In ancient times, there were many classic cultures that have been guiding our production and practice, and after thousands of years of wind and frost, they still have not faded and still shine on our lives. We are inexhaustible in our learning Xi, and one of the books full of wisdom that can guide our lives best in ancient times is Guiguzi's treatise. Guiguzi's treatises are inexhaustible in the combination of theory and practice, and the guidance is perfect, Guiguzi has a lot of insights into life, especially for how a person can grow more perfectly.
1. Know its heart, measure its feelings, and observe its subtleties, and see its potential.
Understand the psychology of the other party, figure out the emotions of the other party, and review the details that the other party does not know, so that you can carry out the development of the situation.
Know yourself and know your opponent, and you will not be defeated in a hundred battles. If you want to know what the future situation of the other party is, you must start from the subtleties, and know how to dig out the thoughts and actions of the opponent hidden in the shadows.
2. At the beginning of people: the color of people, the spirit of people, the words of winning people, can not be deeply acquainted.
This may be a bit extreme, but there are indeed such people around us, seeing that others are not as good as themselves, they will arrogantly count others, and when they see that others are better than themselves, they will suffocate and want to pull others into the water. Therefore, if you meet such a person in the future, you must not have deep friendships.
3. The inside is inconsistent, and the heart is insidious.
In daily life, there are inevitably such people around them, they seem to be harmless to humans and animals, and their words are reasonable, but in fact they are keen to play with right and wrong, and such people may be just a handful of black sheep around them, but the harm should not be underestimated.
4. "Where the power is measured, so the expedition is far and near, it is hidden, it can be earned, it can be sought, and it can be used." ”
Therefore, Guiguzi's sentence actually tells us not to be biased against academics, each school has its own knowledge and characteristics, and if a person wants to make a great difference, he must know how to accept every kind of thought and every kind of person. Make full use of the characteristics of each person's ability to make the deployment, so that they can give full play to their talents and give full play to the maximum effect.
5. Rumors are unscrupulous, selfish and disregardive, and those who are forced cannot have deep friendships.
This kind of person doesn't care about what others say about him, he is selfish, even if he thinks it's wrong, he still has to force it to do it, go his own way, and eventually lead himself to the fire pit. People are self-aware, if you don't even want face, what else can't you do?To be a man must have his own principles and bottom line, without measure, if he does not grasp the scale, he will only go to the wrong path step by step.
There is still a lot of wisdom in Guiguzi, and in the book "Guiguzi", there is a detailed explanation of how the columnists use strategy and eloquence to constantly maneuver in front of various powerful forces to achieve their goals.
When we encounter thorny problems at work, or encounter some villains, we might as well use the wisdom of our ancestors, use the art of vertical and horizontal, first figure out whether the other party is friend or foe, and then we also need to think about what friends are around us, and who can be used by me. These methods and strategies are described in detail in the book "Guiguzi".
has the wisdom of "Guiguzi", which tells you how to fight back when you encounter problems in life, and helps you turn defeat into victory.
There is "The Weakness of Human Nature" that allows you to see through the essence of human nature, so as to prescribe the right medicine, let yourself have good interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and improve your emotional intelligence.
There's Murphy's Law that will show you how to push the boundaries of your mind and know your true self to the next level.
There is also "Parchment Roll" will let you know how to package yourself, sell yourself, improve your work skills, and win the respect and love of your colleagues and leaders.
At the same time, Wolf Road will teach you how to absorb the wisdom of wolves and arm yourself so that you can learn the necessary skills to be a strong man.
It integrates observation of words and feelings, psychological speculation, speech and behavior, and complements each other with examples. You can't have the heart of harm, you can't have the heart of guarding against others, and after reading these five books, you will have to take a lot less detours in your life.
In addition to "Guiguzi", this set of books also has "The Weakness of Human Nature", "Murphy's Law", "Sheepskin Scroll", and "Wolf Road", which are five sets of books that collect the essence of oratorical skills, human weaknesses, and psychology, which are must-read for bosses, businessmen, and workplace people. The book covers many classic cases, each with analysis and introduction, to teach everyone the rules of survival and wisdom strategies for dealing with the world, and to learn from the experience of the ancients to avoid many detours.
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