A few days ago, a wave of temperature dropped in Chengdu.
Many netizens said that they wrapped their autumn clothes and pants tightly overnight, otherwise they would be frozen "melons".
On that cold afternoon, a young takeaway guy finished delivering the last order at hand.
I ran for a day against the cold wind, and I was cold and tired.
So he walked into a nearby Starbucks and wanted to rest.
Even if he didn't order anything, the clerk also poured a cup of hot water for the little brother.
But a woman in a red dress in the store suddenly stood up.
Pointing at the little brother, he began to curse.
The customers present said that the woman scolded for a long time.
Just because she saw the takeaway ** on the little brother, she felt that a food delivery person was not worthy of entering the café.
"Why are you sitting here? ”
"Can you afford a diamond ring worth tens of thousands of dollars in the mall above? ”
"If you can't afford it, you dare to come here? ”
The clerk stepped forward to stop her, and she asked the family to quickly kick the little brother out.
One sentence at a time, not relenting.
"He polluted the air and I couldn't breathe. ”
"I definitely don't want to sit in the same place with him. ”
"Someone like him can never be on the same level as me. ”
During the whole process, the takeaway brother was silent.
At a loss, there is nothing to say.
A cup of coffee costs thirty or forty yuan, which is expensive, and he is reluctant.
However, a cup of coffee is only thirty or forty yuan, can it buy a person's dignity and personality?
Fortunately, no matter how aggressive she was, the clerk didn't condone it.
Then please come back next time, go slowly. ”
directly sent a gesture to the police, and by the way, called the police.
After that, the mall property intervened to persuade the woman to leave, and ** also criticized and educated her.
Now she immediately coaxed, stopped talking, and left stupidly.
The ending is comforting.
There are always some people who love to show their superiority.
I love to say what the family does, what the husband does, how much a dog is, how many suites there are in Beijing and Shanghai.
In short, I feel that I am superior, especially bullish.
Then they are all so awesome, do they dare to argue with any powerful people?
It's weird. They only dare to be [extraordinarily noble] in the presence of those who seem weaker than them.
In front of the sanitation workers, these people tend to be extraordinarily noble.
The professor, who had been abroad for more than 10 years and had a doctorate, returned to China and was hired with a high salary.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, I met a female sanitation worker who was cleaning up garbage and accidentally blocked her way with a garbage truck.
He dared to scold:
How much do you earn, how much do I earn, and you dare to stand in my way? ”
Then beat the sanitation workers who were "low" than themselves to the bloody faces.
In front of the waiter, these people are prone to be extraordinarily noble.
In a five-star hotel in Sanya, a female guest asked the front desk to give her a free late check-out until 4 p.m.
The waiter said that he would be charged part of the fee according to the regulations.
The woman pointed at her nose and yelled:
Do you know what year I started living in 5 stars? You dare to interject when I speak? ”
I have 100,000 followers, my dad is the president, and my brother drives 6 million Cullinan. ”
If it weren't for the fact that you were pregnant, I would have beaten you directly, and you would have been able to afford to pay after the beating...”
In front of the substitute driver, these people are easy to be extraordinarily noble.
On the streets of Shanghai, a drunk woman quarreled with the substitute driver for some reason, she shouted:
I'm a Shanghainese, you dare to mess with me? ”
Your monthly salary of 2,000 can be compared with my monthly salary of tens of thousands? ”
scolded, beaten, kicked, and smashed the little brother's head with a wooden stool.
The little brother really didn't dare to mess with her, so he could only hold his head in his hands and stand beside him aggrievedly.
In front of the flight attendants, these people tend to be extraordinarily noble.
is in a bad mood", so he deliberately threw the food on the ground of the dining car, and drank it like the king of heaven and ordered the attendant to clean it.
I won't eat, you serve me honestly. ”
That's what you're doing, and you have to ask for food. ”
Ordinary people who are diligent and conscientious just do their work seriously, and some people can't keep it from walking on their toes.
You have to spit on the ground to build up a sense of superiority.
It's like Ah Q in Weizhuang.
Master Zhao Si, who slapped him, he couldn't afford to recruit him.
Wang Hu, who dragged his head to hit the wall, he couldn't beat it.
The fake foreign devil who hit him on the head with a stick, he didn't dare to fight back.
I had to bully the only little nun who dared to bully, touch her newly shaved scalp, and say a few words to her.
A person is the bravest when he knows that he is safe.
They just know that these flat-headed people are weak and weak, honest and easy to bully, and they can't compete.
Only then did he dare to recklessly bang with a sense of superiority.
A blogger from Zhihu shared an experience.
She is the number one in the department, and there is a second in command below.
This colleague usually treats people decently, always greets each other with a smile, and speaks and does things in a good way.
She was invited to the house that day, and she went.
It just so happened that the nanny aunt hired by my colleague's family was also there, and the colleague instructed the aunt to quickly clean up here and there.
The aunt was panicked and busy.
As a result, her colleague was still chatting politely with her one second ago, and the next second she saw the traces of fruit wetting the glass table, and suddenly seemed to be a different person.
Furious, he questioned Auntie:
Why don't you do what I say? ”
Then viciously ordered:
Rub it with toothpaste three times until you can see your shadow! ”
The aunt was so frightened that she panicked, looked for toothpaste and fetched water, but her foot slipped and fell to the ground.
The colleague didn't even look at it, turned his head and put on a smiling face, and continued to talk to her softly.
She couldn't help but shudder: this person actually had two completely different faces.
From then on, she stayed as far away as she could.
She said"If a person is bullied, he will be afraid of him, without him, and human nature is also. ”
A person who loves to emphasize identity and status must be weak and strong.
There is no bottom line of contempt for those who are lower than themselves.
What is understanding, what is understanding, what is respect, too troublesome, too laborious, too unpleasant.
And for those who are higher than themselves, they are trying to find a way to meet them.
It's a pity that they can't see their own faces, and they think that this skilled face change is sophisticated.
It's funny, it's funny, it's low.
Actually? What is the so-called sense of superiority, but just like the host Meng Fei said:
Not from looks, stature, knowledge, family, wealth, status, achievement, and power.
It comes only from a lack of insight and a lack of compassion.
That's all. Once in an interview, Mo Yan mentioned one thing.
His home is far from the airport, but his daughter's house is close to the airport.
Every time he came back from a business trip, his family advised him to go to his daughter's house closer to rest first.
But Mo Yan was reluctant, and would rather go all the way back to his own home in the city center than go to his daughter's.
It's not that there is anything wrong with the father and daughter, but that he is afraid that the taxi driver will be unhappy.
You think, the driver who takes orders at the airport has been queuing for so long that it is finally his turn, but it turns out to be a close-range order that does not make much money.
Who is it for, and the heart is not lost?
So every time Mo Yan was tired, he had to go back to the city center, and occasionally he had to go to his daughter's house, and he apologized to the driver when he got in the car.
Then hand over the pre-prepared Chinese cigarettes as an apology.
Mo Yan laughed at himself:
I'm so unproductive, I'm always afraid that others will be unhappy. ”
Indeed, a great writer or celebrity who has won the Nobel Prize, how can he care about whether a taxi driver is happy or uncomfortable?
But what is called ox x, what is noble, I think this is called ox x, this is called noble.
It's not about his attitude towards his bosses, powerful people, and friends.
It's about whether he will take people who are "lower than him" in his eyes.
Treat people as human beings, and don't think of yourself as gods.
The soul that really makes people look up to the mountains is:
Start from not making things difficult for an ordinary takeaway or courier at will.
Start with respect for an ordinary waiter or flight attendant.
Start with not looking contemptuously at a cleaner, a migrant worker.
I really like Luo Yonghao's words many years ago:
"If you are a good person all your life, even if you don't achieve big things, you make the world a little better.
If you become a disgusting person, you feel as if you haven't done much evil, but you also make the world a little bit more disgusting.
Therefore, every life that comes into the world is destined to change the world. ”
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