With her perseverance and thirst for knowledge, 35-year-old Ms. Chen, who was born in a rural area, was admitted to a major university and worked in a foreign company after graduation, realizing her dream. However, her emotional experience is full of twists and turns.
Miss Chen's beauty and excellence have given her a higher standard for choosing a mate. She hopes to find a man with a house and a car and good economic conditions, thinking that such a man can be worthy of her. However, the cruelty of reality has put her in a difficult situation.
As she grew older, Ms. Chan became more and more anxious. Her peers are married, have children, and live happily ever after, but she is alone. The urging of her parents and the arrangement of blind dates made her more stressed.
Despite Miss Chen's excellent conditions, she is too demanding of men, which makes her repeatedly frustrated in her search for a marriage partner. Blind date** arranged many blind dates for her with good conditions, but when they learned her age and requirements, they all chose to leave.
Miss Chen's single status made her feel lost and helpless. She thinks that her conditions are enough for her to marry a rich man and live a privileged life. However, this is not the case. Age and fertility problems have become her hard injuries, and her high requirements have also discouraged men.
Regarding Miss Chen's experience, netizens have different opinions. Some people think that she should stick to the bottom line and not marry a man with no money, otherwise she will regret it for the rest of her life;Some people also criticized her for being so ambitious, and she should marry a good man and live a normal life. Others teased her that she deserved a good man, but reminded her to hurry.
As a bystander, the author believes that marriage is an important part of life, and everyone hopes to find a satisfactory other half and form a happy family. Miss Chan is in excellent condition and qualified to make demands on men, but her demands do not match reality.
Would she be happy if she were asked to choose a rich man as her partner?This is a question worth pondering. But in any case, marriage requires sincerity and compromise on both sides, and only by finding someone who is truly suitable for each other can we move towards a happy married life together.
I hope that Miss Chen can face up to her own problems, adjust her expectations, and find her own happiness.