Whether a child has excellent concentration is related to the development of the child's future studies and career, and is also related to the cultivation of the child's comprehensive quality
One parent sighed: "My child is so able to rub it off, I follow him all day long and keep urging and reminding him, but I still can't let my child speed up." Let's take homework as an example, I can do it in half an hour, but he can't finish it in two hours, and sometimes I can't help but do it when I am so angry, but what's the use?Alas!”
Speaking of laziness, this is a common problem of most children, and it is also the main reason for children's poor academic Xi. Children learn to be lazy Xi, parents must conduct research on laziness to find the cause of the child's laziness and correct it.
1. Poor self-control and restraint ability
The child's task is to learn Xi, the child is lazy and does not want to learn Xi just want to play, the child is young and will not restrain himself, so there is a parental education supervision, so that the child is on the right road of education, many children's parents dote on, the elders of the next generation are even more doting, the child is self-free, the parents lack constraints, the child will not restrain themselves, the child's self-control ability will get worse and worse, the parent's restraint has no effect, the child will become more and more lazy, the more he does not want to learn Xi.
2. The baby's concept of time is not clear
Children do not know the cognition of time, and when faced with something they don't want to do, they will always choose to avoid or procrastinate, and wait until there is really no way to do it, and this Xi habit is caused by the blurring of the concept of time.
3. Lazy behavior of parents
Parents are the first teachers of children, parents are subtly influencing children all the time, and the lazy behavior of parents or other family members is another reason for the formation of children's lazy Xi. Some ** often ask others to do what they can do for him at home, and some ** when they are engaged in physical or mental work, they complain about hardship or give up halfway, etc. Every word and deed of parents is something that children imitate, and when children see what parents do, they will imitate it, which also breeds children's lazy psychology and Xi.
Overcoming laziness starts with me, and here are two tips to help you get rid of laziness.
Develop good Xi habits
It is necessary to help children develop a good Xi habit of going to bed early and waking up early, which not only makes children's lives more regular, but also has great benefits for children's health and good XiXi academic habits.
Especially after school, it is necessary to set aside appropriate exercise and breakfast time for children, only good work and rest Xi, so that children can stay energetic, and will not become more and more lazy because of "tired".
Set a goal for your child that is easy to achieve in the short term
Sometimes, children will stagnate or even regress in their studies because of laziness. When parents are faced with this problem, they can put forward some requirements that are easy to achieve in a short time and less difficult for their children, so that children can get a certain sense of achievement, and this sense of achievement will motivate children to continue to work hard. With such uninterrupted learning, Xi children will gradually be able to overcome their lazy Xi habits when they can gradually achieve their goals one by one.
People's psychological inertia tends to increase day by day unconsciously, and a tendency to seek stability and fear change gradually arises in the psychological situation. The harm of this kind of psychological laziness has a huge impact on people, and often leads to a lack of progress and inaction.
Therefore, parents should guide and correct their children's problems in time, and here are a few books that help children's character development and emotional control, hoping to help everyone.
Editor's Choice: This is a set of bilingual picture books in Chinese and English to help children overcome emotional disorders and accompany their healthy and happy growth.
There are ten themes in the series, each telling a different story from a different perspective:
Self-protection, bravery, self-confidence, honesty and trustworthiness, emotional management, politeness, friendship, sharing, self-improvement, self-discipline.
Each topic is followed by a "word to parents" to supplement parents with corresponding knowledge of child psychology, help them get along with their children better, solve the confusion in the process of parenting, and are also suitable for kindergartens or early childhood education institutions.
Content introduction: This set of picture books is based on the age characteristics and psychological characteristics of children aged 3-6, combined with the daily life of children of this age, starting from personality, behavior, Xi and other aspects, through vivid and interesting stories, using concise words to integrate the truth into it, to help children develop good Xi habits and form a good character. The whole set of picture books is accompanied by exquisite and lovely pictures, which is full of fun and can stimulate children's interest in reading, and is an indispensable parent-child reading material for children and parents.
About author: Hu Yuanyuan (editor-in-chief), a senior expert in child education and early childhood psychology research, graduated from Central China Normal University with a major in preschool education, published more than 20 early childhood newsletters and articles during his work, and has written many books with unique views on preschool education and early childhood psychology.