Recently, the economic environment has not been good, and I often see news of some adult collapses.
The collapse of adults often happens in every casual moment.
It's like a string that follows it suddenly breaks, grievances and helplessness come from all directions;
It's overwhelming.
Why is it that sometimes the reason for our collapse seems to others to be hypocritical and trivial?
This is because everyone's life season is different.
Snowflakes are normal in winter, but they can be overwhelming in spring.
For some, life is like a long winter;
Those flying snowflakes seem insignificant.
And for others.
Life is like a warm spring, a sudden storm;
It can touch their hearts deeply.
I used to wonder why people who grew up in good times;
When you encounter a little emotional setback, you feel unbearable
Later I understood that because their lives had always been spring, they couldn't stand the sudden cold.
And those who have experienced darkness, compared to the pressure of survival;
Some small setbacks seem insignificant, and they don't care about them.
I remember a friend crying when he was drunk, and I thought he was too hypocritical, until my own pain was also despised by others
I just remembered Mr. Lu Xun's words, the joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same.
We all have our limitations.
Those who have lived for a long time in winter may have become Xi to wind and snow.
When he stands in the spring, even if it is a breeze.
It will also make him feel piercing.
Suffering gives us perseverance, but it also brings us arrogance
It is difficult to understand the cold of spring.
It's because suffering has questions he can't answer, and happiness is profound that he can't see.
People in the spring are actually colder than people in the winter;
It's just that others can't feel it.
Eventually, they themselves will think that they shouldn't feel the cold;
The deepest empathy in life is Lamei, who stands proudly in the ice and snow;
Understand the fragility of spring flowers.
The moment when he melted the coldness of others into his own life;
His vision finally transcends the limits of the season.
Some people are lucky to live in spring all their lives, while others are not so lucky and experience the change of seasons.
Even more unfortunate are those who only stay for a short time in the spring;
He who has entered the eternal winter.
But the world is both fair and unfair, fortunate and unlucky;
The lucky ones enjoy more warmth, but the pain doesn't avoid them either.
Instead, it weighs heavily on them in a way that others can't see.
For them, that could be the weight of life they can't bear.
I would say that adult breakdowns are never hypocritical;
It's just that most people can't empathize.
What do you say, friends?