The love affair between Li Yapeng and Liu Yan is the most youthful and moving experience in his life. Li Yapeng in high school not only had excellent grades and was loved by teachers, but also served as the class president, which can be said to be a veritable "good student". However, deep in his heart, there is also a different kind of rebellion and publicity. 
On one occasion, he was placed on probation by the school because of an argument with a "person outside the school". This undoubtedly drew a stain on his growth experience in quality education. When he was 17 years old, Li Yapeng, who was still in his third year of high school, fell in love with Liu Yan, the school girl at that time. As a young man, he mustered up the courage to confess his acquaintance with the girl he liked. The young and shy two people gradually entered a sweet relationship. At that time, Li Yapeng was not interested in acting, his ideal was to have a bumper harvest in his studies and career. However, when the admissions teacher at the ** Drama Academy appreciated his appearance and talent and invited him to participate in an interview, he gladly went because it was a good opportunity to be inseparable from the girl he liked. 
Li Yapeng and Liu Yan finally got their wish and entered the Chinese opera and started the next chapter of their campus romance. However, the good times did not last long, and Li Yapeng was inadvertently estranged from Liu Yan's care and companionship because he wanted to concentrate on learning Xi acting skills. Liu Yan is a perfectionist who longs to live with her ideal Prince Charming. Li Yapeng's changes made her very distressed, and the girl's sensitivity and suspicion also made him unbearable. In the end, the two chose to break up at the wrong time, and their youth love was fleeting. Many years later, when Li Yapeng recalled the bits and pieces of getting along with Liu Yan at that time, he still sighed. It was truly the happiest and most painful experience of his life. 
After graduating from college, Li Yapeng can be said to be the epitome of a history of emotional failure. First of all, he fell in love with Qu Ying, a classmate of Chinese opera, Qu Ying was successful with her acting career, and the two were also regarded as golden boys and girls. However, the good times did not last long, and Li Yapeng wanted to prove that he made frequent business investments. He first invested in a magazine called "Wedding", but suffered a large loss due to a misjudgment of the market. Later, he devoted himself to Internet entrepreneurship and obtained considerable venture capital funds, but failed in less than half a year. The setbacks in his career directly led to the breakdown of his relationship with Qu Ying. 
Immediately afterwards, Li Yapeng fell in love with the well-known host Ke Lan again. Ke Lan is smart and capable, has a successful career, and the two were once regarded as golden boys and girls by the public. However, Li Yapeng still couldn't change his impulse to invest in business, and failed again and again, which made Ke Lan lose confidence and interest in him. This relationship also came to an end. After Li Yapeng met and fell in love with the popular film and television actress Zhou Xun, Zhou Xun even generously declared in public that Li Yapeng satisfied all her imagination of men. The relationship between the two once caused a sensation in the city. But this relationship has not maintained its popularity for a year, and it also ended in the disappointment of the film and television company invested and established by Li Yapeng in the successive failed investments. Once again, he lost love in order to prove his investment acumen. 
All kinds of facts prove that Li Yapeng's passion for investment and entrepreneurship may be an advantage for him, but frequent failures undoubtedly make his emotional road bumpy. When the ambition to pursue a career outweighs the cherishing of feelings, failure is the only end. In 2005, Li Yapeng finally conquered the popular diva Faye Wong with a year of sincerity and dedication, and made her promise to become her other half. The process of pursuing Faye Wong was not easy, and Li Yapeng tried his best to impress her heart. For example, editing hundreds of joke text messages every day to make Faye Wong happy, which was a task that "cost the people and money" in the era when smartphones were not popular. 
In addition, every time Faye Wong holds a concert, Li Yapeng will buy a full ticket for the whole show and give it to his friends to cheer, and this alone has spent nearly one million yuan. What's more, he also did his best to serve Faye Wong's daily life, once when Faye Wong went to the mall and set his eyes on his favorite items, he immediately paid without hesitation. It can be said that Li Yapeng completely proved his sincerity to Faye Wong with his actions, and finally made her agree to get married. However, the story of married life is different from the happy fairy tale we think. Li Yapeng still couldn't get rid of his Xi of investing in entrepreneurship, and Faye Wong invested a lot of money to create a project, but it still ended in failure. In the end, he was saddled with a huge debt of tens of millions. This undoubtedly cast a shadow on the married life of the two, Faye Wong couldn't bear it anymore, and decisively chose divorce to get out of the predicament. 
Analyzing this marriage, we can come to a brutal truth. That is, Li Yapeng's failure and pain will always exceed the happiness and benefits he gives to his lover. No matter how much sacrifice and dedication he made for Faye Wong, he couldn't change the essential attributes of his failure. Faye Wong's timely stop-loss departure is not only the protection of herself, but also the only salvation for Li Yapeng's way. In life, in addition to love, we need wisdom. Faye Wong's choice of Li Yapeng may have been impulsive, but she stopped losses in time to protect herself, which is the smartest and most correct way of life. If Li Yapeng is described in one sentence, then "repeated defeats, repeated defeats" could not be more suitable. 
Since high school, he has had his first failed romance. After that, he fell in love with Ke Lan, Qu Ying, Zhou Xun and other actresses, but they all failed. At the same time, he also invested in many companies such as wedding magazines, Internet start-ups, and film and television production companies, all of which were loss-making and collapsed without exception. In the end, his marriage to Faye Wong was also terminated because of the inertia of his failed investment. Throughout Li Yapeng's life, both his relationship and career have been accompanied by too many failures. And his reaction after each failure is surprisingly similar. He would be briefly depressed for a while, and then he would quickly regroup himself and devote himself to the next project he thought was promising. Such repeated horizontal jumps are Li Yapeng's core spiritual core. He trusts his own judgment and his mind, even if he has repeatedly fallen into trouble. He always believed that there would always be success, and his cynical attitude was vividly reflected in him. 
And his actions also show that he is optimistic and persistent by nature. Life never stops, failure does not stop, and he will never lack the courage and determination to fight again. Many people criticized Li Yapeng for being immature, unlearned, opportunistic, and not doing his job. In their eyes, Li Yapeng is just a *** who eats with his face. However, the cruel reality and career path will always test human nature. Li Yapeng's heart is actually much firmer and more persistent than others guess. Countless falls and rises sharpened his will. Maybe it's because of his personality, he just has to follow his heart even if he pays a heavy price. This independent and free spirit also deserves our admiration and blessing. 
Li Yapeng's life can be said to be a double blow of emotional failure and career frustration. He has fallen in love with many well-known actresses, but he has never been able to get true love, because he can't really give, just unilaterally asking. In the end, Faye Wong chose to stop the loss and leave him in time, and she may be the smartest person in this story. Li Yapeng's emotional failure and career failure actually have an important internal relationship. That is the blindness and recklessness in which he makes decisions and judgments. He always relies on impulse to invest in his feelings or career, but lacks the ability to rationally analyze reality. His enthusiasm and efforts are based on his own subjective assumptions, rather than on a careful assessment of the objective situation.
So he couldn't fulfill his promise in love, and he couldn't escape the fate of failure in the mall. True maturity and wisdom** lies in the understanding of reality. Li Yapeng's continuous failures just prove his lack here. We also need to reflect on ourselves and reflect from time to time in the journey of life, and cultivate the ability of rational thinking, so that we can continue to make progress and be happy on the road of relationship and career.