According to Jimu News, in Malaysia, a lawyer Fahmi shared the sad experience of a woman.
After dating her boyfriend for three years, the woman decided to get married after completing her studies. However, she never met her boyfriend's father. Two years after the marriage, when the woman was chatting with her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law inadvertently revealed that when she was young, she had secretly married her father-in-law at the Thai border without informing anyone, and soon after giving birth to a son, her father-in-law abandoned them. At that time, they did not go through the formalities of marriage, so the marriage relationship was not protected by law.
The mother-in-law also showed her her father-in-law's ID card, name, passport and **, and described his appearance. Only then did the woman realize that her father-in-law and father were the same person. She realizes that she is married to her half-brother and runs back to her parents' house in pain. After hearing the truth, her husband's face also changed greatly.
They begin to re-examine their past and recall the bits and pieces of their relationship. They realize that in the process of falling in love, they used to have a lot of doubts and uneasiness, but they were all overshadowed by each other's passion. They had also suspected each other's identities, but neither of them took it to heart. In retrospect, those doubts and uneasiness were actually subconscious sensitivity and vigilance towards family affection.
After realizing this fact, they began to reconsider their relationship and future. They realize that if they are brother and sister, then their love is against ethics and morality, which is not accepted by society. They have to face reality and make the right decisions.
The lawyer pointed out that the couple had to go to court to file for divorce and their children were not legally recognized. Eventually, they decided to file for divorce. Although it will cause them a lot of pain and regret, it is the decision they think is the right one. They realize that if they continue to be together, they will not only harm themselves and their families, but also innocent children. They must be brave enough to face reality for the sake of the well-being of their children and their families.
This story teaches us that love is beautiful, but we must remain sober and sane. In the process of dating, we need to pay attention to each other's identities and backgrounds to avoid making wrong decisions because of the blindness of love. At the same time, we also need to respect ethics and morality, and not violate social morality and conscience.