In order to reduce expenses, the husband lives with his wife AA, and the mother asks his wife to pay for it after she is hospitalized
Some men may seem plain at first, but as time goes on, as you get to the bottom of it, you may find that he is not as perfect as he first appears. When this happens when you have a family and have children, the marriage may not be affected too much, and the only person who may be dissatisfied with you is this man. However, life goes on.
Until one day, you suddenly discover that this man is far from being as acceptable on the inside, and you finally make up your mind to divorce him.
Cao Lei is a relatively frugal person. Soon after his marriage, he proposed an AA system for household expenses in order to be able to save his own salary. He told his wife that she could use her salary as she pleased, and he even said that he didn't need his wife to worry about her parents.
Cao Lei does implement the principle of AA consumption in his life, and will transfer his living expenses to his wife in advance every month, and he never asks about the normal expenses of the family.
However, Cao Lei handed over all the remaining money from the AA system to his mother-in-law, and asked her mother-in-law to keep the money properly and take it out when needed.
When this money was used passively, it was when Cao Lei's younger brother got married. Because of the financial situation of the in-laws, the wedding and the down payment of the new house after the bride price of the woman is used up are a little difficult, and even the new car cannot be bought. The mother-in-law used Cao Lei's deposit, and Cao Lei was also aware of it at that time. He didn't have much opinion on using his savings to help his younger brother marry his daughter-in-law, especially when his younger brother said that he would share more responsibilities for the elderly in the future.
However, unfortunately, more than two months after Cao Lei's younger brother got married, her mother-in-law was rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment because of a heart attack caused by some kind of stimulation, but she did not have enough money on hand. Cao Lei could only find his wife for help.
Daughter-in-law, my mother is now in the hospital, can you lend me tens of thousands of yuan, and then take a week off to take care of her, this time I owe you, and I will pay you back later. The main reason is that I can't take any more leave, and if I take any more leave, I will lose my job. Cao Lei anxiously called his wife **.
Didn't I say it before, my parents don't have to worry about it, not to mention that I don't have any money in my hands, how can I have extra money for my children's expenses. ”
How can you have no money in your hands, the consumption at home is all AA expenditure, you hurry up and find a way to raise money for me, I will wait for you in the hospital. Cao Lei didn't believe that his wife really didn't have any money in her hands.
Cao Lei, let me tell you clearly, I really don't have any money. When I was confined, you said something to me, this is my puerperium, and you didn't give me money. Moreover, when you went back to my house, I bought the gifts for my parents myself. You said that they were my parents, and since that's the case, now my mother-in-law is in the hospital and has nothing to do with me, she is your mother, not mine. Besides, the brother-in-law has just gotten married, and he should have money in hand, so you want to go to him. The daughter-in-law told all the grievances over the years.
I lent you this money, and besides, filial piety is something you should do, and you don't want to do any of it. Cao Lei's tone was conflicting.
You are a good brother and a good son, but you are not a good husband, let alone a good father. Since you think so, let's divorce, and I don't want to take advantage of your family. The wife did not hesitate to file for divorce.
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