Hurry up and wake up, brush your teeth and wash your face, hurry up for breakfast, hurry up for homework, hurry up and go to bed!
Hurry up and do it!It has almost become a verbal word for parents.
After urging many times, the child either swallowed slowly, grinding, like an abacus bead, and moved it.
Parents are frustrated, helpless, and troubled......
In fact, in daily life, there are many manifestations of procrastination in children, and even some of the main manifestations do not look like procrastination, so parents must pay attention to it.
1. The child's dependence is relatively strong
Education expert Lu Qin once said: "If you want your children to be hardworking, then parents need to learn to be lazy." ”
Therefore, parents can observe whether their family members are very diligent if their children have been delaying or slowing down their work
Mainly because many children with procrastination have parents who are more hardworking or tough, so they will feel that many things are not necessarily done by themselves, and after all, parents will help them wipe their buttocks.
Therefore, in such a situation, many children with the main performance of postponement will have a strong dependence on their parents, because they have long been Xi to relying on their parents.
2. Stubbornness
It's useless for you to rush me, I'll naturally start doing it when I'm ready.
3. Keep looking for various reasons to drag it back
There is also a kind of child who lives in the present moment in his head, and the objective implementer will rarely occupy the dominant position. It's always easy for them to be distracted by simple and happy things, which can take a lot of time. When the family is urging, they will start to find various reasons to drag it back. For example: as soon as I opened the notebook, I began to say that I was hungry and wanted to go to the bathroom, and my stomach hurt ......There are countless reasons in his mind to convince him to do what he is doing now, Xi training or working for a while. Naturally, the most depressing thing is that they are often still a hind face, even if you are grinding and playing tricks, they are still full of tenacity and no wonder.
1. Prevent the influence of electronic products such as mobile phones and tablets
Do not let the child indulge in TV and online games, only let the child realize that doing things quickly can bring benefits to him, he can be really fast, such as quickly finishing homework and being encouraged by teachers or parents.
2. Parents learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing and pay due attention to their children's opinions
Parents are not the on-site supervisors of their children, and they should not always raise their children in the form of "power and blessing". Otherwise, it is not easy for children to want to be like marionettes, and let their parents guide them. If parents want to pay attention to their children, let their children understand that all their suggestions can be respected by their parents, and children will have the courage to express their opinions when dealing with the tasks assigned by them in the future, and it is not easy to have passive resistance, grinding and postponing behavior.
The sooner parents correctly guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi, the stronger the child's advantage in learning Xi.
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Who stole my time" correctly guides children to make reasonable arrangements and not do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily figure out what the reason for going to school is.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that doing homework is actually not very difficult.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
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