My mother spent the whole day sorting out the books, and this "touching" teaching method was really breathless.
Family education plays a vital role in a child's development. It is only through high-quality family education that our children will be better developed and achieve better results. However, this critical element is often overlooked or mishandled by parents, which can have a negative impact on children's development.
Although the greatness of parents was praised in ancient times, there is also an old proverb: "There is no unfilial parent in the world", however, it turns out that many parents do not fulfill their responsibilities. Some people ostensibly want the good of their children, but in fact they are simply driven by their own selfishness.
With the increasing popularity of the Internet, people's demand for sharing on the Internet is becoming more and more intense, but there are also many worrying problems, which have also exposed many problems, including some problems that are difficult to accept.
A mother is in the corner of the book all day long, and such a teaching method of "impressing herself" can indeed be suffocating. With the arrival of the new year, students have embarked on the journey back to school, as parents, of course, we must also make adequate arrangements for our children to ensure the normal operation of the school. Some parents think that they are "preparing with their hearts" are actually behind the scenes.
A mom shared online that she spends her days carefully packing the corners of books and taping them to prevent them from being bent or broken.
Many times, children don't notice such subtle things, or they don't take their backpacks seriously. Many parents have the experience of breaking their children's school bags during a semester, and they deeply experience that frustration.
In order to prevent the child from suffering from such problems, the parent showed a very careful attitude. However, some netizens believe that this is a self-inflicted performance and lash out at her. Others said: She has too much time to teach her children to cherish textbooks. There are also people who are worried: "If her son does not do well in the exam, she will blame him because he worked in the bookstore for a day, and his son, who did not study well, how will he repay him?".”
Some netizens agreed, saying that the situation was really uncomfortable. The mother probably didn't expect that just announcing her ** would cause so many people's opposition and accusations. But the question is, what did she do wrong?
Now many people have their own opinions, and this mother doesn't have to care too much, just concentrate on being herself. In my opinion, this mother did not do anything wrong, she was just a good heart, afraid that the child would not cherish the book, so she wrapped the corners of the book in advance. In fact, the problem lies with some people, who just make judgments based on their own opinions without fully investigating clearly.
There are indeed a lot of parents to"Good for the kids"In the name, take one"Moral kidnapping"but often impose their own hard work and dedication on their children, just to live their own feelings, as if everything is their fault.
Mother wouldn't do that, she just wrapped up a corner of the book, maybe because of the homework the teacher gave her, maybe it was her own decision. So, if a mother cares a lot about her child and she wants to do her best to be good to her child, then she has no reason to blame her.
As the saying goes, "no one is perfect", especially for first-time parents, on the road of life, there will inevitably be mistakes. There is no need to overemphasize and criticize repeatedly, parents can listen to opinions and correct their own shortcomings.
At the beginning of the new year, children will face a lot of difficulties, and parents should also be fully mentally prepared. After the summer, students start new Xi, some of them move up their ranks, some skip higher stages, such as from kindergarten to primary school, or to secondary school. The new university life presents them with a lot of challenges.
Especially after the promotion, they have to adjust their teaching methods as soon as possible and face more difficult academic tasks. In order to solve this problem, it is necessary to spend more effort under the guidance of teachers and explore a set of appropriate methods and techniques to make progress with teachers.
Some students will inevitably have confusion and emotional ups and downs in the process of learning Xi, resulting in anxiety. In this regard, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children, grasp the ideological dynamics of their children, give help and guidance, and avoid their children from going to a dead end, which will bring adverse consequences to their academic Xi and physical health.
Xi must not be done alone, but is closely linked to parents. Children's growth and learning Xi are often guided and motivated by their parents. We can't make the mistake of thinking that with just one teacher, everything can be taken care of, and we can't expect them to wake up on their own, it's too late.
Parents should also be ready to fight at all times, and if they want their children to be "other people's children", they should also set an example in the way of "other people's parents", develop good XiXi learning habits, strong self-management ability and initiative. Only in this way can the students be truly reassured.
When the child grows up, so do the parents. They want to make time for themselves and their children. In particular, parents should re-examine their own teaching methods, do not let the previous generation continue to make mistakes, learn to respect and understand their children, and put themselves in their children's shoes. Only in this way can students achieve real and sound development.
Each family has its own methods and ideas for this mother's "book-packing" move, and parents should pay full attention to the healthy development of their children.