Love is like a delicate flower, everyone wants to taste the sweetness of the heart of the flower, but on the way to picking flowers, it will not be smooth sailing, maybe muddy, maybe it will encounter thorns.
Therefore, people usually cherish the love that they have pursued after a lot of hardships, taste the hardships of the pursuit, and pay the sunk cost, which will become the motivation to cherish the happiness in hand.
Painfully, not all efforts pay off, and sometimes they come to nothing. In the face of unbelievable love and unbearable grief, before opening the door of love, he has taken the lead in walking out of the atmosphere of broken love.
In fact, love always exists, when you can't have it, it's just that the person you love is wrong, and you also need to understand that things like feelings don't necessarily have to be rewarded even if you work hard, because we can always surround our hearts, but we can't do anything about other people's choices.
Knowing that a relationship does not belong to him, but he has to stick to it, destroying the happiness of two people, strong love is not real love, seeing that the person he loves can be happy, is the highest state of loving someone.
It's heartbreaking to ask, but there's a love that isn't meant to be had.
All the grief and grief in a relationship is mostly due to not being available. It's not that a person is not good enough to have, it's just that you didn't meet the right person at the right time, and the person you like has a heart.
It's like love in the rain.
Ruping fell in love with Shuhuan at first sight, the relationship between the two seemed to heat up, Yiping's appearance broke the balance, and her stubbornness and willfulness made Shuhuan even more obsessed and unable to extricate herself.
No matter how hard Ruping tried, Shuhuan couldn't take his attention off Yiping. Even if there was a big misunderstanding between Yiping and Shuhuan later, the two had to separate, although Ruping once touched Shuhuan's heart, but when Yiping reappeared, Shuhuan ignored Ruping and returned to Yiping.
On the other hand, Du Fei likes Ru Ping very much, but Ru Ping only has Shuhuan in her heart, and there is no way to accept Du Fei, no matter how much Du Fei pays, all she gets is a thank you from Ru Ping and the kindness of being friends forever.
In the world of feelings, I love you, but you love him as a result, which makes people sad, this is destined to love a person with a heart, no matter how hard you try, you can't get it.
If a person is always thinking about chasing what he can't get, he will often ignore the people around him. Sometimes, happiness is right in front of you, it's just that you don't know how to grasp it.
Compassion for the current people is a truth that many people do not realize, and only after truly understanding can we see what we already have and reap happiness.
is like Qi Xiaohong in "Do You Know", she fell in love with Minglan , but because of her family's obstruction, she had to let go of her love with Minglan and marry someone else.
It wasn't until I went through a lot of things that I finally got the support of my family that I could marry Minglan , but I didn't expect that the other party didn't stand still and wait, and married someone else.
For this reason, after getting married, he chose someone he didn't like again, he was always unhappy, and he even made up his mind to do a lot of things to hurt Minglan and his wife.
Until I saw my wife's goodness, let go of the obsession in my heart, saw the person who accepted me, and lived a happy life.
Always thinking about hard work and not knowing how to cherish, resulting in many people and the happiness that has been reached, since some people are already destined not to get, don't force it, learn to let go of yourself, so that you can see the happiness in front of you.
The Courage to Be Hated says: Everyone has their own life topics, what we have to do is to do our own life topics well, and not interfere in other people's life topics, so as not to cause trouble to the greatest extent.
The trouble that exists in love is that when you like someone, you can't get the same love from another person. So if you don't get it, many people will go crazy and do things that harm others and themselves.
The best way to reduce love troubles is to hold the attitude that I love you and have nothing to do with you. You can expect a response from the other person, but don't expect a response from the other person.
Getting a response, getting love is a surprise;But if not, it is also a good choice to generously wish the happiness of your loved ones and change roles to be by each other's side.
Just like Jin Yuelin likes Lin Huiyin, Lin Huiyin finally chose Liang Sicheng, and Jin Yuelin no longer insisted, generously wishing the two to be happy, and to be their friends, and live next door to each other forever.
Lin Hui had a conflict with Liang Sicheng, so he asked Jin Yuelin to judge right and wrong;Lin Hui took time to take care of his family because he had something to do, so Jin Yuelin helped take care of the children.
The most touching thing is that one day after Lin Huiyin's death, Jin Yuelin invited a friend to commemorate and put a pair of chopsticks for Lin Huiyin.
Love doesn't go away. It's always there. Loving someone has nothing to do with the other person, if you can't get it, you can change a role to silently guard in life, which is also another kind of happiness.
Love can't be smooth sailing, there are no regrets, when the loved one likes someone else, they are destined to lose the opportunity to be with each other.