Many girls have their own close friends of the opposite sex, which we often call male girlfriends, or women's friends.
These people often have a common trait, that is, they are very good at observing women's micro-expressions;Compared with ordinary straight men, male girlfriends can gain insight into the strange emotions of female friends at the first time, so as to give them the most appropriate and timely emotional care.
Fang Xiang has a male girlfriend who has played together since childhood, named Zhang Wei.
Zhang Wei has been Fang Xiang's little follower since he was a child, from kindergarten to university, Fang Xiang went out with him, never had to worry about what to eat, what to play, everything would be arranged properly by Zhang Wei.
After a long time, Fang Xiang developed a dependence on Zhang Wei that all other members of the opposite sex did not have, and felt that his life would be incomplete without his existence.
But Fang Xiang knew very well in his heart that between her and Zhang Wei, the relationship between men and women had already transcended, and he just treated him as a family member.
Soon after, Fang Xiang got married to the blind date introduced by his family. Although he has established his own small family, Fang Xiang is still habitually in contact with Zhang Wei often.
Wang Jun, the husband before marriage, knew that his wife had a good friend, but he didn't know whether it was a man or a woman. It wasn't until the wedding day that he knew that Fang Xiang had a male girlfriend who was like a brother.
It's false to say that you don't mind, as long as it's a man, who wants his wife to be intimate with other men every day, even if it's a friend who is open to the family, it's more or less resigned.
So Wang Jun found an opportunity to talk to Fang Xiang about this topic after marriage: "When is that Zhang Wei looking for a girlfriend, he is with you all day long, how can he get married and have children in the future?"”
He's that kind of character, he doesn't like to deal with ordinary people, only I am the most compatible with him. ”
Hearing his wife's words, Wang Jun's heart became even more sour. What is Zhang Wei and her most compatible, so what is herself?
There shouldn't be any man in the world who can accept that his wife is so compatible with another man, right?
This time the communication was over, Wang Jun and Fang Xiang did not continue to dig deeper, because Wang Jun was afraid that if they talked further, this marriage would not be saved, and he also wanted to give himself and Fang Xiang more opportunities to understand each other, tolerate and communicate. But what happened later completely made Wang Jun collapse.
That night, Fang Xiang was brewing cold spirit for her sick husband Wang Jun in the kitchen, and originally planned to go to the bedroom with the medicine to give Wang Jun a drink, but he received a call from Zhang Wei on the way.
* There was an anxious call from the other end, something Zhang Wei had never seen before.
Fang Xiang panicked suddenly, for fear that something would happen to Zhang Wei, and he didn't even have time to send the fever medicine that had been soaked to the bedroom, so he put on his shoes and walked out.
That night, Fang Xiang did not come back all night, leaving Wang Jun, who had a fever, alone in his room with a high fever to the point of coma.
The next afternoon, Fang Xiang dragged his tired body back home, and just entered the door to see that his things were packed and placed at the door, which was clearly a posture of being swept away!
Wang Jun, what do you mean?”
Are you embarrassed to ask me what do you mean?You went out without saying hello to me yesterday, did you care about my life or death?”
I... I'm not in a hurry!Besides, aren't you sitting here now, and nothing big happens?It's necessary to get rid of all my things, is it possible that this is to drive me away?”
In a hurry?Zhang Wei and I, you will always choose him, who is your husband in the end?!”
Don't spew blood, Zhang Wei is my friend, and you don't know what crazy you are doing now, like a resentful woman. ”
Wang Jun looked at Fang Xiang incredulously and said such hurtful words, and his heart was like ashes.
Don't say anything, let's get a divorce. In your heart, I will always be behind Zhang Wei, and I can't accept this kind of treatment. ”
Fang Xiang realized at this moment that her attitude towards Zhang Wei had gone beyond the intimacy between ordinary friends, and she never expected that her best friend would become the fuse for the breakdown of her marriage.
Not daring to continue to be stubborn, Fang Xiang immediately knelt down in front of Wang Jun, hoping to give her another chance, and in the future, he would keep his distance from Zhang Wei, focusing on family and Wang Jun.
Seeing Fang Xiang's tearful face, Wang Jun was unmoved, through such a long time of observation and tolerance again and again, he had already figured out the entanglement between Fang Xiang and Zhang Wei, it was by no means that she said it was so light, and it could be broken once or twice.
I want a measured wife, not a woman who is unclear with her male girlfriends.
Throwing off the hand that held the corner of the square box, Wang Jun took the luggage of the square box and threw it out of the door. Wang Jun's pre-arranged moving company waited downstairs early, and it took less than 10 minutes for the porter to pack all the things in the square compartment into the car, and then drove to the mother's house in the square compartment.
Fang Xiang watched as he was arranged by Wang Jun to move out of the home that originally belonged to him, but he couldn't resist at all, and his heart was mixed.
Did you really do it wrong?Fang Xiang stood in the corridor and asked herself countless times, she didn't understand what she had done wrong, in her opinion, she was just going to do a friend a favor, but when she got home, she was swept out of the house by her husband.
It is said that the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. The sense of boundary between Fang Xiang and Zhang Wei is too blurred, so that Wang Jun, as a husband, cannot feel a sense of belonging and security in the process of getting along with each other in daily life, which is a fatal blow to the marriage.
Wang Jun's repeated forbearance did not bring Fang Xiang's reflection, and also invisibly accelerated the contradiction between the two people, allowing Wang Jun to see the crux of the relationship between him and Fang Xiang as soon as possible, that is, Zhang Wei.
Husband and wife need to be clear about each other's bottom line at the beginning, so that they will not hurt each other again and again without knowing it in the future.