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The Internet is such a great place to learn.
This "insight" is a derogatory term.
In the past few days, a short ** taken by a "big lady" has made netizens break their defenses.
The lives of rich people have been watched a lot on the Internet, and it is not surprising.
Why are netizens difficult to calm down this time?
Mainly**The copywriting is too heart-wrenching, and the girl wrote:
"In fact, in my eyes, 40,000 or 400,000 a month, there is no difference. ”
I don't think that a little less money will make a big gap in life. ”
Growing up in fairy tales, I didn't know what money or possessions were, and I just wanted a lot of love. ”
Indeed, judging from her **, she should not feel the gap caused by money.
In order to be comfortable in school, her parents bought her a house.
I had a dream of being a princess in my heart, and my parents decorated their home like a castle.
There are 40,000 yuan of pocket money a month, and large and small luxuries are Xi.
She may not have imagined that a daily routine shared by herself would make netizens in the comment area instantly anxious.
Someone laughs at himself. All the rich people who don't need money can put money on my card. ”
Looking at the pay slip, sometimes I can really laugh at myself. ”
Someone is playing a meme. Can Douyin have a poor man's version? ”
It's more melancholy.
I came out of class to run takeaways, and I earned less than 30 in total. ”
With 3000 a month, I still care what I love or not. ”
The joys and sorrows of people are really not connected.
The rich people's ups and downs are all disease-free moans in the eyes of the poor.
Seeing the ridicule in the comment area, the girl was surprised:
I don't understand, why I was scolded for some reason.
Is it also wrong to have money?
No one can decide where they come from, can they?
Having money is certainly not guilty.
I also don't recommend scolding a girl who is still in school.
But why do netizens have so much anger and complaints?
It is because such remarks that do not know the suffering of the world reflect a kind of elitist arrogance.
Rich people say to poor people that money is not important.
It's like a person who eats meat every day and goes to say to someone who is still starving that meat doesn't smell good at all.
It's frivolous and ridiculous.
It's not a mistake to live a privileged life.
But it is truly shameful to despise the suffering of others and lose empathy and understanding for others because of superiority.
How big is the difference between 40,000 and 400,000.
The average person may not be aware of it either.
Because a lot of people, have never had.
Two days ago, I saw a**.
An uncle, when he came out to look for work, was stolen from his mobile phone.
With no extra money in his body, he had to beg the restaurateur to hire him for a day's work.
The uncle said that it was okay to be dirty and tired, and he only needed a salary of 29 yuan.
Because the ticket home is 285。
In the eyes of some people, this is just a cup of milk tea money.
But this cup of milk tea is enough to stop a wanderer from going home.
Let a man who is nearly half a hundred years old let go of all his face and self-esteem.
Some netizens posted on the Internet that my mother packed her bags before going out to work.
All the clothes and belongings were stuffed in a snakeskin bag.
Some people in the comment area said that it costs to buy a suitcase?
The guy's reply was very heart-wrenching: the worst suitcase cost 80 yuan, and my mother's salary was only 50 a day and she was reluctant to buy it.
The gap in this world is really cruel at times.
Some people's biggest imagination for poverty is 40,000 yuan.
And some people, in order to save dozens of dollars, would rather carry the entire burden on their thin shoulders.
Alternatively, you can also go and look outside the hospital.
Grandpa, who was reluctant to buy himself even a steamed bun, brought a small pot and built a simple stove with bricks on the road to cook on a fire.
On the other side of the road, there are tall buildings and a lot of traffic.
And his dilapidation seems so out of place.
The money goes to those who are not short of money.
Love flows to those who do not lack love.
Those who are all over Qiluo are not silkworm breeders.
How can people who have never been short of money empathize with the importance of money?
But I think that no one should lack compassion for others, whether they are poor or rich.
What is compassion? Mo Yan said that compassion should be based on an understanding of people, understanding people's weaknesses.
I used to think that a compassionate soul was one that could help others when they were in trouble and comfort others when they were hurting.
But true compassion lies not in material help, but in deep empathy for the situation of others.
Even if we are Xi to the glory and prosperity of the world, we can still look to the corners where the sun does not shine.
Even if we have seen a lot of wealth and charm in front of us, we also know that some people have done their best just to live.
Be aware of the limitations of your own perspective, and by extension, your understanding of others.
From oneself to others, push and save others.
If not, even if you wear gold silk satin, you are just a monkey in the circus.
The Arrogance of the Elite discusses a problem called meritocracy.
What does that mean?
It is that some people take it for granted that limited social resources should be tilted towards people who perform better and achieve more.
The eldest lady who was ridiculed by netizens is.
PUA workers can't afford to buy Huaxizi, and so is Li Jiaqi, who doesn't work hard.
But they forget that from the moment they are born, there are huge differences and injustices between people.
They forget that some people will never have the advantages they have in their lifetime.
For example, the old man kneeling at the train station.
He was working in other places, approaching the Spring Festival, and wanted to buy a ticket to go home for the New Year.
But after coming to the station for 6 days in a row, I was told that all the tickets were sold out.
The conductor couldn't bear it and told him: "You go and buy it online, you won't go online, won't you go online?" ”
The uncle cried in despair: "I don't know how to surf the Internet, just sell me a copy if you ask for it." ”
The cruelty of life is that not everyone has a choice.
Not everyone can plan their life elegantly and calmly.
Many people can only finish the script given by fate on the established track.
We are not superior to them, and no one is superior to the other.
How many pretentious elites are actually just lucky versions of them.
There is a sentence in "Electric Light": "You don't have to feed the livestock, you don't have to spend time plowing the fields, your hands won't blister, and you don't have to worry about the weather." ”
If you have these, it only means that you are a lucky person.
There is only one thing you have to do, and that is to be grateful and cherish God's providence.
Instead of pointing fingers at other people's choices and lives.
Yishu once wrote: The sign of a person's true maturity is to find that there are fewer and fewer people to blame.
The reason is simple, everyone has their own difficulties, and you don't necessarily understand their lives.
We are Xi to look up to the bigger world and chase higher skies.
But the true nobility of human beings lies in their ability to look down on the world.
What is a top-down view?
The first is to know how to empathize and understand the difficulties of others.
I remember such a post that went viral on the Internet a long time ago.
Why do some people choose to run online car-hailing in the middle of the night, really asking for money and not dying?
Someone replied that I can understand that.
Because there are fewer cars late at night, the cost is lower, and there are more orders.
You can even save a fortune on air conditioning bills in the summer.
No one can fully empathize with someone else's life.
But you can try to understand each other and compare hearts to hearts.
The second is to learn to tolerate and seek common ground while reserving differences.
Understand the huge differences that each person has due to different families and environments.
Do not despise the humility of others, do not despise the differences of others.
Above people, treat people as people.
Under men, treat yourself as a man.
Because we understand, we are compassionate.
I hope that one day, even if we become strong, we will always have compassion.
Even if the world is at our fingertips, we can choose only one rose.