Parents often complain that it is difficult to communicate with their children, and no matter what they say, their children do not listen.
A large part of the reason is that because our irritable attitude has been dampening our children's confidence, they are constantly being judged by us, and they have already built high walls in their hearts, and they have become insensitive to our education.
If parents know how to control their tone of voice and use kind and firm words, their children are more willing to make changes.
If you are worried, say it gently, don't scare-
If you are worried about your child's myopia due to incorrect sitting posture, you can say, "Mom and Dad are worried about you, you see that you are really handsome when you sit upright!".Instead of scareping: "You're going to be nearsighted, like a blind man!."”
Answer the question head-on, don't ask rhetorically
When a child is looking for a textbook, he can say, "On the table in the living room" instead of: "You won't find it yourself?".”
Educate your children to be more respectful and complain less
The child does not do housework, and can say, "How happy I would be if my son could help me!"Instead of: "Look at you too lazy to be like a pig, you know that you eat and sleep!."”
Educate your children to be more respectful and complain less
The child does not do housework, and can say, "How happy I would be if my son could help me!"Instead of: "Look at you too lazy to be like a pig, you know that you eat and sleep!."”
If the parents express themselves in the right way, they can not only enhance the parent-child relationship, but also make the children more accepting and cooperating with the parents.