[a].
When he had a heart attack and was taken to the hospital, I was trying on a brocade cheongsam with my boyfriend at the dress shop. After receiving my mother's **, my mind was blank, and I pushed open the door of the fitting room and rushed out, and then rushed out of the store like lightning and rushed to the street.
After running wildly for a few minutes, I remembered to stop the car. Later, my boyfriend said that I was like crazy, rushing to the busy road**, regardless of what kind of car was coming, holding my whole body to block ......My boyfriend reacted quickly and dragged me to the side of the road in time, which caused a lot of chaos.
When he arrived at the hospital, he was being resuscitated. I tugged at my mom's arm, completely unaware that I was shaking. I don't know how long it took, but the doctor came out and said, "Fortunately, it was sent to the hospital in time, otherwise it would have ......."I let go of my hand, and the whole person collapsed. Add in the tears and dust, and the messy hair, and the gorgeous dress that I have ravaged so badly, and the whole person is messy. Then I started crying loudly – I hadn't been home for three months because he didn't agree with my marriage. For three months, I haven't seen him, I haven't called him, I haven't sent him WeChat, and I have met my mother outside. For the first time in 26 years, I got into a fight with him, but I almost lost him!
At the moment of tears, I even wanted to lean down and thank God for not taking him away, otherwise I would have lived in pain and regret for the rest of my life, and I couldn't forgive myself.
Or, it was he who couldn't bear my pain, so he woke up strongly.
2] What do you say about my relationship with him?Father and daughter are just fixed words, he is actually more like my best friend. I remember last year's college reunion, when my former roommate asked me if I had a male girlfriend, frankly, I thought of him first. I only thought of him.
When I was a child, he was the kind of typical parent who "grabbed toys and snacks with his children", and he didn't have any parental majesty at all, and he could watch "Cat and Mouse" with me until midnight, and he was happier than me. We can always go hand in hand with all kinds of preferences. And, unlike other parents, when it comes to becoming a talent, his attitude has always been to fully understand, not to urge, and not to stop. For example, when I was in elementary school, my mother insisted that I learn the Olympiad, and I paid all the tuition fees. I didn't want to learn because I didn't have the slightest interest in math at the time. In the end, he made the final decision: don't learn. And set an iron law for this: if a girl doesn't want to learn, she can't force it. My mom was so angry that she ...... with him for many days
I never thought he was in his fifties, never thought he would be old, and never thought that his health would be in trouble - I regarded him too much as a peer, and even ignored the more than twenty years between me and him, and once I only thought that I was lucky that he was my earliest confidant, and we knew each other, and he could even ......ignore my early love
At that time, I had just entered my third year of high school and fell in love with a boy who had transferred from the second class. The boy was both a scholar and handsome, and he quickly showed a clear affection for me. Although the sea of questions in the third year of high school can overwhelm people, there will always be a moment when I will raise my head in the sea of questions and look at him gently across a group of young people in their prime. I was in early love, and he was there.
Almost a little over a month later, on Sunday, just in time for his birthday, we decided to run out on our own to celebrate.
For the sake of safety, I took the subway and bus with Xueba, tossed for more than an hour, and went to a western restaurant in the north of the city. But unexpectedly, when the flame steak I ordered was just served, and the blue flame above it and the candle on the birthday cake began to burn together, I unintentionally looked up and saw my father and several men in suits and leather shoes walking in through the revolving door at the angle opposite me.
The brain was first a wood, and then, immediately remembered four words: meet on a narrow road.
But I wasn't afraid, I wasn't scared of him since I was a child, I just didn't know what to do and stared at him blankly.
Dad was wearing the smoky gray suit I usually liked, walking among four or five elite men, and he was still the most eye-catching of them. But for now, ......I didn't have the heart to appreciate his jade tree in the wind at all, only a kind of "narrow road and nowhere to hide" at a loss. Early love, and at this critical moment in the third year of high school, which parent will not be thunderous?!
There was no chance of a fluke, and he had seen me. The only difference was that after he was stunned for a moment, his expression immediately returned to ease, and even a gentle and good-looking smile appeared on his face.
No, he didn't walk towards me or greet me, but naturally turned around and walked towards the private room inside with a few of his colleagues.
I breathed a sigh of relief, and even thought, maybe he didn't see me, right?
But I was wrong, and when I tried to pretend that nothing had happened and blew out the birthday candles with Xueba, and ate steak until the end of this well-planned birthday party, Xueba called the waiter to pay, and the handsome girl smiled and said, "A gentleman has already settled your accounts, and he said I wish you a good meal." ”
Xueba didn't know why, so he pulled the waiter to get to the bottom of it, and in the end I could only tell him the truth. As a result, Xueba's face turned white all of a sudden, "I'm .......""I didn't say anything for a long time.
It was at that moment that I suddenly lost interest in Xueba. Once the good-looking boy is timid, the picture begins to reverse. When I left, I didn't let Xueba send it, and chose the route to go home directly - even I didn't expect that the first vigorous sprout of love would be extinguished by my dad in four or two, and there was no gray star left. Until the end of my junior year of high school, I lost interest in the opposite sex and only tried my best to do my homework.
During the college entrance examination, I was successfully admitted to the city's key universities. In a flash, ten years.
4] I remember that in my sophomore year, I fell in love once, and I talked about it again in my junior year, and they all ended up in nothing. Later, I worked and talked about it twice. My dad knows all this, and whenever I have a boyfriend, the first one I will bring to know him. He has always interpreted the meaning of "male girlfriends" well, and he has had a hot fight with each of my boyfriends, drinking and chatting together, and being more buddies than buddies - and later they became my ex-boyfriends, and thus his "ex-buddies".
It is no exaggeration to say that my father has always agreed with the person I have dated, so I can't imagine that this time I really decided to marry the man, but he suddenly voted against it, for extremely "vulgar" reasons: my boyfriend is good, but his family background is too poor, if I marry him, the burden of life in the future will be very heavy......In this way, he changed from an elegant man to a snobbish father, imperious and unreasonable, bound to beat mandarin ducks, and also vibrated words, love is love, marriage is marriage, two different things!
In the end, I also got angry and simply ran away from home and moved to the company apartment. It was only three months later that he had an accident ......
Just after I ran away from home, my dad knew that he couldn't help me this time, so he decided to do one thing: buy me a shop along the street so that I can collect rent to subsidize the family in the future!He told my mother, "I can't stop her, I can only fill in the loopholes that may lead to unhappiness in the future." ”
In this way, he lost 30,000 yuan for the car that had just been changed for a few days and sold it, took out half of his life savings, borrowed some more, and began to look around the city to see the shops along the street. My mother said: "* is about to become a sales **, dozens of a day." These days, he's probably tired. ”
I can't say a word, but I know it's not like that. He is still so young and strong, he will not be easily tired, he is distressed. I broke his heart, and he didn't want to care, but it hurt him. That's why he suddenly had a problem with his heart.
But I couldn't say it, I could only stay by his side when he woke up, holding his hand all the time, listening to him, "I'm fine, I'm really fine." Then he replied with a smile while shedding tears: "Of course you are fine, hurry up and get well and buy me a building along the street!."Then, I remembered a sentence I saw in the circle of friends: My father, my husband and my son are all my customized male girlfriends, and it is worth all my might.
And I firmly believe that even if I get married and have children in the future, he will still be the only one and nothing for me.
2. The irreplaceable "male girlfriend" - he is the lifelong chief of my customized version of "male girlfriend".