A person's maturity can often be judged by whether his student's thinking is obvious. Those who lack the scheming and city government are often more likely to show the characteristics of students' thinking. So, how can you change this situation and make yourself mature?
First of all, you need to refine your thinking. A person's way of thinking and ability to think are key factors in determining their maturity. In order to change their students' thinking, they need to continue to learn Xi, think and practice, and improve their cognitive level and thinking ability. At the same time, we must also learn to look at problems from different perspectives, and learn to think backwards, divergent thinking and other ways of thinking, so as to better deal with various complex situations.
Secondly, we must cultivate our own scheming and city government. To be a man must be scheming and to do things skillfully, which is a necessary quality for mature people. To cultivate one's scheming and the city, you need to learn to observe words and feelings, figure out people's hearts, be good at handling interpersonal relationships, and master certain social skills and communication skills. At the same time, we should also learn to control our emotions, words and deeds, and maintain a calm and rational attitude to better cope with various challenges and difficulties.
When we look back on our own growth process, we will find that the thinking Xi habits formed during the study stage often accompany us into society. However, there are times when these "student mindsets" can hinder our growth and development. The following four types of "student thinking" manifest themselves more clearly when a person is more immature, see if you have been tricked.
1. Over-reliance on others.
When we were students, we often relied on our teachers and classmates to solve problems. However, in society, we need to learn to think and act independently. Over-reliance on others will only cause us to lose our autonomy and independence, hindering our growth and development.
2. Lack of sense of responsibility.
On campus, we often don't have to take on too much responsibility because everything is arranged for us by teachers and parents. However, in society, we need to take responsibility for our actions and take our own responsibility. A lack of accountability can make us lazy and irresponsible, affecting our career development and relationships.
3. Lack of patience and perseverance.
When we are students, we tend to focus only on immediate grades and results, and lack patience and perseverance to pursue long-term goals. In society, we need to learn to persevere in the pursuit of our goals and persevere even in the face of setbacks. Lack of patience and perseverance can make us impetuous, easy to give up, affecting our professional development and personal growth.
Fourth, there is a lack of communication and cooperation.
On campus, we often only need to focus on our own Xi and grades, and do not need to communicate and cooperate with others too much. However, in society, we need to learn to communicate and cooperate with others in order to better accomplish tasks and solve problems. A lack of communication and cooperation can make us lonely and unsociable, affecting our career development and relationships.
In short, student thinking is not something that is completely bad, it represents the effort and dedication we have had. However, when we enter society, we need to learn to get rid of the shackles of these thinking Xi and face life and work with a more mature and independent attitude.
Finally, I recommend two good books: "Reversing Thinking" and "Being a Man Must Be Scheming, and Doing Things Must Be Skillful". "Reverse Thinking" can help us to think outside the conventional mode of thinking and look at problems from different perspectives to better cope with various complex situations. "Be a man, do things with skill" can help us cultivate our scheming and city government, master certain social skills and communication skills, so as to better cope with various challenges and difficulties.