second child, and the son and daughter-in-law prevent being scolded It has nothing to do with you!
Wu Li, as the mistress of an ordinary family, her only wish in life is to live for her son Xiao Ming. Born into an ordinary family in a small fishing village near the sea, she faced financial constraints since she was a child, but her parents gave her and her siblings endless love. Wu Li has learned from a young age that the most precious thing between families is mutual support and care. When she was 20 years old, Wu Li married Ma Dong, a young man from the same village, and started her own family. Soon after her marriage, she ushered in the beautiful moment of conceiving a little life. For Wu Li, the arrival of this child is her greatest wish come true after marriage. She is looking forward to a healthy and lovely son, because this will fulfill the noblest mission of a wife and mother.
When Wu Li finally ushered in the birth of Xiao Ming after a hard work, she was ecstatic and determined to give all the love and care to this little life.
At that moment, Wu Li seemed to see all the guidance and meaning of her future - she wanted to use her own hands to raise Xiao Ming into a good child who was filial and graceful, and a good man who stood up to the sky.
For this only wish, Wu Li is willing to endure all the hardships of life. She and Ma Dong lived in a simple fishing village hut and spent their days stretched.
Wu Li's tanned arms were covered with thick calluses from labor, but she never complained. She only hopes to be able to leave her limited resources to Xiao Ming so that he can thrive in his childhood.
The years flew by, and Xiao Ming finally became an adult and started his own love and career.
At the age of 25, Xiao Ming found a stable job in the city. He met a smart and beautiful girl, Li Si, and the two fell in love and decided to enter the palace of marriage.
In this regard, Wu Li was naturally ecstatic. She was relieved to see that her son had found something to rely on and that she had found such a wonderful other for him. On the day Xiao Ming got married, Wu Li was so excited that she burst into tears, she thanked God for her favor and Li Si for being willing to marry her baby son.
Wu Li gradually discovered that Li Si, a smart and outstanding girl, was a little too shrewd and strong in terms of personality. She often makes some harsh demands on Xiao Ming, demanding that the most exclusive property be purchased and that the wedding must be held in the most luxurious hotel.
Xiao Ming was obedient to his wife, but Wu Li had some doubts in her heart.
Despite this, Wu Li decided to try her best to meet Li Si's request. As a daughter-in-law, she felt that she should be obedient to her husband and in-laws, after all, she didn't want to affect Xiao Ming's marriage because of her personal mustard.
In addition, after years of hard work, Wu Li and Ma Dong have accumulated some savings, hoping to provide a good starting point for Xiao Ming after marriage.
In the end, Wu Li plucked up the courage to discuss with Ma Dong. Although he was reluctant, for the sake of Xiao Ming, Ma Dong still agreed to use his savings to meet Li Si's various requirements.
Expensive bride price, extravagant wedding, and even the purchase of the first house of the two, Wu Li did not skimp. She only hopes that Xiao Ming can settle down and live a happy life with Li Si.
After more than a year of marriage, Li Si gave birth to a chubby son. Wu Li was ecstatic, she finally had her own flesh and blood, a relative connected by blood.
Walking into Xiao Ming's house excitedly, Wu Li wanted to hug her grandson for the first time. However, when her eyes swept over the name tag on the crib, the expression on her face changed instantly - the words "Li Xiaobao" were clearly visible, it turned out that this was Li Si's maiden name, not the "Ma Xiaobao" that Wu Li expected.
Wu Li's heart was emptied for a while, and she couldn't believe that Xiao Ming and Li Si actually took their grandson's surname Li without her. Wu Li regarded Xiaobao as her own flesh and blood, and only now did she realize that this was just her wishful thinking, and she and Xiaobao were not related by blood.
Wu Li picked up Xiaobao with great difficulty, staring at his delicate little face, as if her heart had been cut by a knife. She suddenly realized that Xiao Ming's heart no longer contained her, the mother who gave birth to him, and he completely belonged to Li Si and her family.
Wu Li endured the sourness in her heart and stroked her grandson's soft little hands and feet. She understands that she will never be able to take care of this lovely child as a real grandmother in the future. Because Xiao Ming is already the bloodline of Li Sijia, not her Wu Li's biological flesh and blood.
At this time, Wu Li suddenly felt that her life's efforts had been in vain. I thought that Xiao Ming would always belong to her and to this family that paid for him. However, she only now realizes that the mother's love, whose blood is thicker than water, is no match for the new family members.
Her heart was like a knife, and Wu Li suddenly felt that all the hard work in her life had been in vain. She made up her mind to have another child, draw a line with Xiao Ming's family, and no longer care about their lives.
With pain and determination, Wu Li returned to her hometown and expressed her decision to Ma Dong. Ma Dong tried to persuade her to think twice, pointing out the wear and tear of old age and childbirth, but Wu Li insisted on fighting for a biological son of her own.
Wu Li began to actively prepare for pregnancy, consulted professional doctors, took high-quality nutritional products, and underwent regular physical examinations. She was eagerly awaiting another successful pregnancy, even at her advanced age. Wu Li longs for a flesh and blood that can ** inner trauma, a child that she can love wholeheartedly.
Finally, the results of the physical examination showed that Wu Li's physical condition could withstand a pregnancy. She gladly accepted and immediately started her pregnancy plan. In the face of opposition from friends and relatives, Wu Li firmly said that this is her last wish at this age, and she will raise this child responsibly.
After becoming pregnant, Wu Li's mood gradually calmed down, and she felt that God had finally favored her, giving her a chance to start over, and giving her a real flesh and blood that belonged to her. She decided not to give everything to Xiao Ming as she did in the past, but to live for herself.
With an iron heart, Wu Li decided to completely cut off contact with Xiao Ming. That mansion, that savings, will be left to the child who is about to be born. She is old, but she still aspires to be an autonomous mother.
After learning the news that Wu Li was about to usher in a new life, Xiao Ming and Li Si felt very anxious. They came together to ask Wu Li to take care of her health, and even expressed their willingness to let the newborn take Wu Li's surname. However, Wu Li has firmly decided to disown them, and she unswervingly expresses her cherishing of her new life, firmly believing that this child has nothing to do with them.
Mom, you are no longer young, and having another child is too hard and has a great risk to your body. We ask for your forgiveness, the newborn can be surnamed Wu, we can be reunited, you are still Xiaobao's grandmother ......Xiao Ming's eyes were full of pleading, he didn't want to be completely alienated from his biological mother.
Li Siye has repeatedly promised to give Wu Li the respect and status she deserves, trying to persuade her to abandon this seemingly absurd decision. However, Wu Li coldly rejected them, insisting on her choice, declaring that she was no longer the obedient mother of the past, but lived a more independent and strong life.
The relatives and friends around her persuaded Wu Li to calm down, but she firmly believed that Xiao Ming and Li Si owed her. Wu Li didn't want to suffer any more harm, she decided to live for herself, this is her right.
As time passed, Wu Li gradually let go. She understands that sooner or later her children will grow up and start a family, and as a mother, she cannot be dominant forever. Wu Li no longer complains, but accepts this reality tolerantly. She decided to live for her newborn flesh and blood, and wished Xiao Ming's family happiness.
Perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, she is a selfish and stubborn mother. But Wu Li knows that this is her choice, and she has lived in vain in this life. She found herself, no longer just someone else's mother or wife, but lived a more authentic life.
During pregnancy, Wu Li took good care of herself, insisted on moderate exercise, ensured adequate sleep, and had regular prenatal checkups. She longs for a new life to come safely, and it is her deepest hope for both men and women.
When Wu Li was 48 years old, she finally gave birth to a little daughter accompanied by doctors and her husband. Wu Li tiredly picked up this weak new life, and tears couldn't help but welling up in her heart.
The doctor praised Wu Li as a miracle that she was able to give birth safely at this age, proving that she was physically strong and determined. Wu Li communicates with her daughter with joy, completely immersed in the happiness of being a mother.
Back at home, Wu Li carefully cared for her daughter, for fear that the slightest negligence would touch her tenderness. Xiaoxue, whose name represents whiteness and innocence, has become a symbol of happiness, contentment and maternal love in Wu Li's heart. Wu Li hugged Xiaoxue in her arms, feeling the soft temperature, and her heart was full of indescribable happiness.
This is her true own bloodline, which makes Wu Li feel that all the ups and downs have become insignificant. She vowed to create the best and happiest life for Xiaoxue, even if she had to endure some grievances.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, Wu Li is a selfish person who gave birth to this junior regardless of family harmony. But she doesn't care about the criticism of others, she just wants to do everything she can to become a qualified mother and fulfill her ultimate dream in this life.
Looking at Wu Li's firm and persistent eyes, I understood that her choice actually stemmed from a mother's love and desire for life. In the last stage of her life, Heaven finally answered her long-standing expectations, so that she too could enjoy the taste of motherhood. I no longer blame Wu Li for her persistence, but sincerely admire her indomitable vitality.
As a housewife of an ordinary family, Wu Li does not have too many careers or pursuits of her own in this life, and her only wish is to fulfill her son and live a meaningful life. When she discovers that her son has established a family of his own, and her sense of mission is gradually disappearing, Wu Li's inner struggle and pain can be imagined.
Conclusion: Therefore, she cheered herself up and pursued a family affection of her own, even if it seemed selfish and crazy to others. But I know that deep down in her heart, there is still a mother's most sincere love and ardent desire for life.
One of the greatest things in the world is to live your true self and stay true to your heart, even if you are lonely. Wu Li did not blindly follow the expectations of others, but chose to do her best to chase the last dream in her heart, which is really admirable.
Maybe her decision will cause some people to be puzzled, but more often than not, she is saving herself. When a person loses hope in life, rekindling the light of hope is not a sign of lack of courage.
I no longer blame Wu Li, but sincerely bless her. May she and Xiaoxue enjoy a happy and peaceful life, even if they are no longer young.