The relationship between a man and a woman is variable, and sometimes even if two people have been together for a long time, it is possible to end up breaking up. But,
Some guys will keep contacting their ex-girlfriends after the breakup, and even try to get back together. This kind of behavior makes many people not understand,
It also bothered and confused the girls. First of all, for a boy, an ex-girlfriend is a life experience that he has gone through
And his past, too. Even with a new relationship, he can't completely forget the feelings and memories that his ex-girlfriend brings. Therefore,
Some guys still contact their ex-girlfriends after a breakup, hoping to get some emotional satisfaction or reconnect with the past.
However, this behavior often bothers and exhausts ex-girlfriends. Secondly, getting back together is not an easy thing to do.
If the reason for the breakup of two people is not resolved, the reunion may only be a momentary impulse and enthusiasm, which is difficult to maintain for a long time. Therefore,
If the boy is just lonely or wants to get back to the past, then new problems will arise soon after getting back together.
Finally, girls need to be clear about their attitudes and choices. If the boy's behavior has caused you distress and doubt
Then you may want to be honest with him and tell him what you think and feel.
If you feel that getting back together is meaningless or impossible, then decisively refuse his request, let yourself out of the shadow of broken love, and find new opportunities and happiness. In short, the relationship between men and women is complex and changeable, and there are no fixed standards and answers. However, whether it is a breakup or a reunion, you need a rational and mature attitude, and don't have too many expectations and illusions about the relationship. Only with a calm mind, full of confidence and hope for the future, can we move towards a better tomorrow.