Wufeng's marital status is hidden in a basin of water used to wash her feet.
When her husband is in trouble, Wufeng has absolute decision-making power in the family. Every night, her husband would enthusiastically pour hot foot-washing water for Wufeng.
After the husband was in the limelight, the social status of the husband and wife was reversed, and Wufeng became the one who took the initiative to boil the footwater, but what the husband pursued was far beyond the simple care and care in marriage.
He began to "take revenge" on Wufeng without any scruples, from verbal humiliation to looking for a lover in the outside world, and finally he held his head high and pressed Wufeng firmly under his feet.
Wu Feng recalled the past time of the two and described it as a time full of sweetness;Said that it was an unforgettable love. However, it was simply hellish life for the husband. As a man, he loses his dignity in marriage, always subservient to others, endures humiliation, and is reluctant to remember.
In the original book**, Ye Zhiqiu is called Ye Zhiqiu, and in the TV series, she is called Xiaofu. In marriage, her patience is so strong, but once betrayed, she becomes ruthless. When she regained her reputation and status, she did not hesitate to put the divorce agreement in front of Wufeng.
Wufeng expressed his opinion to Ye Zhiqiu:
What was our marriage like?It is the bond between the farmer and the snake. You were demoted to the boiler room to burn the boiler, every day like a sunspot polluted by coal, who hasn't left you?It was I, the kind-hearted peasant, who held you, a frozen snake, tightly in my warm arms. Have you regained consciousness?As soon as I recovered, he bit me into the chest”
Ye Zhiqiu "turned over and sang", and his marital relationship with Wufeng was once tense to the point of needing to sign a divorce agreement;Dafeng once said that Wufeng's family is full of risks, but at the end of the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", Wufeng and Ye Zhiqiu rekindled their deep relationship, and Wufeng once again controlled the fate of the small family.
The method adopted by Wufeng is by no means easy.
In the original work "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", the marriage relationship between the "farmer and the snake" is described, and the five phoenixes finally awaken after suffering a heavy blow.
Ye Zhiqiu chose to be "low-key" in her married life
Ye Zhiqiu was born in Shanghai as a university student, but in a specific historical context, for some reason, he was demoted from the position of engineer to boilermaker;Wufeng is currently in the limelight, working in the position of the person in charge of the street, he seems to be very energetic and energetic.
The status of the couple in society unconsciously shapes their place in married life.
Goho is a frank and kind-hearted person, she always does things in a hurry, often makes mistakes even with good intentions, and the way she speaks is not influenced by others. Therefore, in her maiden family, Wufeng gave the most, but she was also the least popular.
Ye Zhiqiu stood next to Wufeng, trying to implicitly remind her to pay attention to proportionality when speaking, but Wufeng still insisted on her own way and was not too interested in Ye Zhiqiu's advice.
Ye Zhiqiu was very passive in the marriage relationship, and Wufeng's strong attitude made him both angry and afraid to speak out. Ye Zhiqiu's humility and Wufeng's contempt have become a daily routine between them.
In the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", it is described that Wufeng is reading Mao Xuan while gnawing melon seeds. Ye Zhiqiu softly brought a basin of foot-washing water, put it at Wufeng's feet, and suggested that she take a good rest after washing her feet.
Ye Zhiqiu tried to curry favor with Wufeng, but what he got was an insult from Wufeng, and Wufeng said so
Later, I'll write a note to show you if there's a high standard. Even though you are a college graduate, you are more focused on business than Xi, and if you don't have an engineer, how can you burn a boiler?”
Although Wufeng only has a secondary school education, she is not optimistic about college students like Ye Zhiqiu. Ye Zhiqiu, who is at the bottom of society Xi is used to doing all kinds of housework for Wufeng, and Ye Zhiqiu's "concealment" in marriage is actually the biggest strategy for Wufeng.
Wufeng belittled and suppressed Ye Zhiqiu, she treated Ye Zhiqiu as if she was ordering a servant, while Ye Zhiqiu was deliberately flattering, with murderous intent hidden behind her.
Wufeng's so-called "bad" is only a superficial phenomenon, she has no scheming and knows little about human nature;Her "beauty" is all in her appearance, she is a beautiful and kind woman. Ye Zhiqiu's inner "** is deeply hidden, and his deep hatred for Wufeng finally became an excuse for him to hurt Wufeng.
The frank Wufeng did not know that those men who could tolerate it the most in marriage, once their power rose, would first take revenge on those who violated his dignity.
Ye Zhiqiu angrily proposed a divorce.
Ye Zhiqiu experienced a career change from boiler worker to engineer, and was eventually promoted to the station manager of the seed station. However, he waited too long for this important position, and in the end his sudden "awakening" gave Wufeng an unexpected "slap in the face".
In the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", it is described that Ye Zhiqiu returned from Beijing to a meeting in a car, but did not enter when she passed by the door:
The current Xiao Ye is no longer the Xiao Ye before, not only does she no longer have the posture of being punished by the urine, but she is wearing a suit and leather shoes, looking very confident, and her face is full of red light. ”
Wufeng enthusiastically suggested that Ye Zhiqiu return home, but Ye Zhiqiu coldly rejected her, which led to a complete change in the relationship between their husband and wife.
Although Wufeng tried to curry favor with Ye Zhiqiu, Ye Zhiqiu was not interested in it.
Wu Feng washes his feet, saying that Wu Feng's behavior is unpleasant and hinders his thinking about important matters;Wu Feng did makeup and dressed up, and he commented that she was dressing up;Wufeng prepared a box lunch of braised pork for him, but he said he was tired of it.
The footwashing water in Wufeng and Ye Zhiqiu's home once again became a witness to their married life. Although Wufeng took the initiative to take off his socks and wash his feet for Ye Zhiqiu, the hot foot-washing water failed to warm Ye Zhiqiu's heart.
Ye Zhiqiu expressed this opinion: "You have always held a contemptuous and resentful attitude towards us intellectuals. Over the years, I have suffered countless insults and sins under your guidance. I'm Xi'er, and you're Huang Shiren. Our marriage is a relationship of oppression and oppression, and there is no word of love at all. I want you to think carefully about whether what we call marriage is in name only, is it a bit far-fetched, or is it time for it to end?”
Ye Zhiqiu's disgust with Wufeng reached the extreme, he did not hide his selfish desires, openly holding a young woman on the street to show off, his insult to Wufeng was not only hurtful but also heart-wrenching.
In the two divorce agreements signed by Ye Zhiqiu, his ruthlessness towards Wufeng was hidden. His understanding of Wufeng and the mutual understanding between husband and wife can not only promote the harmony of both parties, but also may touch the pain points of both parties.
Ye Zhiqiu handed Wufeng a watch and asked her to sign it, but Wufeng deliberately delayed the time, causing the ink to stain the paper. Ye Zhiqiu turned around, took out a new watch, and smiled coldly
Put down that set, you are the Monkey King, I am the Erlang God, whenever your tail is cocked, I can have a premonition that you are going to become a mountain temple. That one is the first draft, and this one is the real one, please sign it. ”
Ye Zhiqiu, a person who is determined to divorce Wufeng, is actually the snake in the farmer's arms. When he was resurrected, he forgot the kindness that Wufeng had once given him. So, he packed his luggage and decided to officially live separately from Wufeng. After experiencing the harm of the snake, Wufeng finally understands the cruel truth behind the marriage.
Wu Feng is doing everything he can to repair the broken marriage.
In the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", there is this description: "When a business goes bankrupt due to the changes of the times, and when a person loses his life due to the changes of the times, he will also be eliminated in his marriage." ”
Wufeng was resolutely reluctant to sign the divorce agreement, she reflected deeply on her mistakes and expressed her feelings to Ye Zhiqiu:
Because of the historical background of the past, you have been oppressed, and I am also a master in the family, and I have brought you a little dissatisfaction to some extent. As long as there is oppression, resistance will follow, but at that time it was the rule of **, and you couldn't resist. Now, as the situation has turned, so has our position. If you want to concentrate and lose your temper, I can understand your thoughts. In the future, you can do whatever you want, and I promise that I will absorb all the pressure, turn it into motivation, grow quickly, and become the person you want. ”
Wufeng, she has indeed succeeded in identifying her problems and is actively working to repair the marital relationship between the two.
Wufeng gave up her strong attitude and took the initiative to prepare footwashing water for Ye Zhiqiu;In front of her friends, she spoke as softly as a child. Groom yourself well, dress up for your own pleasure;Rejected his ** and kept his love by his side. He didn't care about Ye Zhiqiu's disloyalty, but accepted Ye Zhiqiu's infidelity tolerantly.
Although Wufeng's behavior seems clumsy and pretentious, everything fully demonstrates her sincere emotions. She is a woman with a conscience and a sense of responsibility. Wufeng gradually realized the harm and blow she had inflicted on Ye Zhiqiu before, and her every thought was filled with deep love for Ye Zhiqiu.
The dissatisfaction in Ye Zhiqiu's heart had been backlogged for a long time, and when he saw Wufeng specially dressed up for him, Ye Zhiqiu walked into the kitchen with the ingredients, and said coldly: "I just don't want to see you", and then slammed the kitchen door shut.
In the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", it is described: "Wufeng stood there quietly, like a wounded wooden chicken, his eyes full of tears of grievance. She felt unfair in her heart, could it be that Xiao Ye had treated her servants like this before?As the saying goes, once a person becomes lenient, his face changes!”
Ye Zhiqiu's sudden "change of face" deeply hit Wufeng's heart, but the compensation made by Wufeng was actually to make up for Ye Zhiqiu's inner regrets.
Ye Zhiqiu pursued equality and mutual respect in marriage, and Wufeng lowered his posture and sincerely apologized, providing Ye Zhiqiu with a better opportunity.
Ye Zhiqiu was inseparable from the young woman, but no matter how beautiful she was, it was difficult to resist the couple who had spent time with her.
After releasing all the grievances, Ye Zhiqiu's heart reached peace, and the trauma he suffered in his marriage was finally healed through all kinds of difficulties for Wufeng.
Ye Zhiqiu returned home, not only to correct his behavior, but also to pursue a better future, Wufeng's in-depth reflection also touched Ye Zhiqiu's moral conscience.
Ye Zhiqiu returned to his home with his luggage, and Wufeng's enlightenment had far-reaching significance for the marriage relationship between them.
Wufeng's final realization.
On the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, Wufeng returned home alone, the home was brightly lit, Ye Zhiqiu was busy cooking in an apron, and his luggage roll was placed on the kang.
Ye Zhiqiu suddenly changed her mind, just like a person who had just gone out and returned home, Wufeng looked at Ye Zhiqiu's busy figure, tears slipped from her eyes, Ye Zhiqiu kept wiping away her tears while cooking.
Wufeng poured a basin of foot-washing water according to Xi, and then pulled Ye Zhiqiu to sit on a chair and help him take off his socks and wash his feet, Ye Zhiqiu covered his face and cried.
Wu Feng wiped away the tears in her eyes, and as if she suddenly had some kind of thought, she took Ye Zhiqiu to the side, then sat comfortably on the chair and began to soak her feet.
In the original work "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", it is too realistic to describe how a basin of footwash water profoundly reveals the marital relationship between the five phoenixes.
Wufeng said: "I almost got it wrong, it was you who should wash my feet and add some hot water!”
Ye Zhiqiu enthusiastically provided her with hot water and massaged her feet, and the relationship between the two seemed to have returned to the marital state of "women are strong and men are weak". Ye Zhiqiu knelt down to apologize and apologize to Wufeng, and his infidelity eventually became a thorn in Wufeng's heart.
Ye Zhiqiu said to Wufeng: "Wufeng, can you tell me that from now on, I will fall under your control again!."”
Wufeng's reply was undoubtedly a deep insight into the real world, and she waved her hand and said:
It's really boring. As a cadre, I can't have much insight with you. I've decided that I'm going to live a rich life, and I'm talking nonsense about everything else. People who do not have an economic foundation will suffer from poverty and grievances, and their bodies will not be able to straighten their backs. Please add me some hot water and I'll boil a kettle of hot water for them!”
Instead of groveling in marriage to pour out the footwashing water for a person who is about to leave, it is better to live a rich life. Love and marriage are not necessarily eternal, and the only one who is truly worthy of relying on and relying on is yourself.
Wufeng began to operate in the mall, first opening a foot massage shop, and later transforming into a beauty salon. Driven by this new era, Wufeng's business is booming, and Ye Zhiqiu, as the stationmaster of the seed station, has also extended a helping hand to Wufeng in terms of economy.
Ye Zhiqiu lost money while playing cards, this is Wufeng's words:
Don't use that expression to describe me anymore, as a real man, you need to be patient enough to fight for the win and not become impatient and intolerant just because you lose the cards. Even if you lose, you should show a manly demeanor. Money should be kept in the cupboard and more should be withdrawn. You can play as long as you want, and if you don't have money, remember to give your home a **.
Wufeng's freedom in married life is not because of love, but because she has enough confidence to fight alone. Only when she was no longer afraid of Ye Zhiqiu's departure did she truly achieve victory.
In the original work of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", a basin of footwash reveals the three key stages that Wufeng and Ye Zhiqiu went through in their marriage. Wufeng still played a leading role in the marriage in the end, because she deeply understood Ye Zhiqiu and the ruthlessness of marriage.
Wufeng once clung to Ye Zhiqiu, but she did not let herself sink into the dust, she believed that the right to soak her feet was her ultimate bottom line.
Wufeng's reflection reflected her correct understanding of her mistakes, and it did not mean that she could tolerate Ye Zhiqiu's bullying. Wufeng's behavior not only provided Ye Zhiqiu with dignity, but also provided her with an opportunity to have no regrets.
When Wufeng determined the direction of her life, Ye Zhiqiu became a supporting role in her life. In his eyes, men are tools that can make women men, but this does not mean that women can be completely abandoned. A woman who is both independent and strong and has never relied on male sympathy for her life.
Goho opened a shop called "Kinzu Gowashisha" and warmly received customers, even washing their feet with his own hands. Although the couple expressed dissatisfaction with Wufeng's "flattery", Wufeng did rise to prominence as a result of this, becoming a prominent businessman.
Wufeng expressed his confusion: "In those years, how did I become so confused?Can you tell me what I've done?I only have two taels of silver in my pocket, and the money I earn is always full of spittle. Now I understand that development is the most important thing, and making money is the most glorious thing!”
Ye Zhiqiu is no longer the Wufeng who endures "financial freedom" silently, nor is he the Wufeng who relies on "beauty" to keep her husband.
At the beginning of "There Are Nine Phoenixes in the Family", Ye Zhiqiu took a ** shot for Wu Feng Niang's family, but last year's film was forgotten in the camera, which shows his indifferent attitude towards Wu Feng;Last year's old **, in his lens, only left a door number of the old house. At the end of the story, Ye Zhiqiu held a camera and meticulously captured the various features of the old mansion, from which it can be seen that he has deep feelings for Wufeng.
Ye Zhiqiu's love for Wufeng was shown through disguise in the past, but in the end, he sincerely accepted Wufeng's qualities.
When women are in charge of the economy, they also have decision-making power in marriage. Jiufeng praised Wufeng's lifestyle as very free-spirited, but Wufeng retorted: "Honey, you didn't notice me when I cried. ”
It is precisely because of the affectionate crying and deep pain that Wufeng finally gained the true insight that women, no matter how old or young, should first live themselves well.
Wufeng's views on marriage are indeed worth learning and Xi us as a reference.