In relationships, we often meet some elusive people. Sometimes passionate, sometimes indifferent, it's hard to understand what they really think and feel. For women, how to deal with men who are prone to hot and cold is an important question.
People who are sensitive to heat or cold actually lack the ability to control their attention.
There are three phenomena that can cause attention problems. One is that the energy cannot be lifted, and the other is that it is too excited and inattentive. The third is difficulty concentrating, which may have difficulty maintaining energy or may be overexcited.
The first group of people feels cold, the second group feels too enthusiastic, and the third group feels hot and cold. And unstable.
The solution is actually quite simple. Find the right amount of stimulation when you're low on energy;When you're overly excited, find ways to calm yourself down.
The difficulty is that he needs to recognize the problem himself.
When a man is hot and cold, the best way for a woman to cope is to remind him of her situation in a gentle tone.
Especially, if a man is low on energy and doesn't seem interested in you, ask him if he's feeling stressed at the moment and ask him to rate his stress level on a scale of 0 to 10. You can also ask him if it's because he's tired or if he's not interested in things. These methods will help him recognize his exact condition and control his emotions.
If the other person can't control their emotions well, you can also provide appropriate stimuli, such as talking about interesting topics or organizing interesting activities to stimulate the other person's interest and enthusiasm.
If a person is feeling overly excited and enthusiastic, you can ask him if he is really excited right now and rate his level of excitement on a scale of 0 to 10. You can also ask him what exactly is it that excites him so much. By doing so, you will be able to view your current situation from a rational point of view, and your emotions will naturally calm down.
If a man truly loves you, he will be happy to help you in these matters and will also appreciate your thoughtfulness and concern.
However, if the other person is not willing to adjust her position, the woman should seriously consider whether she should continue the relationship with you. A healthy relationship should be one in which both parties support and understand each other, rather than one party being passive and confused all the time. If the partner is unable to change her behavior, the woman has the right to choose to break up and find a stable and secure relationship.
In conclusion, in the face of a hot and cold man, a woman can cope by reminding him of his problems and making him aware of them. However, if the partner does not change, the woman should seriously consider whether to continue the relationship. Regardless of the final choice, a woman must stay true to her values and pursuit of happiness and avoid being hurt or distressed.