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It is said that men always want their women to change all the time, and women are always the same;Women always want their men to remain the same until they die, while men are always changing.
Men usually don't like a woman who is as easy to see through as a blank sheet of paper, because such a woman cannot satisfy their curiosity.
That's why, the more women refuse, the more addicted men become.
If you can refuse the following three requests from your sweetheart, he will love you with all his heart and try again.
Reject his excessive dependence
In the early stages of a relationship, a man will show a strong dependence on his lover.
This over-dependence can be very satisfying for stupid women, but not for smart women.
They have their own rhythm of life and are not willing to change the original trajectory of life for anyone.
Therefore, when men are particularly dependent on them, these women will bravely refuse.
Of course, this is not a cold and straightforward refusal, but a tactful expression of one's wishes and feelings.
When a man receives this kind of thought from the other party, he usually thinks that she has a lot of personality and is very different from a sweet and greasy girl.
At this time, although you are rejected, the man will explore your personality with interest and will appreciate your independence and honesty very much.
At the same time, he will also treat this relationship more attentively, because he knows that the two parties are equal relations, you are not his vassal, and you have the possibility and right to leave him at any time.
Refuse his unreasonable demands
In a relationship, women are often more likely to choose to compromise for the sake of love, but men rarely do so.
Some men may make some unreasonable demands, there is no doubt that they are intentional, that is, they are testing the bottom line of women, so as to plan for the next step of getting along.
Even if they are just subconsciously not thinking about their partner's feelings, these men subconsciously lack respect for women.
If it does not involve moral and legal issues, and you think that this man can still want it, then correct his bad Xi in time and refuse any request that makes you uncomfortable.
Express your thoughts and feelings in a calm and rational manner, the other party accepts, the two continue, the other party refutes, and pulls down as soon as possible.
When a woman can refuse a man's unreasonable demands with a rational attitude, she will have scruples about convenience, and she will be attentive in her future relationship, and she knows that we will not obey him unconditionally at all times.
This is a warning not to do whatever he wants, we have our own principles and bottom lines, and we will not be lowered or changed by anyone.
Reject his over-giving
When many women fail in their relationship, they will always ask why they cherish this relationship very much, and the other party does not betray them, and the final result is to break up.
Most of these women have one thing in common, and that is - work.
They hope that their partners will treat themselves as little princesses all the time, holding them in the palm of their hands and caring for them, completely forgetting that the other party also needs care and love.
They take each other's efforts for granted, and the scales of love slowly tilt, eventually causing the man to be overwhelmed and go away.
is like Nan Jianlong in "Little Shede", who takes care of Aunt Zhao, but he can't get the company and care of his lover after he gets sick.
Nan Jianlongtou left Aunt Zhao without looking back, and chose the nanny Cai Juying.
Because Aunt Zhao doesn't understand that men also need to be responded to, so that the relationship can be maintained.
Many smart women understand this, they will reject the man's excessive giving to themselves and give him enough affirmation, which makes the man feel that he is always loved by the other person, so he is more willing to do something for the other person.
At this time, the man gets the information that his contribution is seen and valued by the other party, which is a very positive feedback.
When he receives the love and approval of his lover, he will be more willing to treat her with heart and cherish her.
In love, sometimes it is not a bad thing to refuse a man's request, and a proper and wise refusal will make the man value the relationship more.
As a woman, you must also not give up on yourself, do not wronged yourself, and do not think highly of yourself, so as to gain the respect of your partner and make the love of both parties more harmonious and beautiful.
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