Probity. Culture
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Teach family style by word and deed
The ancients said: The family style is right, the social style is positive, and the family style is clear. ** When talking about family education and national unity, the general secretary once pointed out: "The family is the basic cell of society and the first school of life. No matter how much the times have changed and no matter how much the pattern of life has changed, we must attach importance to family building, to the family, to family education, and to family style, closely integrate the cultivation and promotion of the core socialist values, carry forward and carry forward the traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation, promote family harmony, promote the love of relatives, promote the healthy growth of the next generation, and promote the elderly to provide for their old age, so that tens of millions of families will become an important basis for national development, national progress, and social harmony. "As the general secretary said, the family is the smallest country, the country is tens of millions, and there are no rules.
Home, taught me to "work diligently".
I was born in a family of teachers, my father and mother are people's teachers, my parents have taught in Heshun No. 2 Middle School, they use "a piece of chalk, two sleeves of dust, a three-foot podium, four seasons of hard work", the achievement of countless people's growth and success.
They set the best example for their students and are a beacon of light in their life path. And now that they have stepped down from the podium, the virtues of erudition, dedication, and selfless dedication have always deeply influenced their families and infiltrated the hearts of their children. My father and mother worked hard and taught seriously, and after decades of teaching career, they have already "covered the world". My father's and mother's students are now cadres and teachers, and their students are present in all walks of life. My father's and mother's character can be said to be well-known, every Chinese New Year, there will be their students to come to the house as guests, they are also teachers and friends, often recall the anecdotes of the student days, evaluate my father as a "mentor and friend", evaluate my mother as "amiable", my father and mother's words and deeds during the teaching period have a profound impact on them, many touching moments are still vivid in my mind, and I feel in my heart.
Home, taught me to "do filial piety and do good".
Since I was a child, my parents have often taught me that "filial piety comes first". Dad always said filial piety, the first thing to be obedient to the elders, to make them agreeable, feel respected, as long as it is not a principle of the big problem can be by them, Dad also often said, filial piety has no bottom line, that is, there is no best filial piety to adults, only better, there is no end only the starting point, these words are firmly imprinted in the bottom of the heart to be a person who respects his parents and knows how to be grateful.
Fathers and mothers often discuss some ethical principles when they have time. For example, when ** how to deal with people, they often quote Fan Zhongyan's famous sentence "If you live in a temple, you will worry about its people, and if you are far away from the rivers and lakes, you will worry about its king", and teach me to learn to "empathize and compare my heart with my heart". Whether it is at work or in life, we must always empathize and treat people sincerely, so that the relationship between superiors and subordinates, colleagues, families, neighbors, relatives and friends can get along harmoniously, and if we get along well, life can be comfortable and happy, work can be smooth, and the society will be harmonious and stable.
In 2009, I responded to the call of the country, graduated from college and enlisted in the army, and took the train all the way north. In the second year of enlistment, I heard that the father of a comrade-in-arms from Shanxi was seriously ill and admitted to the hospital in the same year, and his mood was very unstable.
Home, taught me to "stand up for virtue".
Optimistic, simple, and virtuous, they are the heirlooms of our fathers and mothers, who pass on the code of happiness to us with their words and deeds. Now, I have been working in the post for more than ten years, and under the influence of my parents, I will integrate words and deeds into my work and life, do virtuous things, be virtuous people, and merge every bit into a river. I have always believed that whether it is work or life, if everyone only wants to sing themselves, it is difficult to sing harmony;If everyone can be like a symphony, even if each instrument has its own timbre, but can learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses and harmonize, it will be able to play a gorgeous movement of "home and everything"!
A good family style is a family heirloom, sensible, knowledgeable, and disciplined. If the enterprise does not stand, the cross person will not work, such as the composure of the father, the teaching plan of the mother's education, and the kindness of the son's growth are all a kind of inheritance, and it is also the "witness" of my family style, "ten years of trees, a hundred years of people", and I hope that this wind will be watered out in the "moisturizing things silently".
*: Jinzhong Women's Federation.