After Zhou's father and Zhou's mother both passed away, Zhou Rong told Cai Xiaoguang in tears: "I lost my home and became an orphan. "Do you have a home?Who are you?Cai Xiaoguang hugged Zhou Rong tightly and affectionately proposed: "Let's get married, Zhou Rong, my love for you has lasted from high school to the present." ”
Zhou Rong looked at Cai Xiaoguang with a shocked look on her face.
Cai Xiaoguang has deep affection for Zhou Rong, and he told Feng Yue: "In this world, there must be such a person, a love that cannot be replaced." Zhou Rong is such a person. ”
Many people think that Cai Xiaoguang is not worth it, and think that Zhou Rong is too selfish and does not consider Cai Xiaoguang's feelings at all. In fact, he loves her very much, but he is not doing it alone. Despite this, when Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng entered the palace of marriage, if there were any problems, she would look for Cai Xiaoguang. In Zhou Rong's view, whenever Cai Xiaoguang looks for you or snubs you, it is just a kind of existence that "eats tastelessly, and feels a pity when you throw it away".
However, Cai Xiaoguang disagrees. It wasn't until after his death that he learned that he was in love with her and loved her for the rest of his life. In the original work, Cai Xiaoguang chose a lifestyle of love rather than marriage for Zhou Rong, and waited for Zhou Rong silently for 12 years. Even Zhou Rong herself found this unbelievable, and she decided to spend the rest of her life to repay Cai Xiaoguang's kindness.
It is widely believed that Zhou Rong is a "nuanced egoist" who always cares only about her own interests and ignores the feelings of others. But there is such a person, but there is so much beauty and warmth in his world. However, why can such a person receive the comprehensive care of Zhou's father, Zhou's mother, and his brother and younger brother at the same time?It has also been loved and supported by many friendsShe also won Cai Xiaoguang's innocent and beautiful love
Perhaps, Zhou Rong's advantages are just that we haven't seen it with our own eyes. She simply lived in a "self" way and did not keep a clear head. In many cases, when I hear Zhou Rong's words, I feel the urge to "hit" her, but as I get to know her better, I find that Zhou Rong is more beautiful than those who pretend in real life.
The beauty of the south is as gorgeous as a hibiscus. "Now my daughter is a twenty-eight-year-old girl. Zhou Zhigang originally named his daughter "Rong" in the hope that she could show a beautiful, pure, noble, elegant, auspicious and lucky side like a hibiscus flower. Zhou Rong fulfilled her parents' expectations, and her appearance was both dignified and intelligent.
Although Zhou Rong was highly recognized by Zhou's father and Zhou's mother, they were not satisfied with everything about her. Zhou Zhigang had decided to sever the father-daughter bond between them and Zhou Rong. After "The World", many viewers had a strong antipathy for Zhou Rong, and they all wanted to see her die of unhappiness in her marriage, her daughter's unfilial piety and loneliness.
However, in my opinion, compared to people in real life, Zhou Rong appears to be more beautiful. She is a very assertive, independent and individual person, and her thoughts and actions show us that she is who she really is. Although she has not reached the realm of "human sobriety", she has become a representative of "human ideals".
1, Zhou Rong chose to leave her hometown for love, and she has never been bound by any constraints in the world.
Zhou Rong's return to Beijing from Guizhou did not meet Feng Huacheng, but instead she was blushed by a pile of rickety empty wine bottles. She dressed herself up beautifully, and she still had a rustic look, and she had to find someone to help deal with it. Feng Huacheng held a warm pot in his hand, pushed open the door and walked in, seeing Zhou Rong tidying up the room with an expressionless face, he sat aside depressed in his heart, waiting for Zhou Rong's action.
Did you ever confiscate and pick up that room after I left?Zhou Rong asked a question.
Indeed it is!"What do you say about me?Feng Huacheng behaved very confidently and confidently, as if he was preparing for a war of words. He looked directly into Zhou Rong's eyes and said to her affectionately: "Zhou Rong, you are excellent in everything, but the most important thing about you is self-centered, you have to be careful. ”
This is not the first time Feng Huacheng has mentioned Zhou Rong's "self-centeredness", he feels very wronged and doesn't understand why his wife doesn't trust himWhy is it that my wife, who used to trust me, no longer trusts me?Zhou Rong used to have deep reverence for him, but now she has a contemptuous attitude towards him in all aspects
On Chinese New Year's Eve that year, Zhou Zhigang moved from Sichuan to Jinba Village in Guizhou Province with supplies he had accumulated for three years. Here he met her, a girl who had grown up in the mountains. Zhou Zhigang hiked for a long time at the foot of a small basin in Guizhou, and finally reached the place where Zhou Rong lived. It was the last time he saw her, he thought. Four years ago, Zhou Rong went to Guizhou alone without her family's knowledge, just to find her true love.
Feng Huacheng represents Zhou Rong's true love, he is not only a poet, but also talented. He has written poems, written **, and also written movie scripts. However, he has nothing but his talent. His poetry is full of despair and pain, which he does not want to see. In those days, since Feng Huacheng was seen as a "counter-revolutionary", almost no one wanted to get close to him;Due to the background of the orphan, no woman was willing to rely on him wholeheartedly.
However, Zhou Rong didn't take these things to heart. Although she did not come from a family of civil servants, she was also an innocent "descendant of workers";Although she can't be called the national color Tianxiang, in the photon film, she is indeed a "goddess-level" character;Although he did not have an in-depth knowledge of the past and the present, he was indeed talented.
Zhou Rong left her hometown for Feng Huacheng, she just did it out of pure love, and she didn't have other complicated plans. Her heart is kind and gentle. After four years, Zhou Zhigang finally found Zhou Rong in Guizhou. Zhou Rong was very worried that her parents would be disgusted with her because of Feng Huacheng's background, and firmly stated:
I will never break off the marriage contract with Feng Huacheng, and if he causes any trouble to our family, I am willing to sever the father-daughter relationship with you. You think I've jumped out of a crack in a rock, without parents or brothers. ”
For parents, these words are really chilling. However, from the perspective of Zhou Rong protecting her loved ones, this is also reasonable. As the saying goes, choosing to get married is the second decision in life. Therefore, Wu Qian married Xiao Guoqing of the working class, while Dong Weihong married Yao Lisong, a leading cadre.
However, Zhou Rong never felt worried about these things. This is her strongest insistence and commitment to her love. Although she knew that Cai Xiaoguang was superior to Feng Huacheng in all aspects, she still chose Feng Huacheng. It's a pity that the affection she gave was not treated with kindness by Feng Huacheng.
Because he had forgotten her, everything about her had become a thing of the past, and he could no longer touch it. for he forgot to bear him a child in the midst of his troubles;His whole life was devoted to her, but he was also abandoned by her. In the days of poverty, Zhou Rong accompanied him to eat bran pickles. All Feng Huacheng pursues is a young woman who loves deeply and listens to his opinions.
Compared with those women who carefully plan for marriage, Zhou Rong's fearlessness towards the world and her unhesitating attitude for love are really amazing. Her love is her persistence and persistence in love. She just didn't realize that what Feng Huacheng was pursuing was just a kind of "reverence". "I love him, I love everything about him. Feng Hua became the person he loved the most, always himself. He doesn't actually have deep affection for Zhou Rong.
To put it simply, Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang, who have always loved her affectionately. Only by saying goodbye to the wrong person can we meet the right person. Because her personality is too sensitive. Perhaps, the marriage relationship between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng was too hasty and hasty. Therefore, he failed to see Feng Huacheng's true face, so he entrusted his body and mind to him.
In real life, there are many people like "Feng Huacheng" who say they love you on the surface and claim that they will always be kind to you, but in reality, they are either looking for confidence in you or want to pursue your social status.
They can't love someone with all their heart because there's no one they deserve to love. In their lives, there is only one man who silently guards themselves. Therefore, they will definitely not be like Zhou Rong, who is not bound by the world and travels all over the world for true love.
2. Zhou Rong is a very careful person, and her lifestyle is more cautious and careful than others.
On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve, the members of the Zhou family finally gathered together. He said that the Spring Festival is a very important day in my life, and I want to live it well. Zhou Zhigang took his family and sent New Year's greetings from house to house in Photon Tablets. His father was the only female teacher in the family. For Zhou Zhigang, it is undoubtedly a supreme honor for two college students who won photon tablets in Zhou's house. As parents, what they crave most is to hear praise from others about their children.
Facing the praise of the villagers, Zhou Zhigang smiled very happily. But Zhou Bingkun, who was standing in the corner with an expressionless face, was missing. "I am a man of conscience!In order to take care of his mother who was in a coma and the daughter left behind by Zhou Rong, Zhou Bingkun devoted himself wholeheartedly to the family's financial support. Although Zhou Bingkun may not bring good luck to Zhou Zhigang, the Zhou family still needs Zhou Bingkun's existence.
Zhou Rong was keenly aware of Zhou Bingkun's inner depression, she quietly approached him and told him: "Don't bother with them, this group of ordinary citizens." If it weren't for the trouble I had caused you, you should have had the opportunity to go to university to study Xi. "What's that?".Zhou Bingkun smiled slightly, pretending not to care, claiming that he did not care about the social status of college students. His mother was an ordinary rural woman. He may not really care, but he just as craves the approval of his parents.
Zhou Rong witnessed all this and remembered it deeply. "I'm a college student, I should help other people get right, not work for myself to make money!She has always been grateful to Zhou Bingkun because he can help take care of Feng Yue, otherwise she might not be able to enter the university. It is for this reason that Zhou Rong always keeps Zhou Bingkun's affairs in mind.
There is a conflict between Zhou Bingkun and his father, Zhou Rong, who is always preoccupied and tries to find a way to reconcile and help them rebuild their old friendship. After Zhou Bingkun resigned from his position at the soy sauce factory, Zhou Rong began to worry that her brother might not have a stable job and tried to convince him.
Many people believe that Zhou Rong is an overly selfish person who only cares about her dreams and career, and completely ignores the predicament faced by Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan. Therefore, Feng Yue has been abandoned by Zhou Bingkun's side. I don't actually agree with that view. Initially, Zhou Rong took Feng Yue and Feng Huacheng back home, but she didn't expect that a poem written by Feng Huacheng on the way would deprive them of their freedom.
After that incident, when Zhou Rong planned to pick Feng Yue back again, she found that Feng Yue had developed a deep relationship with Zhou Nan and Zheng Juan. Even when he fell asleep at night, he shouted loudly not to look for Zhou Rong. Zhou Rong has always been a respectful person, and her carefulness and thoughtfulness made her not want to force Feng Yue, so she did not rush to take Feng Yue back.
As time passed, Feng Yue gradually grew up, and the bond between him and Zhou Rong became more estranged. When the mother and daughter stand together, their strangeness is like a stranger. Her parents were both military and colonels in the army. When Zhou Rong realized that Feng Yue had a good impression of Zhou Nan, her heart was very sensitive and she didn't dare to openly object, so she could only work silently to try to avoid the impulsive behavior of the two children when they were young and ignorant.
In fact, Zhou Rong has always been a very careful person, but her lifestyle is too idealistic. There is no deliberate concern for social reality and personal destiny in her poetic works, nor is there a description of the details of life, but a kind of calm and profound thinking. Feng Huacheng looks for a mentor to vote for his poems, but Zhou Rong is more concerned not about the possible benefits that his poems may bring to the whole family after winning the award, but is afraid that it will cause unnecessary trouble to the mentor. It's not that Zhou Rong doesn't understand the importance of the award to Feng Huacheng and the whole family, she just doesn't want to bother her mentor because of it.
Wang Zi often went to the house to look for Feng Huacheng, and these times were unexpectedly seen by Zhou Rong. Everyone has had a young life, and it was difficult for Zhou Rong to perceive her deep admiration for Feng Huacheng from Wang Zi's gaze. However, Zhou Rong didn't seem to receive enough attention, at least her attitude at home was a little unhappy like Zheng Juan did when she met Sun Xiaoning.
However, Zhou Rong does not have such beliefs, she has trust in Feng Huacheng, has faith in their marriage, and believes that Feng Huacheng's love will never change. Therefore, Zhou Rong was very careful to protect this affection and never did any unreasonable behavior.
Occasionally, witnessing Zhou Rong's caution, I feel that she is too pitiful. In fact, she is also a compassionate woman, but in her eyes, selfishness and kindness are not important. In real life, how is it possible for someone who is truly self-centered to keep mentioning him?
At the end of the day, Zhou Rong's lifestyle is too idealistic.
3, Zhou Rong is the kind of person who doesn't want to take shortcuts and doesn't want to pretend to be a woman, such a person is really rare in the world.
Feng Huacheng is very proud of his poems, because he won the first prize in the Writers Guild competition. He wondered if he could get the post of Vice-PresidentI believe that I can be named "Executive Vice President" by the end of the year and be eligible for housing allocation. He thought to himself that his deputy "chairman" was big enough. Contrary to everyone's expectations, things were not absolute, and the change of the Writers' Association and the division plan at the end of the year failed to materialize.
In order to bring Feng Yue home to live as soon as possible, Feng Huacheng made a suggestion, that is, let Zhou Rong go to the school to find contacts and give gifts to get the opportunity to allocate a room. With his last experience in "gift-giving", Feng Huacheng firmly believes that in order to successfully complete any task, it must be achieved by building a good relationship.
However, when Zhou Rong heard the word "gift-giving", she felt extreme heartache. Because she knew that she was already a person who had no mental preparation and ability to accept gifts from others. Although Zhou Rong can endure the hardships of material life, it is difficult to bear on the spiritual level. ”
For Zhou Rong, she firmly believes that the effort she puts in is the most important thing, and she is not willing to take shortcuts or the "vulgar" way of getting closer, although she has also suffered some difficulties because of this, Zhou Rong still wants to stick to her principles and does not want to take shortcuts. "There are a lot of situations where we need to keep a low profile. On this point, some people think that Zhou Rong's lifestyle lacks human touch, but I personally don't think Zhou Rong's "persistence" is wrong.
Because in most cases, people will see themselves as an equal, so everyone can be "strong" and not replaced by others. If everyone is comparing whose relationship is harder, then nothing will be fair, because "reincarnation" is the representation of everything.
For the average person, this is undoubtedly a deeply hopeless thing.
Especially people like Feng Huacheng, they have no background and no background, but with their rich knowledge, they have never been able to stabilize their position. In this day and age, this ethos is easy to catch on and hard to change. Feng Huawei was supposed to stand on the opposite side of this social atmosphere, but he felt that he was "alienated" by materialism. He even thinks that Zhou Rong sticks to her "bottom line" and "principles" in the process of pursuing real estate, which is simply a joke.
Feng Huacheng believes that with Zhou Rong's rich experience, she is fully capable of being assigned two rooms and a living room in advance in order to bring her daughter to live with her. That's what she was all about. Despite this, Zhou Rong still insisted on the ironic "principle", thus wasting precious time. Perhaps, Feng Huacheng and Zhou Rong are not in the same camp in essence. Feng Huacheng was ignorant of Zhou Rong's firm stance, and similarly, Zhou Rong was puzzled by Feng Huacheng's vulgar behavior. Their failure in love is doomed. Even if Wang Zi is not there, the marriage between her and Feng Huacheng is only formal.
As Cai Xiaoguang said, Zhou Rong completely lacks that kind of "feminine charm", and she can't meet Feng Huacheng's needs. That winter, Zhou Rong was finally assigned a two-bedroom room, which was supposed to be something that made everyone happy. Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng had a fierce dispute over Feng Yue's issue, Zhou Rong angrily told the "truth" and accused Feng Huacheng of not only giving gifts but also running away, and in the end the two did not spend the rest of their lives together.
Zhou Rong cannot be called "sober in the world" because her lifestyle is too idealistic. Her marriage was born out of a love affair between her and her husband. According to Cai Xiaoguang's description, Zhou Rong experienced many twists and turns in the first half of her life, and she experienced countless ups and downs. When I was studying in college, I liked to watch martial arts**. In this era of romance, people travel to the mountains in search of true love;In the real years, I was crawling in the countryside. In this era of knowledge, he successfully entered the university and subsequently went on to pursue graduate and doctoral degrees.
Before marriage, he was favored by his parents and conceded by his brothers;After marriage, the children do not need to be raised by themselves, and the husband is the head of the household, taking care of tidying and cooking.
Zhou Rong's life is going very well, so her heart is full of pride, pride and ideals. The most important part of her character is her superiority. As a result, people are more likely to act like a "nuanced egoist" when they say the "least popular" thing. In the eyes of many people, she is a woman who is not so perfect, a woman who is not understood and trusted. But in fact, compared with Feng Huacheng's vulgarity, Zhou Rong just lives a sober life and lives too idealized, that's it.
Therefore, Zhou Rong did not understand that frank words can hurt people's hearts the most. Most men do not favor women who are "tough", they are more inclined to appreciate women's ability to "show weakness" and appreciate the reverence they can show in all aspects. Because true love is built on reverence. Feng Huacheng was very concerned about Zhou Rong's evaluation of him, and it was for this reason that he felt extremely painful and chose to go to Wang Zi. In the final analysis, Feng Huacheng's feelings for Zhou Rong are not deep.