Title:"In marriage, the AA system becomes a passive marriage room decoration, and you buy out 10,000 or the wall skin is at your disposal"
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My name is Zhang Li, I am 28 years old, and I am a project manager for a construction company.
Two years ago, I met my current girlfriend Li Mei through a blind date.
Li Mei is one year younger than me, with outstanding appearance and a cheerful and generous personality.
We quickly discovered each other's common interests and got engaged a year later.
After we got engaged, we started to prepare for the wedding, and finding a house and decorating it became our biggest headache at the moment.
Meimei, let's get married and buy a house, why don't we buy it together?One day at dinner, I suggested, "You see that the economic conditions of the two of us are different, if you only rely on me to buy a house, you may not be able to afford too good."
But if you're halfway there, we can buy a better and bigger house.
The renovation cost can also be shared, and it won't be too hard.
Do you think it's okay?Li Mei frowned, hesitated for a moment and said, "I think it's better to decorate it all-inclusively."
My home is in better condition, and I can only rest assured that I use the best material quality.
Don't worry about it, just focus on your work and make money. ”
I'm a little embarrassed, after all, she has a good family, but I also have a strong sense of self-esteem: "Then it can't be completely dependent on your family, right?"No matter how much money you spend, you have to stop in moderation.
We young people have just started their social life, and there is still a long way to go in the future. ”
Isn't it great that money can make ghosts grind, and we can do a good job of decoration at one time, and we don't have to worry about it for many years to come?Li Mei was resolute.
I still want to debate, Li Mei has already started to look at the magazine to choose a house.
She pointed to a luxury villa and said, "Just choose this, I think it's very good, there are 3 bedrooms, 2 living rooms, 2 balconies, and the upper floors have a great view." ”
It would be a bit of a waste for the two of us to live in such a big house, right?I discouraged, "We don't need to be so extravagant when we just get married, we can buy a smaller one as a transition." ”
You're too conservative in this idea!Nowadays, young people get married and buy the biggest and best directly, and we don't have to worry too much. ”
Li Mei got impatient.
I was really embarrassed, on the one hand, I didn't want to spend too much money on Li Mei's family, and on the other hand, I couldn't afford to buy a house that was too good.
Otherwise, Meimei, let's buy it separately?You buy a big house you like and decorate it well, I'll buy a smaller one myself, and we'll discuss living after we get married"I tentatively proposed.
Buy it separately?What a strange idea you have!Li Mei immediately vetoed, "My parents don't agree that we will live separately after we get married." ”
Tell me, what do you want?"I'm in a hurry.
Like I said, I'll take care of every detail, and you'll just have to make enough money. ”
Li Mei said confidently.
I continued to sit down, smiled and said, "It's okay, we all have times when our emotions are out of control."
Now can we have a good talk?Li Mei nodded, motioning for me to start speaking.
I began to express myself slowly, hoping that she would understand my position.
I told her that I didn't mind that she was spending more money than me, but that I wanted to have a say and the opportunity to participate in decision-making on renovation issues.
I said that our home is not just hers, but the two of us who run and build it together.
After listening to my words, Li Mei was silent for a moment, and then sighed softly: "You're right, I'm a little selfish.
I didn't really take your feelings into account before, and I was wrong. ”
She looked at me with apologies in her eyes.
I breathed a sigh of relief and smiled at her and said, "Thank you for understanding and apologizing, it's important to our relationship." ”
We started to revisit the renovation issue, this time really as an equal and cooperative, we listened to each other's ideas and tried to find a solution that was satisfactory to both parties.
From that day on, our relationship was more stable.
We learned to respect each other, to listen, and to compromise, and to truly understand that marriage requires effort and dedication from both parties.
Together, we have planned a perfect renovation plan to create a warm home for the two of us.
We learned that our relationship can only be stronger through mutual understanding and acceptance.
In the days that followed, we faced all kinds of challenges in life together, grew together, and created our own happiness together.
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I was a little surprised, I didn't expect her to take the initiative to apologize: "Well, it's true that you are wrong, you should talk patiently instead of just leaving." ”
She lowered her head, "I've been thinking about it for the past few days, and what you said makes sense."
The decoration should be decided by two people, not by me alone. ”
That's right!I quickly chimed in.
Actually, I shouldn't have forced you to buy such an expensive house," Li Mei continued, "I went too far and ignored your feelings.
Can you forgive me?She looked up, tears welling up in her eyes, and I was overwhelmed for a moment.
Well. In fact, you are also confused for a while, and you didn't mean to. ”
I stammered in reply.
Thank you!Li Mei said happily, "I promise to change it in the future, and we will discuss the decoration well." ”
Well, no problem!I breathed a sigh of relief, "That's settled." ”
The atmosphere between the two was finally less tense.
We chatted about recent events while eating, and gradually regained the feeling of the past.
I understand that maintaining a relationship requires both parties to work together.
This quarrel made both Li Mei and I more mature.
I believe that our relationship will become stronger because of this, and our future life will be better.
Later, we also reached a consensus on the renovation issue and bought a small house that fit the budgets of both parties and was warm.
Every time I come home and see our little home, I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
This is the story of me and Li Mei.
Perhaps, as the old saying goes, "Quarrels are the only way to fall in love".
After reconciling with Li Mei, I began to seriously consider the decoration of our wedding room.
Although Li Mei agreed to let the two of them decide together, I am afraid that she still wants to engage in luxury and luxury.
So I wondered how I could express my thoughts and try to reach a consensus on the renovation budget.
One night, when the two of us were watching a movie together, I tentatively said, "Meimei, should we set a budget ceiling when we decorate?"For example, the repair fee is controlled within 300,000, do you think it's okay?Li Mei raised her eyebrows and looked at me: "300,000?."It may be a little tight, after all, the cost of renovation is so high now. ”
You can't spend too much, so it's better to save more and use it elsewhere. ”
I cautiously said, "If it's not enough, we can decorate it in stages, do the necessary first, and the rest will be enough, and then improve it when we have money." ”
Well. Li Mei thought for a while, "Then set an upper limit of 300,000 first, and then add it depending on the specific construction situation." ”
I breathed a sigh of relief, at least she was willing to accept a budget concept, which was already progress.
Then we started a week-long renovation market visit.
After visiting countless furniture and building materials stores, Li Mei decided to import wardrobes and tiles.
These two items add up to more than 100,000 yuan, accounting for the majority. ”
Good stuff, it's worth spending more. ”
Why don't we choose a high-quality one for the floor and wall, and save a little on the other?I suggested, "Now the domestic product is good, and you can save half of the budget." ”
Li Mei hesitated for a moment, and finally nodded: "It's okay, just buy imported floors, and domestic high-end brands of ceramic tiles can also be used." ”
After haggling, we basically settled on the renovation plan.
I also gradually realized the importance of discussing decisions with my partner, and Li Mei's ideas became more thoughtful and appropriate.
After the renovation officially began, I went to the site every day on vacation to supervise the work.
Li Mei also often came over to check the quality.
The two of us agreed on every detail around wiring, wall painting, furniture configuration, etc.
There are too many things, will the living room be too cluttered like this?"One day I looked at the living room that was about to fill up and asked Li Mei.
You're right!Li Mei said approvingly, "Let's make the coffee table one size smaller and reduce the shoe cabinet." ”
Before that, I'll take a few ** photos to record it, and see the effect when it's finished. ”
Great idea!Let's take a few shots. ”
And so, in the process of mutual compromise, our first love nest was finally completed.
Although there is no lavish mansion, it is enough for both of us to live a warm life.
How about our new home!Li Mei excitedly pulled me around every room.
Very satisfied!I laughed.
You see, with the savings in renovation costs, we can go on our honeymoon in Europe. ”
Okay, okay, you're right!I quickly chimed in.
Being able to build my own small family with my loved ones is my greatest happiness now.
As the first "home owner" of a new home, I feel immensely proud and happy.
All of this is the result of my efforts with Li Mei.
We have finally learned to understand and be considerate of each other.
Of course, there will be disagreements and disputes, but as long as you communicate calmly, you can clear up misunderstandings and strengthen relationships.
It also makes me more confident and looking forward to my future married life.
After the renovation was completed, Li Mei and I finally entered the palace of marriage.
Our wedding was simple and warm, with only friends and family invited, and was held in the hotel ballroom.
The bridegroom can kiss the bride. ”
The host said with a smile.
I slowly lifted Li Mei's red hijab, and when I saw her flushed face with a nervous smile, my heart beat faster.
Li Mei bit her lip and whispered.
I kissed her softly, and the guests and friends applauded.
We finally started our married life in earnest.
On the first night we moved into our new house, Li Mei and I excitedly walked around each room.
Oops, sleeping together after marriage feels really Xi. ”
Li Mei complained with a smile.
yes, I don't even know if I should sleep on the left or the right. ”
I laughed too. We were like two children, wandering and jumping in our own little home.
Here will be the story of our future lives.
Before I went to work the next day, I got up and made breakfast.
Although there were only egg sandwiches and milk, I carefully set them on the table and waited for Li Mei to get up and enjoy them with me.
Wow, husband, you can actually make breakfast!Li Mei said happily.
We're just starting a new life, and I'm going to try to be a good husband. ”
Then I'm going to try to be a good wife!Li Mei said jokingly.
In this way, we spent our first day of work happily.
When she went home in the evening, Li Mei was already busy in the kitchen.
I looked at the pots and pans and hurried over to help.
Let's do it together, you chop the vegetables, and I stir-fry. ”
Li Mei assigned the task.
Okay, Chef!I humorously said and gave a standard military salute.
The two dishes were a mess, but our first homemade dinner was barely finished.
Although it didn't taste very good, we still had a great time eating it.
In the future, we have to study the recipe carefully, and we can't always eat takeout. ”
No problem, I promise to learn from the chef. ”
After dinner, we sat on the balcony over tea and chatted.
Under the street lamps, there are occasional people hurrying by.
Cooking and washing dishes and other household chores, the two of us have to share equally. ”
Li Mei said seriously, "I won't do it all because I'm a girl." ”
Okay, I agree. ”
I said, "Housework is divided according to time, and whoever has time can do it." ”
During the small talk, Li Mei suddenly mentioned our previous quarrel.
Remember when you asked me to peel the wall?I was so angry at the time, it's kind of funny in retrospect. ”
She laughs. yes, we were very immature back then. ”
I'm also a little embarrassed.
Only after a quarrel can you understand each other better. ”
Li Mei held my hand, "Now every time I go home, I look at this new home with new eyes. ”
I nodded deeply and squeezed her hand.
We all aspire to this small home to be the starting point of our ideal life.
Such a simple and warm day is exactly what I yearn for the most after marriage.
With Li Mei, I feel that my life is complete and content.
I will work hard to make life happier and more fulfilling.
This is the story of my little family with Li Mei.
In this way, Li Mei and I began a smooth and sweet newlywed life.
We would go to the supermarket together to shop, go out to the movies or climb the mountains on the weekends.
One day, I worked late and got home past eleven o'clock.
Why did you come back so late?Are you so busy that you forget to eat again?She looked at me worriedly.
Sorry, the project was in a hurry, and I realized that it was so late. ”
It's okay, work matters.
I'll reheat your meal, and you go take a shower first. ”
I hurried to wash up, and when I came out, I found that Li Mei had reheated the dinner and put it on the table waiting for me.
Thank you for your hard work. ”
This is what I should do.
You work to earn money to support your family, and I take care of your life. ”
A warm power welled up in my heart, which made me feel even deeper about belonging to this home.
However, it was at this time that I received an urgent notice from the company.
A proposal from a large client needed to be revised in two days, which was very stressful for my team.
What's wrong?"Li Mei didn't look right at me.
I explained the situation to her, and I had to go back to the office overnight to work overtime to catch up.
Okay, you eat quickly, I'll help you prepare some supper.
The company is close to home, and I can send it to you if you need it. ”
Li Mei said immediately.
I was moved and a little self-reproachful, and said again and again: "It's too troublesome for you, I can solve it myself." ”
There's nothing troublesome, I'm your helper!Li Mei said firmly.
So that night, I went back to work.
Colleagues are already on standby, ready to work overnight.
I distribute the tasks, and everyone immediately gets to work.
At two o'clock in the morning, Li Mei really came to the company and brought me insulated rice and black tea.
My colleagues lamented that I had found a virtuous and beautiful wife.
I also smiled and said that I was the happiest person.
Two hours passed, and the design was finally revised.
I gave Li Mei a **, and she hasn't slept yet.
So she drove me to the company to pick me up.
When I got home, I was exhausted.
After Li Mei helped me massage and relax, I fell asleep.
Wake up the next day with hot milk and sticky notes on the bedside table: "Good morning, my Superman!".Go for it today, too!"This sweet note has been a shot in the arm for me when dealing with all kinds of work pressures.
With Li Mei by my side, I felt fearless.
The difficulties in life will always pass, but having true love is the greatest happiness.
The story of Li Mei and I is still very long, but I am already full of confidence in my future life.