This article is based on the original book of "Xiaomin's Family", and ** is taken from the TV series "Xiaomin's Family".
In Li Ping's own description, her "romance" is touching and moving.
Li Ping spent ten years with Hong Wei, and in Hong Wei's young days, he was personable, had a lot of success in his career, and became a man that Li Ping deeply admired.
Compared with her ex-husband Chen Zhuo, Hong Wei showed higher ability, greater ambition and broader vision, but at that time, Hong Wei was surrounded by many beauties, and Li Ping was not seen at all.
Hong Wei's family suffered misfortune, his wife chose to commit suicide, and his lover also left. This made Hong Wei feel physically and mentally exhausted, and he no longer remembered love, and finally spent the rest of his life with Li Ping.
After Li Ping married Hong Wei, she helped Hong Wei make greater progress in his career, and the couple became a so-called "wealthy family" with a prosperous family, but the biggest regret was that Hong Wei never had children of his own.
Although Li Ping is in her forties, she still works hard to have a child, and tries many methods but is unsuccessful. When she finally became pregnant, she had an argument with her daughter, Chen Jiajia, which led to a precursor of miscarriage.
Due to Li Ping's age, she forcibly tried to protect the fetus, but the results did not meet people's expectations.
After the miscarriage of the child, Li Ping secretly traveled abroad for a health check-up, only to be told that she had lost the opportunity to have children, much to her and her husband's great frustration.
Hong Wei expressed this opinion: "If not, then there will be no Dink." This means that there are no children in the life, and as long as you work hard, you will have a clear conscience. ”
Li Ping expressed her apologies to Hong Wei. Although Hong Wei's life seems to be both pathetic and sympathetic as she appears to have survived humbly in a wealthy family and is looking for children in her forties, she is not the extraordinary woman who wants to be a tool for male fertility.
It was only after reading the original work of "Xiaomin's Family" that I understood how Li Ping skillfully controlled Hong Wei.
A direct blow was delivered to Hong Wei's weakness to prevent the problem from gradually deteriorating.
Li Ping is facing the problem of childbirth due to her advanced age, and she is most concerned about whether Hong Wei will choose a young girl to have a child. Considering Hong Wei's actual situation, it is not uncommon for little girls to rush towards Hong Wei.
Li Ping casually mentioned: "Now the streets are full of little girls. ”
Although this sentence seems to be a temptation of the wife to her husband, it actually touches on Hong Wei's pain point, prompting Hong Wei to take the initiative to stay away from the young woman.
When Hong Wei was young, because of his entanglement with a little girl, his original partner chose to commit suicide. This incident brought deep psychological trauma to Hong Wei. When the little girl escaped, Hong Wei finally understood the true face of her lover. After experiencing mental torture, Hong Wei decided to turn back, determined to live a stable life.
Hong Wei and Li Ping's marriage is to spend their lives together until they grow old.
Li Ping attracted Hong Wei not because of her youth or appearance, but because she and Hong Wei have similar personalities and common pursuits of life, and both of them are partners who can support each other and move forward together.
Hong Wei has experienced ups and downs in the world of love for half of his life, but he is tired of it all and feels tired. The young woman no longer attracts Hong Wei's attention, but may remind him of painful experiences in the past, which Li Ping knows very well.
When Li Ping took the initiative to mention the "little girl", Hong Wei responded: "I hope to live for another two years." "Two more years?!Li Ping is convinced that what Hong Wei said is true.
Due to Hong Wei's "betrayal", Li Ping chose to divorce.
Hong Wei was born and raised in Shandong, and his family was heavily influenced by patriarchal attitudes. His mother cherished the opportunity to "hold her grandson", and Hong Wei himself firmly believed that his half-life efforts and accumulated wealth should have a suitable heir, so that he would not waste time and energy in vain.
He comforted Li Ping on the outside, believing that it was not important to have children or not, and even said that he regarded Chen Jiajia as his biological daughter. However, the relationship between Hong Wei and Chen Jiajia is not close, Chen Jiajia has a strong dislike for Hong Wei, and Hong Wei can't treat such a big child as his own.
After Chen Jiajia went abroad, Hong Wei flew abroad many times under the pretext of urging her to study Xi. Li Ping didn't know it, but Hong Wei secretly conducted test-tube experiments abroad without her knowledge and successfully gave birth to a son.
Hong Wei did not dare to bring his children back to China, so he had to hire a nanny to take care of the children. He occasionally went to visit his children, hoping to see Li Ping frankly when the children grew up.
Chen Jiajia knew this well, and she was very angry that Hong Wei didn't care about Li Ping's feelings, but she thought that Hong Wei was not looking for other women, and giving birth to a child was only through medical means, not a betrayal of Li Ping.
Chen Jiajia covered up the so-called "illegitimate child" for Hong Wei.
However, Li Ping is not a stupid woman who has been kept in the dark. Hong Wei's every action could not escape her observation. Hong Wei's frequent trips abroad made her vigilant, so she secretly hired a private investigator to investigate Hong Wei's situation.
The truth is difficult to hide, Li Ping angrily gave Chen Jiajia a slap in the face, reprimanded her for misconduct, and then ended her marriage with Hong Wei with a domineering attitude, refused to listen to Hong Wei's false explanation, and decided not to let the man who secretly gave birth to the child succeed.
From the two divorce incidents experienced by Li Ping, we can clearly feel that a "selfish" woman like her is more likely to live a happy life.
The reason for Chen Zhuo's divorce from Li Ping is that Chen Zhuo and Li Ping do not match in many aspects and cannot keep up with Li Ping's pace. As a result, Li Ping began to be dissatisfied with Chen Zhuo's unmotivated and "jumping around" attitude, believing that Chen Zhuo's frequent job changes and career changes were unruly.
Li Ping would rather have nothing than leave the man who dragged her down.
Li Ping married Hong Wei and got the social status and wealth she coveted. Under the leadership of Hong Wei, Li Ping not only obtained a nominal position, but also mastered financial power, which can be said to be fame and fortune.
Li Ping is most concerned about her inner feelings, Hong Wei's strategy of "cutting first and then playing" touched Li Ping's bottom line.
Despite the absence of an affair or the involvement of a third party, after giving birth to the child, Li Ping firmly believed in Hong Wei's fraud and betrayal of her, and made a sarcastic about her fertility.
It is described in the original work of "Xiaomin's Family":
Li Ping deeply felt her daughter's double betrayal of her. Under Hong Wei's rebellion, she fell into a material predicament. Hong Wei's betrayal of her was even deeper. In the past years, Li Ping did almost everything she could to have children, but when all hope was dashed, she and Hong Wei chose to become Dink and spend the rest of their lives together.
But now the situation is that Hong Wei actually gave birth to a child and became a soldier who escaped!Could this be the tragedy of her life?What is that?Or is it disappointment with her parents?!This is actually a mockery of her inability to have children?Is it because she is unhappy in her marriage and not interested in her career?He was still skeptical about spending the rest of his life with her?I don't think so. Maybe they really want to create a small life to carry on the family business. ”
Li Ping's determination to divorce is both resolute and powerful. A woman like Li Ping will never allow herself to be treated unfairly.
Although Hong Wei and Li Ping have divorced, Hong Wei is still reluctant to let Li Ping leave, and pretends to have a deep relationship with Li Ping in front of outsiders.
After the tragic death of Hong Wei's mother, Li Ping came to express her condolences out of nostalgia for her past feelings. However, other relatives in Hong Wei's family mistakenly believed that Hong Wei's child was born to Li Ping and sent blessings to her son.
Li Ping felt very embarrassed and fell into a dilemma, and finally had to complete the performance of the whole scene for Hong Wei. Out of consideration for her own face, she was reluctant to reveal that the child was born to Hong Wei in the outside world.
In the original work of "Xiaomin's Family", it is described that Hong Wei has business problems** and entrusts the child to Li Ping. Li Ping, as Hong Wei's ex-wife, is not qualified to help Hong Wei raise children. However, the kind-hearted Li Ping seems to be bitter and mean on the surface, but in fact she is not capable of adopting an indifferent attitude towards that child.
After Hong Wei suffered misfortune, the relatives at home avoided talking about it, and no one could help Hong Wei raise the child, only Li Ping, although she was hard-mouthed but kind-hearted, she was a loving and righteous person.
The nanny came to Li Ping's home with the child, and Li Ping didn't care much about the child at first, because her marriage to Hong Wei had broken down, and it was because of this little life.
However, she knew that the child was innocent. Hong Wei brought him into this world without her consent, but after bringing him there, he couldn't manage it, which is very irresponsible behavior, and the wrong person is Hong Wei, not the child.
After a long time together, Li Ping has developed a deep affection for her children, she has adapted to her role as a single mother, and after Hong Wei was released from prison, her first consideration was to reconcile with Li Ping.
Li Ping rectified Hong Wei.
Li Ping consistently rejected Hong Wei's application to remarry.
In the face of Hong Wei's betrayal and injury, Li Ping could not simply forgive him.
During the period after the divorce, Li Ping lived a wealthy and comfortable life, and she was able to bring her children to relax. For a strong and independent woman like her, marriage is like the icing on the cake, and if not, then nothing matters.
Li Ping had already achieved great success in her career as a young man, and she didn't have to rely on men or pursue true love. Li Ping's self-confidence is based on her firm belief in life.
After two failed marriages, Li Ping fell into depression and spiritual emptiness for a while, but she successfully overcame these obstacles and achieved independence both materially and spiritually.
If you can't change the past, you can only muster up the courage to move on, neither showing weakness nor regretting.
What's more, she has a large amount of money in her hands, so pension is not a problem at all. Li Ping was dissatisfied with Hong Wei and was unwilling to accept him again. Hong Wei backfired and began to compete with Li Ping for the child. Hong Wei naively believes that Li Ping should also remarry him in order to keep the child.
In the original work of "Xiaomin's Family", Hong Wei sensed Li Ping's deep maternal love for his child, so he used the child to force Li Ping to submit.
Fan Li Ping is not easy to be bullied, she is by no means an easy person to deal with. Li Ping has cooperated with Hong Wei for many years, and she knows Hong Wei's business activities well, and it is almost impossible to find Hong Wei's weaknesses.
Li Ping did not hesitate to report Hong Wei, which led to Hong Wei unfortunately being "second into the palace" and taken to undergo further investigation. How hard is Li Ping's wrist?What kind of woman is she?You only need to observe Hong Wei's fate to understand.
Li Ping has always reserved a way out for herself, and a woman like her is by no means a fertility weapon for a wealthy family. "I'm a capable man, and I can marry all the men into my family!”
In the original work of "Xiaomin's Family", Li Ping, who "helped her ex-husband give birth to an illegitimate child", is actually a very ruthless character.
Li Ping reported the matter to Hong Wei, but Hong Wei did not know about it. He went through the adoption procedures for the child and proposed to raise the child with Li Ping. This proposal deeply moved Li Ping, so that she decided to reconcile with Hong Wei.
Li Ping did not hesitate to confess her report, and in order to pursue Hong Wei's interests, she did not hesitate to ** her mansion and returned to the pre-liberation era overnight.
If you are treacherous to me and deceive me, I am strong enough to send you to hell;You hurt me and abandon me, and I lose the source of happiness. As long as you show me respect and understanding, I am willing to pay all my price for you.
Li Ping is such a straightforward and heroic woman, she dares to love, dare to hate, can not only afford the game, but also withstand defeat, and is more capable of winning the game.
Li Ping does not need to rely on men to live, and once she has financial power, she has decision-making power in marriage. Usually, Li Ping would give Hong Wei enough face, but when it really happened, she realized that in her eyes, anyone who violated her principles would be eliminated.
Hong Wei's betrayal is cruel and realistic, but Li Ping's counterattack is the moment to remind all women.